My mom caught my boyfriend and I having sex, can she really forbid me to see him?

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I am 18 years old ( sorry I haven't updated my status yet) and live with my mom and sister. My sister is out of town and my mom was at work today. My boyfriend and I never get anytime alone so we took advantage of today being at my house by ourselves. We went swimming in the pool and pretty much spent the entire time all over each other kissing and touching. 

About 1pm we went in the house and got in the shower together. My mom was not supposed to get home until 5 so we thought we still had plenty of time. We were having sex in the shower for so long that we ran out of hot water so we turned it of and just kept having sex. The bathroom fan was still on so it was still a bit noisy in there. About 10 min later my boyfriend said he was about to cum so I dropped to my knees, he started cumming on my face about the time the shower curtain was thrown open by my mom. I just sat there in fear and shock and couldn't do anything while my mom screaming at us. Even more embarrassing my is face covered in cum while I'm being yelled at by my mom. And probably even more embarrassing than that was my boyfriend was trying to hide the fact that he was still cumming while my mom is yelling at us. It didn't work very well because it was all dripping out of his hands right in front of her. Evidently guys can't just stop cumming just because a disaster happens. 

She made my boyfriend leave and told him not to contact me. After he left I got another long yelling and was told I can't see him anymore. 

I am 18 now and I don't feel like my mom can tell me not to see him anymore. Am I right? Sure she can say he can't come to the house anymore but she can't really forbid me from seeing him right?

Soulife · Accepted Answer

1. Your mom has no say in your sex life, as long as it's safe and not rape.
2. She should be understanding. I'm sure she'd feel the same way if that happened to you.
3. Tell your boyfriend to ignore your mom on that.
4. Tell your mom to not be hypocritical and to focus on what's more important: your health and wellbeing.
It's just about getting priorities straight I think... why worry about you having a nice fuck in the shower when there are things that are more dangerous.

JuicyBrain · Accepted Answer

A mother never gives you control. You have to take it from her. That's what becoming an adult is. That also means that you are responsible when things go wrong. you are right though. She can say she don't want him in the house, but she can't tell you to not see him anymore. If she says that again and you want to mess with her, just tell her she is not invented to the wedding then. lol

LuvYouAll · Accepted Answer

She has no right to restrict you if you are already 18 (if that's the age you're considered adult in where you live) if she tries to stop you, she will be restricting adult person's freedom and only mental facilities and prisons are allowed to do that. So no she can't really stop you, but she can throw you out for it. So try to talk to her about it maybe?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

She can keep him from coming to your house, but if you want to see him it's up to you. You're old enough to make your own decisions and if you want to go see him do it! The only thing I'd worry about is he kicking you out if she gets really pissed.

SamH9899 · Accepted Answer

Your an adult you can date who you want. She could kick you out, ban him from the house but she can't make you not date.

thorthorley · Answer

If he is 18 and you are 18 then your relationship status is in your control and your mom can do nothing about it. However she can kick him out of the house. And man that was bad timing lol.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Well at you home at least she can forbid it. Just do it elsewhere.

JoeCensored · Answer

At 18 you should be moving out if you don't want to listen to your parents. If you're going to stick around for the free ride it is her house her rules.

sweettckae · Answer

Her roof, her rules honey. Dont like it, get out. you're wrong.

GiftShop · Answer

Shouldn't have sex is mamas home! It's disrespectful.

oldanddecrepid · Answer

She sure can... as long as you are living under her roof!

Titanic1912 · Answer

You two should get married first before you have sex! Save God's gift of sex for Marriage!

chrisbigman · Answer

Yes, she can. Even though you are 18 years of age, you live under her house. Her house, her rules. If you want to see him, then get your own place. You may be 18 years of age, but apparently you still need to grow up if you are "getting caught" and "breaking rules".

SeanshterMonster · Answer

She can't do that to you! He is your boyfriend and she should have no power in your personal life!!! Take control!!!

Checkmate5345 · Answer

If I was him I would've been like, "Listen bitch get the fuck out of here what are you some kind of psycho pervert wanna see me and your own daughter while I'm busting a nut you fuckin weirdo". She's prolly just jealous you're getting fun shower sex.

jakeofalltrades · Answer

no, not as long as you are 18 she can't stop you

Anonymous · Answer

You are under 18 she can do whatever the fuck she wants. She is your guardian and it is her responsibility to make good decisions for you when you are incapable of making them yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd love to cum on your face.

Anonymous · Answer

I didn't realize that GAG turned into Hustler today

Anonymous · Answer

Are you sure you're 18, I'm sorry but you don't update your age here, it does it automatically each year so that justs sounded like a poorly and quickly thought out excuse.

My mom caught my boyfriend and I having sex, can she really forbid me to see him?

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