My girlfriend has a weird kink (details below). Should I break up with her?

[Anonymous]

She likes to whip me on the soles of my bare feet, usually with a cane or a flogger.

[Vickymoore9]

It depends if your open to it then explore if your not don’t waste each other’s time and break up. It sounds like you are very conservative about sex and that’s ok to be like that. It’s also ok for her to be into exploring sex more it’s just different ways people are. This is huge part and why people don’t connect it’s nobody fault like bad or good. But it sounds like a good indication you two aren’t sexually on the same level.

[Asker]

I get what you’re saying. I actually am not conservative. I’ve been doing this with her for quite some time. My only concern is when she started demanding this on a daily basis. I literally couldn’t walk a few days ago the next morning I woke up.

[testersite00]

it depends. are you okay with this? if you don't like it and it bothers you, then consider breaking up. but more than anything talk to her about it. tell her if you don't like it and see if its a deal breaker for her. and her kink isn't weird, everyone just has different tastes

[Asker]

I’m torn. I like fun and exploring new stuff with her but it became a little excessive.

[testersite00]

you should be honest and tell her that, you guys should com up with a solution and fix any problems

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer and support

[AustinMan]

Depends. Are you into it at all? Have you asked to switch where you get to beat her in the area of your choice?

[Asker]

I already do. I wasn’t into it but it’s kind of fun. Thing is she demands it everyday.

[AustinMan]

Then I believe that I'd start a collection of impact toys that give as good as you get.

[Twalli]

Honestly depends on how you feel about it. It's not something I would tolerate, but I'm not you

[Asker]

Yeah I’m kind of torn. It’s fun but also painful as heck loool

[unkissme]

That’s weird. If you don’t like it, tell her you don’t like it. While you’re having that convo ask her what other crazy stuff she has up her sleeve and place boundaries for those too.

[Asker]

It’s not that I don’t like it. It’s just that it has become a little excessive.

[Daniela1982]

Does she also tear out your pubes with her teeth? Admit it, YOU LOVE IT!

[Asker]

Lol whaaaaat? No just the feet

[infinitelybetter]

If u like what she's doing than don't , if u dnt tell her.. and if she's doesn't respect what u feel than leave her

[Asker]

I know but does that mean she has some personality disorder? Or is it just a kink?

[infinitelybetter]

I dnt think it's a personality disorder

[1Anon]

Have you considered having an open mind to try different kinks with her? You may enjoy it all and discover new things that you both like.

[Asker]

I actually do enjoy it but I also need to walk without a limp the next day lol

[1Anon]

Haha I know that feeling. In that case, why not schedule those types of sessions for days where you don’t need to do any walking the next day? We deliberately don’t do certain anal activities the day before or the morning of when I have to drive to my job or be in a very professional environment with the top bosses. You both need to find a balance where such activities don’t affect important things such as school and day jobs that pay your bills. Lol

[Daniela1982]

So you do the stinky kinky type things. Kinky!!

[1Anon]

@Daniela1982 When it’s done properly there is no stink involved.

[Daniela1982]

That sounds like a date with an enema bag. That or you don't eat for a week.

[Asker]

That sounds fair @1Anon. Problem is I work everyday and my work involves standing on my feet 8-10 hours a day. She demands at least 4 sessions a week. Can’t do that! Thanks though, what you said makes sense.

[Sheyhoney]

Tell to her about your boundaries

[Asker]

I will, thanks

[boggboss]

So what are you asking

[Asker]

Read the question again

[boggboss]

I read it but this is down to what u want do you like getting hit?

[Asker]

It’s kind of fun but not all the time. She wants to do that every night 😂

[boggboss]

So speak to her about it lol

[snowstormcroissant]

do you like it?

[Asker]

I did but not every night. She wants that every night

[venomwomen]

What you feel about it?

[Asker]

I like it but it’s become a little excessive every night

[Anonymous]

By ex-girlfriend also had a foot fetish but she never whipped them thankfully :D

[Asker]

Lol girls with foot fetishes are rare

[Anonymous]

Is your girlfriend Turkish? My boyfriend has the exact same fantasy.

[Asker]

She’s Greek. Oh! So you’ve been put in the bastinado before?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes of course, a lot 😅 He calls it falaka.

[Asker]

Yes falaka! Was it painful? Did you enjoy it?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it's very painful, as you know. Not at first but later I started to enjoy it.

[Asker]

Sorry if I’m asking for too much. Can I add you and massage you about it since were both being whipped? 😂 If not, I understand

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry you can't:)

[Asker]

No problem! Thanks for answering

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome!

[Anonymous]

Sounds a lot like bullshit story. To answer you question we can't say what you must do, do what makes you happy

[Asker]

A bullshit story? This site is for asking questions and I asked it under sexuality. If you feel my question is “bullshit”, simply don’t answer.

[Opinion Owner]

Confirmed Bullshit. To answer, You can say no to anything your partner wants which you don't like, also if you wana keep her happy go for it, your decision we can't answer and tell you what to do. Weird kink that's hand drawn, almost like a little boy getting turned on by nonsense like that...

[Asker]

I’m not asking you to answer her for me. I know exactly what I’ll say to her and what I want/don’t want. Anyway, I don’t think you’re receptive to even listen. Your mind is already made up to believe what you want to believe. Good day.