You know, you need to be in control and tell him what you expect.
If you are talking about sex and say you are in the pill thT will mean to the guy that you are ok with whatever if you say nothing further.
You told him you were on the pill then you let him drop his dick in there without a wrapper.. seems to me like you were ok with whatever since you said nothing.
If you expect different then you just need to say what you expect.
I agree
When you say you’re on the pill you’re saying birth control is taken care of. If you still want to have another layer of protection, speak up. You have a voice.
If I’m making a point to tell a man I’m on the pill, I’m saying we don’t need other protection unless I’ve voiced otherwise. Every man I had this conversation with took it to mean he could finish inside
Well I personally think that you should have that chat about cumming inside of you, people shouldn't just assume. And as for asking if you were okay, like why wouldn't you be okay? and NO girls who are on the pill AREN'T "used" to guys finishing inside of them, its still a very intimate and something that needs to be talked about. Sounds like an ass.
He’s pretty much right. That’s fairly normal. When you talk about birth control prior to sex, that’s the time to discuss concerns and whether or not you want him to use a condom or pull out in addition to the pill. When you tell a guy you’re on birth control and leave it at that, it kind of implies it’s ok for him to finish in you.
Ya so I feel better now since a lot of you saying its kind of normal
It is. Since I went on birth control, every guy I’ve been with has finished inside me. If you want him to do it somewhere else, just tell him. Communication is big.
OK ya
pills don't prevent sexually transmitted diseases. check yourself with your doctor and ask your boyfriend to do the same. condoms are a necessity unless you're in a monogamy (as in no extra partners for both of you). it was rude of him to do so without asking if you're ok with it. he probly did that to other partners he mightve had. stay safe.
You wanted to have sex with him, you told him you were on BC and didn't ask him to put a condom on. What did expect him to do?
Ya I see that now
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I went in bare when my ex told me she was on pills. Didn't seem to mind her, so I didn't ask. Probably should've though.
Ya thats what happened. I am not mad just wondering if like it was just expected.
For me it would be normal, but from what I've heard I'm the odd one out, so you might not have it happen with others.
Ha na I bet lots of guys do it too cuz ya were bf-gf now so it should be ok.
If you said you were on it that's usually meaning it's cool to do it since there is close to 0 chance of having a kid
Im not worried about getting pregnant just that he did not check that it was ok. I would have said yes but he just assumed so I guess its kinda normal for some guys.
No I ment that since you verified that you had taken it he assumed that you took it for the reason of bare sex. It's not that much of a leap in logic on his part but if it bothers you, you should consult him about his attitude towards sex
I am learning on here that most guys ask or check where to finish but some think it is ok if it is there girlfriend and assumed to finish inside so I just didn't know
Hopefully that 99.9% bc chances work out for you, my s. o. always came inside me when I was on bc and I never got pregnant.
The pill isn't 100%
Neither is crossing the road
The pill gives you a 99.9% safety - even more than a condom. Pulling out gives you... ehhh... 0,00001% maybe? At most?
Yeah if it's used exactly right.
No not true. He should ask and you should decide if that's something you are okay with. He should wear a condom until you let him cum inside you. And if he acts out and fights it then tell him that's how it has to be or nothing at all. It won't be the first time you have great sex
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Its bad.. my opinion.. if you are a couple for years then maby happens some times in this period but its not something you want to do.. its risky when you dont want to be pregnant.. we men we can control our orgasm if it is too soon but some times it is never soon so its safer way a condom.. or at least to cum somewhere else. he is careless
Just because you are on the pill doesn't prevent you from getting STDs/SDIs. Also, the pill is not always 100% effective. You should have a firm agreement before sex starts. I use condoms with any fertile age woman that I'm with.
He should have asked. Knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have sex without a condom until the guy showed me his negative STI test results. It's too easy to catch something and not know you have it. A guy can have chlamydia or gonnorhea and show no symptoms. But these infections can destroy your ability to have children. Better safe than sorry.
He is also a dumbass for believing you so blindly. Women will say that if they want a baby
Its kinda bad as that means he doesn't really care if you were on it or not it just feels better for him
He should ask
Definitely should've asked, I always have and it's just polite.
Ya I thought he would ask where to finish but nothing. Im not mad and wouldn't care but just him not checking so I don't know.
If it bothers you enough you should say something, don't wait.
Well now its too late and I dont care if he wants to finish inside. Just first time I thought all guys asked where to finish but I didn't know.
Should have asked first. And after he did it the first time you should have said you weren't comfortable with him doing that.
NO! He should have asked. That's very disrespectful.
If you're happy end of story!!!
Does this ignorant dumbass wanna be a dad at 20? And take dome responsibility yourself. Do you wanna be a mum already. Set some ground rules
Pretty much.
Even if he didn't wear a condom and you are on the pill, that doesn't entitle him to finish inside you. Give him permission and then he will, but not until then.
It's not to 100% safe
Better so a pregnancy test
Ya Im not worried about that at all just wondering if it was normal that he didn't even check or ask if all ok to finish inside. Some say ya that is what they would do and others would def ask first to make sure.
Allways had a pregrance risk, some people how can be relax for cum in girl I don't understand.!
He should’ve asked you first.
Thats what I think and I would say ya if he wanted to cum in me. Some guys here said it is normal since Im his girlfriend and he shouldn't have to ask so I didn't know.
I disagree with the other guys.
Ya so you know what I mean
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