My girlfriend tells me my penis is too big and it hurts when we have sex. I feel like she's just saying this to stroke my ego and not have sex? ?

Women do you do this with guys?
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Maybe i should clarify. I'm only 4.5 inches. That's why i think she's lying to me. I've never been told i was to big before by other women.
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  • Stroking your ego
    And
    Not wanting to have sex
    Are very contradictory feelings that I highly doubt any woman would have at the same time.
    She admitted it hurts, how is that an ego boost?

    You've got to pay more attention bro, what you've said dosent add up, you've clearly missed something or jumped to a ridiculous conclusion.

    I think you are projecting your feelings on too her words. I'm sure your happy you are too big for a woman to handle, but all she said is it hurts, she was not stroking your ego.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Have you tried cowgirl/reverse? How about spoon with her controlling the penetration?

    • We've done cowgirl she never gave any indication she was uncomfortable. We primarily just do missionary. Then again she's given no indication she was ever uncomfortable. But i guess it's possible i was to into it to notice.

    • Try a variety of positions asking her about her level of discomfort. Show some genuine concern and you'll gain a lot of relational capital for the future and great sex right now.

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  • my boyfriend's too big for me
    but i handle it now
    it was hard in the beginning though but he never cared.

    • I'm sorry.

    • it was fun for him though

  • So she says your hurting her & you think she is stroking your ego? You never thought maybe you are hurting her?

    • Right? How would getting turned down ever be an ego boost? Cleary some mental gymnastics here, he hears he's too big and is pleased with himself and projecting his own feelings.

    • @TonyV you're damn right i'd be pleased if i thought she was telling the truth. Read the update.

    • Dont get snippy, you added that update after I commented so dont try to act like I didn't read it. Not all women are the same, you might be too big for her. Did she actually say you were to big or did she just say you were hurting her?

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  • Normally if a girl says he's too big I steal him.

  • If everything else is great

    Don't worry about it

    You seem content with your situation

    • I am content. At least for the time being. But if she's lying ro me then rhat means somethings not right. You're right i'd like to just leave it be. But if she's mad and witholding sex as weapon you and i borh know this isn't going to resolve itself. And by ignoring it i may exacerbate rhe situation.

  • How could you be hurting her if you're only 4 and a half inches? I'm genuinely curious. Can you please give us an update when you get to the bottom of this matter?

  • If that's how you feel and she isn't putting out, then why stay with her?

    • Everything else is great.

  • How long have you and her been together? Would you say the quality of sex has declined for you with age or do you still have a high libido or a high sex drive?

    • About 3 years. I've probably slowed down a bit with her. She's usually the initiator. But i've never rejected an advance by her lol. I haven't slowed down that much lol. And the quality is probably the best in my life with her

    • My guess is that you lost your virginity in high school

    • Ok, i fail to see what that has to do with anything.

  • too big dicks can hit the cervix which based on what I heard it hurts like hell

    • happens to me all the time

    • @stupidteen19 how long is his dick? 6" or higher?

    • u dnt need to measure it when u r scared just by seeing it

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