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My dudes how long does penetration last for you when having sex? Girls how long do you want it to last while fucking?

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10 minutes
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20 minutes
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25 minutes
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30 minutes or more
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  • It varies depending on the circumstances. If we don’t have much time it could be around five minutes. Typically, I tend to last 20 minutes. We sometimes go as long as an hour. She usually orgasms from penetration in about five minutes and has more orgasms after that.

    Some study showed the average duration of penetration was under five minutes. If you want to exceed that you’ll probably have no trouble figuring it out and if it is important to you to pleasure a woman you’ll probably figure that out too, so don’t worry about it.

    • KK, I was just wondering and was curious how long most guys last?

    • Average is under five minutes, so it is reasonable to assume most men last that long on average.

    • dam, so that's why they have tempo and other things.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • It really varies.

    the first one could literally be seconds with a new girlfriend and a lot of foreplay, literally as soon as you slide in you can pop lol..

    so it can go from that when having say 5th time and last fucking ages

    then if going for a session and pop a viagra etc, even longer

    Then you have cock rings

    Oh and of course alcohol

    • Oh, really so are you say ONS are bad because most guys won't last if it with a new girl? Why do they last too short with someone new?

    • It’s called be fucking excited and horny. It’s always best if both cum before sex.

    • Oh, your right. That's gonna be a problem for me when I do have sex lol

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, sometimes I could have sex all day. I also tend to like penetration itself more than orgasm (I am into BDSM and prolonged pleasure + pain).

    So I would say the more he can do it the better. But I also consider sex a skill and wouldn't judge a partner for lasting only a few minutes, provided he would let me make him slowly ready for longer sessions and prolonged pleasure.

    • @mia-wallace interesting

    • @ChrisMaster69 I hope I didn't give anyone the impression that I don't like orgasms. 🤷‍♀️ I simply think the journey is better.

    • @mia-wallace I was referring to the BDSM aspect lol

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  • It varies.

    There are times that I find it heavenly to make things last as long as possible.

    Other times... It's could you finish in me already.

    • oh, so do you get mad or bored if he doesn't last long? Or do you get horny knowing that you can make him cum so fast?

    • I've both learned how to slow him down and also make him cum in no time. I'm usually successful in both cases... and then again... sometimes his body doesn't cooperate !!!

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  • You skipped 15 dude. 🤣 It usually lasts 5-20 minutes. If I want a quicky, 5 is good. If I’m wanting something deeper (so to speak) 15-20. There’s a point for me where it can be too much of a good thing around 30+.

    • What if he pulls out and gives his attention elsewhere? Can you enjoy that?

    • I can and do. Sometimes when I’m dripping down his balls he likes to pull out and taste it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I like hard sex and I we both get sore and sometimes pull muscles if it lasts too long. Lol

    • As in, taste me, that came out weird. Lol

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  • If I didn't care to pace myself at all (say, if it's a quickie in one position), it would be around 5 minutes.
    But, typically, it's around 10 minutes with a good tempo and without having to take any obvious breaks.

    If you pace yourself, that could take however long you want it to, really.

    • Really, well that's good to know

    • You have to know your body, I guess. It's very easy to come quick if you just keep doing what your body wants you to do. I say, go slow and very gradually, women may not mind it at all if you simply maintain a tempo, they may even prefer it and you may be able to find a sweet spot where it is just enough for them and not too much for you.

    • So, you never just wanna fuck her like crazy because it's not pleasurable for her? How hard would it be maintaining a tempo for ur first time? Also, can you get lost in the moment and just stop or forget that you're having sex?

  • I put 10. After a very long session of foreplay, it is hard to keep from busting once a warm moist pussy is wrapped around my dick. But she will have a glorious time from the foreplay I would give her.

  • 30 minutes is barely enough time to get the engine warm.

  • I can last 20-25 minutes if we keep changing positions, but most of the time I last around 10-15 minutes.

  • I’d suggest eating spinach several times a week.

    Not all women want you to go a long time.

    • why, spinach? Also, how long do most want me to last?

  • At least ten minutes or until I cum (but I still enjoy being fucked after I finish)

    • Cool, so do most guys last that long or some?

    • Most do

    • So how would a guy increase his time or pace?

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  • See I'm sorta an asshole on this... I want my dude 2 last all day... I'm a horny pervert.

    • Nothing wrong with that but all day is a long time

    • That it is

    • Whoever is your boyfriend is gonna have to have crazy high endurance.

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  • At least until I cum in her!

  • Usually 20 minutes then rinse and repeat.

  • You want to last long enough for her to
    Cum but you don't want to go so long that she gets bored and you hear "beige, I think I'll paint the ceiling beige..."

  • I like a long & short session. I do prefer 30 minutes to hour. Of course he’s not pounding me the entire time. Some is slow & pulling it out & rubbing his head up & down the length of my pussy lips. A lot of variety

  • 2 hours at least.

    • How do you do that?

    • Have your ejection before you start.

    • oh, okay.

  • Its my time on station

  • It varies and I can accelerate or prolong the time by adjusting speed and position. Typically I'm in the 7 -10 minute range if I'm actively fucking, but I can extend to the 45 - 60 minute range by slowing down or periodically stopping to change position or going to oral for a while. Honestly, I rarely want it to last longer than about 20 minutes.

    • Yup! I agree with all of this.

  • I can last as long as I need to

  • My boyfriend lasts under 2 mins :( but I would like at least 15 but hopefully more 😂

    • Damm hopefully I don't last 2 minutes bit probably will since I'm so new and horny a lot lmao

    • You’ll be fine :) first times might be quicker than expected but when you’ve been in a 2 year relationship is when that seems quick as there isn’t as much excitement:)

    • Oh, okay, do you mind if we talk more in private?

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  • It pretty much depend on how horny you are


    For me my average is between 3-6 minutes

    • Damm really? I thought it would be longer?

    • Yeah it’s not like porn In porn they last for hours lol but that’s fake

    • Oh, shit well I don't know that. So l I'm going to last as much as you less since I'm still new.

  • Most of the time is spent on the foreplay. Once we start to fuck neither of us want it to take that long.

    • Oh, okay.

  • I think the average is 5-10 minutes once he gets going if no breaks are taken and minus any foreplay.

    • nice do you want him to last more or no?

    • Sometimes yes sometimes no. If I have an orgasm pretty quickly it’s nice for him to finish with me, but I don’t mind if he wants to go longer. If I haven’t orgasmed then I’d prefer him to last longer until I have, but sometimes that doesn’t always happen and that’s okay too. Basically, the goal of you want to please a partner is try and get her to orgasm before yourself, but don’t beat yourself up of that doesn’t happen, there’s always round 2,3 etc.

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