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Hi, so basically my crush asked me for nudes. I've liked him for agesssss and I talk to him quite a bit. Recently he's been snapchatting me (he's always the one to snapchat first), and the other day he sent me one saying send me nudes? I was kinda confused and so I talked to him for a while but eventually I did give In and send him one of me but I wasn't completely topless. He was literally begging me to send him more and then the other day he asked again for nudes. Don't really know why he was doing this as I didn't think he was this ahem well *bold*, but anyway this time I didn't send another as he was with his mates and I told him If I sent one I didn't want him showing everyone. So I guess my question Is do you think he's just using me? Or likes me? He's always been kinda loud but nice as a person but as I say he is extremely attractive and I have liked him for ages so i dont know if I should just send him more or what? Thanks x
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18 35I won't ask for pics unless we are dating, or at least planning a date if we have known each other for a while. If you don't have plans for a date and he is asking for nudes he is probably using you.
He's using you, ditch him.
I won't... That isn't who I am. I am just not that type of person and I know its old fashion but no thanks. Its where I draw the line.
he isn´t "using" you. guys enjoy nudes of girls that are vaguely attractive to them. it doesn´t mean they are interested in more than sex or maybe sex. it could though. impossible to say.
*in more than pics
Have you ever gotten naked with him in real life?
noo I haven't, I wish XD
I think as a general rule you should get naked in person first.
Don't send him them when he's with his friends never! But guys like to receive nudes, just make sure it's private :)
If its just a crush, don't bother. What will you stand to gain from it? If he has the balls to ask for nudes, he has the balls to ask you out. If he hasn't asked you out then he's just get his rocks off at your expense. He definitely isn't worth it.
Seriously? DO NOT SEND HIM ANYTHING!!! Even if it's not completely topless or nude, don't send him anything. He doesn't respect you. Even if he did, once it's digital, it's really no way to get it back.
"So I guess my question Is do you think he's just using me? Or likes me? "
I don't know, since nudes are the "thing" now-a-days. Either way, if you don't feel comfortable, don't do it.
Also, he's a crush, not a boyfriend, right?
Forget sending him anymore, period.
It's a test to see if you want to have sex with him. We know nudes = girl wants to get laid. If he doesn't get them, he's likely to move on.
Just a side note, this is not all men, I don't practice this personally.
With out knowing the guy, I can't tell you whether or not he would keep the pics to himself.
But you can assume by default his mates will take turns at checking out his phone. From all the guys I have met (my self included) who mentioned having received nudes from a girl, I am the only one who kept them to my self. And I was about to share once I was through with her since my mates never met her and it is 99% unlikely they ever run into her. So yeah, you're taking a risk there.
If you send, you'll do the biggest mistake of your life.
Can't be too sure but since he's so desperate I guess he will definitely show it to his buddies... you can just never tell whether a guy will share them or not, it advisable that you don't send him any nudes
he will show your pict around
Not logical...
He doesn't love you, probably he will never... So wait and see what he will do. If he tend to love you he will be back and don't trust him :)
If you send that pic to ur lover, it is understandable but this isn't...
Kinda sounds like he's using you, I would say wait until you are in a relationship until you send nudes. Or possibly to someone who you can really trust. I would also recommend to never show your face in a nude since it won't be as bad if they leak to more people. Also remember that anyone can screencap a snap so be careful and have fun.
No nudes.. Ever..
I say don't do it. They will get out yo others. Once in the world always in the world.
Definitely using you. If he respected you he wouldn't asked for them but because he's *bold* he knows he'll get what he wants. That is not respectful for him to be with his boys and ask for them. Is he serious into actually being with you? Question him like why is it important I send you them (even though you shouldn't send them). Some guy I was really into did the same thing to me. Is he talking to at all these day? No.
Dont send more! he's using you and is nasty! It doesn't matter how attractive he is he can use them against you. Your body is a kingdom dont so easily let him see it like that...