My fellow men just imagine in a scenario where you get put into a cuckold three person relationship but here is the kicker which kinda of guy are you?

Question

Ok if this sounds confusing let me try to fully clear this whole thing up, just imagine you have a wife who wants to cuckold you while she is being fucked by another man. This man turned out to be a real great fellow to the point you and your wife decided to turn your monogamy relationship into a polyamorous relationship but instead only your new boyfriend and your wife get to have sex while you don't get to have any of the action you are literally the submissive to your new boyfriend and your wife?

Now let flip the switch to the other scenario where instead of being the cuckold husband to your marriage, you are the new boyfriend to the already existing marriage that you wasn't originally part of. This couple have made an offer with you that you can be part of their life and get to fuck this other guy's wife as many times as you want while your new cuckold boyfriend is just your personal pet who doesn't get to have any pussy but you on the other hand get all the pussy.

So my question to all of the men on G@G if you could be part of a cuckold polymarous couple which kind of guy would you rather be the submissive cuckold or the dominant man who is actually getting the pussy? Obviously I rather be fucking the delicious pussy instead of being the submissive fag but how about you guys which kinda of guy the submissive or the dominant?