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Sexual Health thank you i had a good time, he said. What the hell is that? As if I was a prostitute.
How would this message make you feel?
11 mo
My date texted me thanking me after we had sex. What should I feel?
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14 41At least he texted at all.. I mean how would you feel if he didn't talk to you again?
Don't be so quick to get offended, this is why men don't express themselves because women will overthink or use what they said as a weapon against them.
he's not a woman, we don't think like you.
A thank you is a thank you in man speak.
its not a slight, insult or anything else it would mean in woman speak.
Men speak in literals, there's nothing to translate here
Everyone has the right to feel differently about different things and no female is the same either just as no male is the same. The main thing is for everyone to express how they feel calmly and respectfully so each is on the same page about what they like and don't like and also give info on what they are okay with.
you asked how should you feel...
@ButterflyCuddles Yeah but it’s kinda extra to me. He said we had a good time there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s really like a compliment.
Feel however you want
Where I come from, saying thank you is good manners
Just take it as a compliment he's just trying to be nice imao
You should feel like you did a great job and he messaged you that because he probably wants more
He was just trying to be nice
Just don't read too far into it, but NOTE, if he thanked you, it must have been damn good if he felt the need to thank you!!! Except them "flowers", Sweetie. We don't really express what we are feeling enough. So embrace it!!!
Wow you are way over analyzing it.
I guess he was happy with you, as long as you are still seeing each other and not a one night stand there’s no reason to feel like a prostitute
My first thought is that he desperately wanted to lose his virginity to the point where it was causing him insecurity issues and weighed heavily on his mind. If that’s the case, he’s also complimenting you saying the sex was good. I know that’s weird but I know I would at least think strongly about saying that to whoever takes my virginity. I have fantasized about that moment multiple times (the thanking). I know I probably shouldn’t do that because it looks weak but that’s how I feel.
If he’s wasn’t a virgin, then I don’t know what that means but sounds like kind of like a goodbye.
Happened to me a lot, he just wants to move forward with some other girl.
I will only advice you to move on too, there's no point in hanging on to him and try not to make same mistake next time.
I dont think he meant it in a bad way