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Sexual Health My boyfriend feels bad because he “can’t” make me cum?
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How do I encourage my boyfriend and help him help me reach an orgasm when we’re together?
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at your age it will not be easy, usually women need to make themselves cum before they can relax and allow others to make them cum... You need to be able to "Relax into it" and that isn't easy if it's your 1st time.
It is counter intuitive... "relax" ... into it basically if you are tense to begin with, the orgasm will never "Build". It needs to start from a place of "Peace"... (what the hell, I'm a 72 year old man, what do I know?)
Teach him what satisfies your body to get to the point of orgasm
Teach him what gets you off. Stop think guys automatically know. We don't.
That sounds frustrating
My wife's was like that's. I would do her first then let her do me
My friends younger sister was having the same problem with her boyfriend.
They told me one night, And i was telling him what to do. When it was just me and him in private.
he talked to his girlfriend and they wanted me to show them.
I showed him how to make his girlfriend cum, I did it first, Then he did it the 2nd time And now he knows how.
If you trust Sombody and are close to them, that know the female body,
dont be affraid to ask for help
By telling him what you need and want. If he's not open to listening to you, then that a problem of his that he has to work on.
Tell him ways you know help you orgasm, and what things to do and where. COMMUNICATE. He wants to please you. He's hurt that he can't. If you don't know yourself how to get an orgasm, experiment together. Try different things that feel good that relax you and that make you feel good. Biggest things are communicating and relaxing. Women who aren't relaxed and comfortable with what's happening won't be able to get release.
You mean those white liquids?
Foreplay. Have him eat you out. Touch your body. Kiss your body. Maybe blindfold you. Sensitize you. Then tell him exactly how you want it. My fiancée hops on my dick and cums in just a couple minutes. If I hit it from the back the same happens. Tell him what you want, how you want it. If he has a curve to his dick take that into account. My dick curves upwards so if I’m in missionary I need to fuck down, feels great for her. I cannot do reverse cowgirl. Also take into account his size if he is struggling to stay hard as a rock with the condom on go for a bigger size, it does wonders.
ohh you are one of those girls that take forever
simple he has to put in the extra work
nothing extra special
you just take a long time
I have been with both
sucks for you lol
Why does he feel bad because you have a problem orgasming? Take some responsibility for your own pleasure and take the pressure off of him.
https://www.yourtango.com/experts/chrystal-bougon/your-orgasm-your-responsibility
Why is it his job to make you cum?
Because if he doesn't she will go with someone else.
LOL I shouldn’t be laughing because that can be a true statement , Most girls act like guys can’t have complications in the sack , if he fails to please her she automatically assumes that he is selfish and only really cares about himself so she leans into cheating with another guy which is so wrong to do but that’s how most girl’s think , You can’t please me so I will go fuck someone else that can please me then she finds out that guy she cheated with couldn’t please her as well and then kicks herself in the ass and then tries to go back to the guy she cheated on , but by that time he has already moved on and considers her a slut , which sadly to say she is , cuz she was selfish , so Girls need to realize when a guy loves a girl he wants to please her , if he fails at it he feels like shit and will apologize , if he doesn’t apologize then yes he is just using you
Have you tried watching porn together?