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Sexual Health My boyfriend keeps sending me porn?
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My boyfriend is realllly into porn, which I try my best to be okay with. I know I cannot force him to stop watching porn, so its my only choice. He likes to send me the videos he likes, to see if it will turn me on. He only likes one category of porn and sends videos like that over and over to me, new videos almost every day. So, naturally, I start to ask myself why he likes these videos so much. I notice that its big dick rough porn with tiny skinny women with giant asses. I'm average sized, nothing special about my body. I'm sick of seeing these perfect women that he is jacking off to because its making me feel horrible about myself. I asked him if these were the body types or types of girls he is attracted to since he is masturbating to them daily. And now he is very angry that I asked. He sends videos to me every day! How would I not ask or want to know the answer to this eventually? And now he's all like "no more porn for us!" an getting all angry with me. Personally, I dont have an issue with no more porn haha. Why is he so angry with me? Why is he denying he finds these women attractive if he is masturbating to them multiple times a day? Why is he trying to make me feel bad for asking? Is this something woth ending the relationship over? Its something we seem to clash about a lot. We have been together for over a year, so seeing these videos daily for a very long time is starting to annoy me a lot. Am I not enough for him? Not sexy enough? help.
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13 27Do you read romance novels?
No haha why
tell him that you have no problem with him watching porn but you don't want him sending it to you. the reason that he might be getting mad is that he feels that you are getting mad at him for watching it.
he needs help, he's addicted.
Compared to real addictions, it's not an addiction.
define a ''real'' addiction.
that's not your boyfriend, is he?
It's good time to walk away from him, he is obsessed with perfect image, and does not care about you.
Plus he is way to arrogant that he can't take a simple question from you. Run as fast as you can from a guy like that.
i knew i wasn't gonna like answers like these haha thanks!
Your Right! It's not okay ! Try making a hot porno together so that he can look at you hep hot for you nstead of other girls !
So, you think men aren't insecure about muscle and fitness magazines, women gawk at men like that and such. look, each gender likes certain things, thats a fact of life, but, if he's with you, he likes YOU, get over it, for fucking cris sakes
Why are you even putting up with this? If my boyfriend send me porn everyday, he would be out the door.
He is probably angry you think he likes them more than you and if he is acting this way as long as it doesn't escalate it isn't worth breaking up over
It doesn't sound to me like this guy has any feelings for you. The porn you have described is emotionless and it is all about the dick and that's how he wants your sex life to be.
Your boyfriend is not educated #Rule2 "never ever talk about a girl infront of your girl" let alone sending hot women acting porn vids, i am sure all women in your place will feel the same, just tell him to stop that stupid act. you want short answer you boyfriend is addicted to porn. try to discourage doing that, if he continues, leave him.
Does he have a porn dick? If not.. why would you become insecure because of a porn movie? Don't you focus on the dick anyway? You see how many insecure boys are on this website asking about penis size? Same damn thing. Just because we like to see monster cocks doesn't mean that we MUST HAVE IT AND REFUSE ALL MEN WHO DON'T.
But anyway I think it's unhealthy how often he watches porn and sends the videos to you. You have to really think if you want to continue with this guy. He sounds like an addict!
Masturbating everyday and using porn while he's in a relationship with you? That's not right! It's unhealthy!
you. i like you. also nah guys masturbate a lot, even sometimes when bored :P
Guys who spend this amount of time fantasising over porn are not living in the real world. The guy sounds immature and a little bit selfish. Personally, I'd never consider dating a guy like this. You'll end up living a life of misery in second place to a porn vid!
I think he still likes you for the way you look, he's just mad that he feels obligated to give up his little porn addiction. You need to tell him why it makes you feel uncomfortable about your own body.
I have tried. It only leads to him guilt tripping me.
Well, you may not want to hear this, but maybe it's time you move on from him.