Our son came home with friends when my husband & I were in the bedroom they heard us. He asked me about it. What do I do?

This afternoon my son, who’s a senior in high school, he’s old enough to know what goes on lol, was out with friends and my hubby and I decided to make the most of having an empty house! Round one was on the couch. I never got dressed we kinda kept fooling around and we were ready for round 2. This time we went into the bedroom!! Unknown to me our son came home with friends. Later on when everyone was gone He told me we could hear us in the bedroom and to please keep it down that it’s embarrassing. He also said my yoga pants and hoodie were on the kitchen floor & my black tank top was on the living room floor and my red bra and thong were in the spare room & one of his friends laughed picked up my bra read the size out loud and made a comment on how hot 🥵 your mom is and how lucky your dad is. He should it was totally embarrassing. I feel awful, embarrassed and like a failure like i embarrassed my son in front of his friends. I don’t even know what to say!! I wouldn’t just keep it down if his friends were here obviously we would’ t do it at all!! we could wait till they leave. I feel like the worst mom ever I feel so bad for my son. I want to talk to him about it but I don’t even know what to say. Please help how do I handle this? What do I say or do?

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  • Don’t worry about it. It’s your house. You’re allowed to have sex with your husband and you had no way of knowing your son would bring friends home. Life throws you curveballs sometimes. He may have been embarrassed but he’s plenty old enough to understand sex in relationships and won’t be scarred by it. If anything, you’re modeling a healthy marriage to him. Just tell him you’re sorry he was embarrassed but you couldn’t have known. Next time maybe he could tell you ahead of time when he’s bringing friends over or if he walks in on that situation again, use some discretion and go somewhere else for a while with his friends. You really have nothing to be ashamed of here.

    • I know I didn’t do anything bad or wrong my heart just hurts for my son. Could you imagine think you guy friends they all think this one mom is the hottest they go over her house find a trail of her clothes including her bra and thong leading up to the couch in the spare room while hearing her having sex!! And one friend reads out my bra size from my bra he just picked up.. Like they’re going to say stuff and tease him 😔. You’re right tho I agree I had sex with my husband in our house I did nothing the least bit inappropriate

  • You sound like a kid who leaves their clothes all over the floor instead of putting them in the hamper. Well, sounds like they were picking up after you now. Wonder if they sniffed them?

    Our son came home with friends when my husband & I were in the bedroom they heard us. He asked me about it. What do I do?
    • That’s gross sniffed my thong? You think so… my husband and I were fooling around he was undressing me while we were fooling around and I wanted a specific position that works best on the couch. It’s not like my house is a mess like a dorm room with clothes all over the floor

    • Your story is as fake as a 3 dollar bill. Can you say troll?

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  • It happens it's a normal part of growing up. I slept I a basement bedroom partially below my parents bedroom and could often hear them going at it. The first time I heard them I thought my dad was hurting my mom buy eventually gigurrd out xge was just a loud moaner when having an orgasm. I even walked in on them once not realizing they were humping until I opened the bedroom door. I never had friends over when I could hear them and my mom never left a trail of clothes to the bedroom. You'll just have to be more careful to not cause a scene when his friends are there.

    • I wouldn’t do it when the friends were over if I knew I didn’t know…

    • I understand

    • My hubby and I are quite active we usually do it when he comes home from work before dinner or after dinner depending on what time he gets home! I’m sure he can hear us, I’m not like screaming moaning like porno star but ya know we’re having sex lol it makes sounds lol distinct sounds. What do you think/feel when you heard your parents making love? I’m curious

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  • You did nothing wrong. He is old enough to know that his parents are having sex and you know he probably masturbates everyday.. You should talk to him and say you are sorry about embarrassing him but you love his dad and it is your house after all. Tell him to text you or call if he is coming home early in the future so you won't get surprised. Just be honest and mature about it...

    • True I’m just like 🤦‍♀️ look my husband and I make love almost every day for the most part he knows. Hubby and I are very, very active as they say. But it’s coming home with his friends and all of them hearing us. Think about it if you were thst age and all your little friends had a mom you all that was just the hottest abs you go over their house and there’s a trail of her clothes including her bra and thong leading to the guest room and then you hear her having sex like that would be totally embarrassing wouldn’t it? That’s what happened to my son

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  • Your son is a high school senior so he would know exactly what you were doing as would his friends. You were just doing what mom's and dad's do, fucking isn't just for the kids.

    • I know but can you imagine his embarrassment? Imagine you’re a boy and there’s one mom all the boys think is just the hottest mom you go over their house and there’s a trail of her clothes including her bra and thong leafing to the spare room while you hear her having sex. That would be incredibly embarrassing 😳

  • Kids can come home any time. You are lucky they did not come in while you were playing hide the salami in the living room! And pick up your clothes. Your son probably does a better job of picking up his stuff than you do.

  • Tell him best to let you know if he has changed his plans and is going to be home.

    • Right? Seriously a simple text could've solved this. Lol now that I thinking about it lol. Thank you you’re right

  • Have you ever heard me having sex? I got over it 😉

    • Actually I have you wanted doggy and got spanked 😘

  • Nothing, friends laugh at you, not at your son, with my friends in high school we also made comments about whore mothers.

    • I’m a whore mom for having sex with my husband in my house? Do you even listen to what you say?

    • Dude wtf?

  • I think like many people have said you're a happily married couple it seems and sex is part of being married and y'all just need to communicate. Maybe a text or something in the future but he could have let you know he was coming home with friends too, text goes both ways. Not like you want him too see and I'm sure he'll get over the embarrassment.

    How does it make you feel knowing his friends think you're a hot mom?

    • Yea I think a simple text could've fixed this lol.. Oh please 🙄 boys that age are boys you know how they are they see a “hot girl” they go nuts 😆 now make it your friends mom.. you can imagine

  • First and foremost you are not a failure. You didn't intentionally set out to embarrass you son. What happened was entirely an accident an not your fault.

    Boys will be crude and immature so it's no surprise they read your bra size. I suggest you explain to you son that you and your husband were having fun and didn't expect anyone home. Apologize for the embarrassment he felt. Ask him if he wants to talk about it and offer suggestions for how he can deal with his friends if they tease him.

  • I've been a single mom for a long time, I've had many studio apartments or cheap apartments with thin walls and makeshift bedrooms.. I've had many walk ins or times they hard things.

    • What do they say?

  • stop worrying about it. its pretty normal/common and he can just get over being embarassed about still having both parents together and still loving each other. though i would suggest one discretion point, knowing you have other people living in the house, which means they could come home at any time, dont put the discarded wardrobe all over the house, more for your own sake than your son's by the way. teenaged boys and their hormones mixed with the younger generations' mindset, and your unmentionables could lead to some awkwardky embarrassing situations around his friends or something way more serious (think stalkers)

    • Got cha makes sense.. what happened is my husband kissed me so I gave him a good kiss back and said we got the house to ourselves what do you want to do? He immediately took my hoodie off like pulled it over my head and started kissing me he picked me up and put me in the kitchen counter and we kept making out and he started like playing with my thong strap and my pants like made their way to the floor so now my hoodie and the yoga pants are on the kitchen floor I said to my husband on the couch I meant the upstairs spare room couch he took me & put me on the living room couch and took my tank off and flung that lol so my tank top is on the floor in the living room while we’re fooling around on that couch I said no upstairs couch. My hubby took me up stairs and my bra and thong came off while on the upstairs couch! That’s what happened. It wasn’t like I was just leaving clothes all over the house we got caught up in the moment kinda thing. I don’t leave clothes all over the floor

  • Ah yes, if only I too one day could have the typical, mundane romance

    *Cries in silence*

    • Oh you will find your Romeo

  • Maybe he wants to "hit it" too.

    • What?

  • It happened so I'd just move on. He's in h. s. and probably having sex like his friends. I could imagine him feeling a little embarrassed but at the end of the day it's your house.

    • He’s not he’s a good boy but I get what you’re saying

    • Respectfully, he probably is a good boy but that doesn't mean he's not having sex that you know of. I was and my parents didn't know, I too was a good boy

    • We didn’t raise him like that. My husband and I got married young and we waited till we were married

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  • BUSTED! Apologize for embarrassing him, and make arrangements for him to know when you're busy by leaving some signal, like leaving a rope tied on a doorknob!

    • What doorknob of our bedroom? He didn’t walk in he heard noises and found a trail of my clothes

  • Just say he came home too early. Nothing to feel ashamed or guilty about.

    • You’re right I didn’t do anything wrong but still could you imagine how he feels he finds a trail of his moms clothes leading up to the couch in the game room and hears us in the bedroom. 😔 😳 with his friends there

    • Next time say you'll be charging admission to listen in. ;)

    • 😆 I like that.. but is now the time for joking? Could you imagine? Imagine you had a friend that all your little buddies thought has the hottest mom ever you go over there’s a trail of her clothes leading to the spare room including her bra and thong and then you hear her having sex!!! You’d be sooo embarrassed

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  • Your dad and I were having intimate time. Please announce when you come home by self and more when you have company.

  • Don't mention it unless he does , if so just say sorry didn't realise you were home and with friends

    • He brought it up to me I was totally unaware anyone was in the house

  • It’s ok you didn’t do anything wrong! I don’t even think you have anything to even apologize for!!

  • Well for one thing tell your son to get new friends because reading a bra size out loud like that is just an ass thing for a guy to do

  • It is your home, have sex when you want respect goes both ways

    • Pm me

  • Tell him all about it every detail bet he never asks again

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