My wife is not willing as me at sex, She doesn't watch porn. Can watcing porn help to increase her willing ?

My wife does not want sex as me. I want that she want more sex like me. she doesn't watch porn even she did watch 1-2 times along her life. Does the porns helps to increase his want about sex with me. Is there any dangerous sitution or drawback
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  • Porn is not the answer to raise her libido.

    You need to talk with her, why she doesn't feel like having sex.

    Sorry to say, but sometimes, if for example, I'm not satisfied properly, I will lose interest in sex and my libido will fall drastically.
    Or it could be something in the relationship, stress or other things.

    But talk to her about it, what she thinks the reason might be and what might help her to get into the mood.

    • she said me ther is no problem. she say me you want so much sex.

    • She might also just have a low libido.

    • yes. i try to how to increase it :(

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  • Not really. Talk to her, figure out if something's wrong.

    • why not really?

    • we have talked before. she said me i am not so wanting as you

    • There has to be reason. Maybe she's asexual and that's just how she is? Maybe she's stressed?

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  • She might be having some psychological reason. It is upto you to explore what it could be. Don't ask her directly. And also don't force her to watch porn and have sex. You haven't mentioned the age of your wedding life and whether she was in relations before that: with you or someone else. Go with her friendly and discuss politely, but bit by bit, sexual life of your friends, her friends, need and requirement of sex etc.

    • Thanks for MHG.

  • If she wanted to watch porn, she wouldn't need you to tell her to do it.
    I'm sorry for your situation where you want sex and your wife doesn't, it must be very frustrating.
    You should try telling her how you feel and how unfulfilled are feel. Perhaps you could come to some kind of compromise or something.

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  • She's not going to want to watch porn either. What was she like before you were married? Has this changed?

  • Pornnot really the answer. Instead talk with her about it. Maybe try changing up your game plan a bit. When it comes to getting her in the mood for sex. Sometimes the same old stuff can get boring after a while.

    Also she could have a low sex drive. Do you hormones imbalance or stress. Maybe help her work though these things if there are the case.

  • You should talk to her about it. Ask her what's the problem. And watching porn doesn't necessarily increase sex drive. So if she doesn't like it then don't force her.

  • If she isn't interested in sex you need to talk to her about it.. Porn won't help..

  • I had the same problem. Women don’t get off like that (generally). They get off on feelings and emotion. If you want her horny, clean the house and cook her dinner. She’ll be on top of you in no time.

  • Yes, porn is what helped me, and I'm not very happy.

    • why not happy?

  • win my wife not wants the sexual of them i try those of porns. she's not want to likes the to wach butt she wach. now she likes manny sex of much. let her to wach

  • It's called foreplay... wow.