It will only get worse the longer you are together. Just my opinion after putting up with this for years before leaving. In my case I didn't see the signs while we were dating. It just got worse as the years went by. Then I had four kids which made it very hard to leave. Left four months ago after being married for 20 years. Hard to regret it as I have four incredible kids but I did go through hell and back with his undeserved jealousy.
0 0 0 0I love him. I'm sure you loved your husband a long time ago. It doesn't get better?
I loved him very much. But in my experience it only gets worse. Near the end he said he was better that he was dealing with his issues but even if he didn't say anything I always thought he was thinking it. It's not really something they can turn off. If they're possessive they probably always will be. Question is can you live with that? I couldn't and was way to unhappy for way too many years. A little jealousy is one thing but to get mad about it if you haven't done anything to deserve it is another.
Men tend to get possessive its an instinctual thing when they love a woman because they dont want ANY other man to have that girl. he's a bit much based off of what you described but it just sounds like he loves you and wants you only because he cares that much sometimes guys dont express things in a rational or even quote on quote "normal" way, so this is his way of showing he really loves you. I'd be happy if i were you lol
1 0 0 0Thanks, I appreciate your advice. I'm happy, but he can be a bit much sometimes
Trust me ik the feeling lol
But dont be afraid to talk to him about how it makes you feel. Relationships survive on trust and communication.
Creepy possessive! It's hot when a guy says the "you're mine" thing until he starts thinking he owns your phone and shit. Let him feel like a man but do NOT let him treat you like his daughter, thinking he can take away your phone if boys text you. You're both grown & can talk to whoever you want. That's bull shit!!
1 0 0 0I hear what you're saying. I was so mad that he thought he could control who I can talk to and who I can't. I don't tell him who he can and can't talk to
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All you need to do is point out his hypocrisy. Point out how many female friends he has, and point out how much you trust him. If he still continues this behavior, THEN you break up with him.
2 0 0 0You are so right, he does the same thing, and it's not just his female friends I have to worry about his fans and groupies
"""he has a lot of women throwing themselves at him""""" <<<<<<<<<<<<he think you could do the same to ur male friends
2 0 0 0I've always been honest with him. He knows that I love him and I would never cheat on him
@asker ikr he is human has ideas he see things and these things give him expectation thats normal at least he care about you
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2 3There's a true saying my mom taight me and i found this to be true,"If someone is constantly accusing you of something, that means they're actually doing it themselves.
0 0 0 0So you think he's cheating
Yes he could be. Or he's highly insecure cuz he thinks he could lose u to someone else. But that's less than likely tbh
I haven't given him a reason to be insecure. And I'm always honest with him, how could he think he will lose me?
Are you sure he is not cheating?
1 0 0 0That's exactly what's going on. And he's insecure
I'm not going to say that I'm 100% sure that he's not, but I hope he's not.
Okay because guilt sometimes cause for a gut to act like that
Are you dating Lebron James?
3 0 0 0Lmfao this comment killed me!
Lol ikr? That was a good one
Well if you are he's married so you're a side chick, sorry 😕
Look if he really loves yu he will trust yu but if he is not doing it thn he dont love yu.
1 0 0 0He does love me
Its upon yu, yu can makeup yur mind as yu like for him but this is a truth that Trust is the roots of any relationship. And if yu dont have that the relationship dosent exists long.
That's true
He's a guy.
He knows that 99% of a girls 'friends' wants to bang her.0 0 0 0Even if that's true, he should trust me
It's not about you... it's about them other guys. Nobody likes someone creeping around to make moves on his lady.
I understand that because he has female friends and some of them will stop at nothing to get his attention. But I feel like if I trust him, he should trust me. And no one is creeping around. I wouldn't do that to him. He is so possessive. We were at the mall, and one of my friends saw us and he came over and gave me a hug. My boyfriend put his arm around me to pull me closer to him and he gave my friend the dirtiest look.
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