Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend wants to have sex without a condom. I am still hesitant even though I'm on birth control. Just the smallest chance of me getting pregnant terrifies me even if it is only 1%.
My boyfriend tells me why he doesn't like condoms and I do respect his feelings, but at the same time I know I won't be able to fully relax during sex.
Could extra thin condoms be the solution to our problem?
My boyfriend wants to have sex without a condom but I am hesitant. What can we do?
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What Girls & Guys Said
11 31Break up with him, your body, your rules, if he won't accept them, then good bye,,,
Take pill
i do
Use emergency pill
If you don’t want it tell him, if he can’t follow orders, no fucky!
There is always anal
Not have sex without a condom.
He's a moron, at the very least in this subject.
He should respect your feelings too and get married. You still gonna need birth control later once you have 1 or 2 kids. So how is that going to work?
We used condoms between kids after not using them for 10 years.
You shouldn't be having a boyfriend at your age, you should be dating, not settling down
I think that is a personal thing. Some people date, some people are in a relationship and some people are 100% single
No, I'm telling you, you are too young
I’m not understanding how 18-24 is too young.
Because it is
No it isn’t. Everyone isn’t a pervert who wants to be old and miserable like you. I have been in a seven year relationship since I was 15. It is definitely not young. We’re just normal and sane people who value real relationships unlike you. Not everyone is frivolous and wants to waste their life.
yes it is
I’m with @sarahr123 I’ve been in a 20 year relationship since I was 18. We are also normal, sane people. :)
see how long it lasts
i bet you it falls apart. I GUARANDAMN TEE IT WILL
@gagsucksballs1 you think my 20 year marriage is going to fall apart? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
i guaran tee it
Nope don't do anything your not comfortable with doing
go with extra thin condoms.
it will be tension free for you and enjoyaable for both.
I respect the wishes of who I am with. I can put a thin condom on. Or I find it hot to pull out and cum all over her
You aren't comfortable. End of story. You didn't list his reasons, but my guess is it's ONLY because it feels the best for him (ie 100% selfish, unless he wants to get you pregnant?). So unless he has an allergic reaction or something, he's being totally selfish because it still feels good having one on. Not as good I agree, but good still. So this makes how you feel much more important here in my opinion. Yes you can compromise on thinner condoms, if you are ok with that. But are you really?
Break up with him.
As long as you are both disease-free then there is no issues because birth control is actually more effective than a condom when taken properly
I'd expect him to compromise here.
If you were married, things might have been different.
why would it be different?
Which form of birth control are you using? Is it the pill or implant? Or something else?
Fuck that.
Condom or GTFO
Well, he’ll just either cheat on you or break up if you don’t satasfy his urges so, choice is yours. Kinda lame how you make him wrap his penis and feel nothing because of an irrational fear. Buy a plan b pill and take it after. Problem solved lol
Are there actual men that break up with you for making them wear a condom? That’s sad. The effects of plan b on your body are not worth that kind of people, is not like it is a candy.
That’s terrible advice and sends the wrong message. A woman should never do something she’s not comfortable with. Including taking plan b. Plan b makes us so sick.
@loves2learn what are the negative side effects of plan b?
@moviedude714 profuse vomiting
@loves2learn anything else?
@moviedude714 it fucks with your cycle and takes a while to return to normal.
@loves2learn cycle, as in, does it affect a woman's periods? Is that what you mean?
@moviedude714 correct. It prevents ovulation. Makes you violently ill and throws off your period for a couple of months.
@loves2learn oh damn, I guess that's a sign that human nature was never meant to be interfered with like that, also, how soon does the plan b need to be taken in order for it to have an effect, that way in order to prevent the pregnancy?
I’ll pm you
My girlfriend has taken plan B multiple times and never once got sick
So my guess is she's on the pill or the implant
She’s lucky
It is said by gynaecologists that you can only take 2 times a year... you can imagine how potent it must be on the body.