He's not a very good friend. He just wants to have sex, and he will keep pressuring you until you give in or cut ties with him. In my opinion, you should ditch his pathetic ass. It's clear that he 1) doesn't value as a person (because if he did, he wouldn't pressure you) and 2) that he doesn't give a shit about how his actions will affect your friendship. I. e. he doesn't care about your friendship either. He only cares about your body. He most probably thinks you're going to be easy because you've already had sex, too.
Dump him. Don't be friends with someone who doesn't want to act like a friend.4 2 0 3Tell him to respect your personal boundaries and if he doesn't tell hiI'm you can't be friends with someone who has no respect for you.
2 2 0 1Him *
She lets him finger her and dry hump her. How is he supposed to know where the boundary is?
@yaddayaddayadda02 A lot of girls who have previously been sexually assaulted, don't know how to stop these things from happening. He kept pressuring her, she kept saying no, he continued until she was worn down, yet it's all her fault? Don't think so. He should have respected her boundaries in the first place. But he didn't, did he? Yet, it's all her fault? Seriously...
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There's a sexual disconnect between you two. That pretty much eliminates the potential of any relationship working. Whether that be an actual relationship or a friendship.
Only hang out with him if you're personally WANTING to hang out with him. It sounds to me though that you're really not enjoying spending time with him, so there's no reason to maintain this "friendship."3 0 0 1Please stop being his friend. You should only ever need to say no once. You are putting yourself in a very dangerous situation. And please tell me you reported the other guy who did that to you. no one should ever get away with that.
2 0 0 1No I haven't :/
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1 8You are an idiot to let a guy you aren't interested in finger you. You are really throwing a lot of mixed messages his way.
4 5 2 0Yep, I'm afraid you've already mind fucked him.
he just wants to use you obviously. next move is yours.
2 0 0 1Sounds like a spineless prick. Stop hanging with him.
3 0 0 1You must be weak willed. Don't grant him sex ever. He took adv of your friendship with him.
1 0 0 1You girls REALLY need to stop trying to use guys who are sexually attracted to you for friendship. Be friends with other girls. Oh wait, that demands mutual respect, something the majority of females nowadays are INCAPABLE of... Never mind, just keep on using guys for attention and leading them on.
0 1 2 0Guys do the same thing! I am close friends with guys who have rejected me because we were close friends before I told them and continued after. Maybe you aren't mature enough to be friends with someone who rejected you and didn't like you more than a friend, but people do it all the time
It never fails to amaze me when girls are like, "well, he kept asking and asking to fuck me/lick me/finger me, so I let him..."
0 1 1 0But I didn't let him... He forced himself on me
"He kept asking and asking and asking and I have in. I let him put one finger... " When you "let" someone do this or that, it wasn't forced.
I'm confused. Why not just fuck him? Don't girls like sex too?
0 1 0 0Not with someone I thought was my friend
This goes to show girls at any age can get sex whenever, wherever to whomever. Guys have to fight tooth and nail for it.
0 1 2 0Let him fuck you; you've slept around so what's the big deal; easy ones are soon tramps so go ahead. He knows your reputation so give him a good lay.
0 0 3 0I haven't slept around! I've slept with two. That's it. I don't want to sleep with him!
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