People are telling me im weird because I gave my daughter bj tips on a dildo are they right?

[Anonymous]

[dustybiker]

I might have gone the route of encouraging her to ask the man what he likes. Open conversation has more value than a step by step by a mother (who might not have a penis)

[dustybiker]

Ask a question. Get an honest answer. You don’t have to like it. ;)

[Tammymooory9]

I give you total respect for going out on the limb to teach you something important

[SkyeSymes]

Yes, You are indeed a weird one.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Did you give her tips on practicing safe sex? How to prevent pregnancy and STDs? Tips on how to tell if someone really cares or if they're just wanting sex? That you can get STD'S from oral sex as well as from penetrative sex?

[Asker]

yes I did.

[Daniela1982]

I would say more like a troll. That or you are a crappy mother.

[Asker]

how i am a crappy mother?

[Daniela1982]

Are you going to teach her about anal too? I think instead of showing her how to have sex, teach her how not to get pregnant.

[Asker]

she knows about condoms and safe sex. she knows where i keep them incase she needs one.

[Lliam]

I think it's a sign of admirable parenting that your daughter felt comfortable coming to you for advice. It's better than learning from porn or from her peers.
It shows that she trusts you to be wise, open and honest. Good mom.

I think it's great that you are willing to instruct her in the feminine arts when asked.
But how did others know about it (they called you weird)? Wasn't the conversation with your daughter confidential?

[Asker]

my friend asked me if my daughter has ever asked me anything sexual i yes i even showed her how to do stuff on a dildo.

[Lliam]

That makes sense. It's too bad your friend reacted that way. I think you sound like an awesome mom to be so trusted by your daughter. You're the kind of parent who won't have to worry about your kid doing stupid shit behind your back. You give her freedom so that she won't need to do things in secret. And you trust her intelligence and common sense because you taught her well. 👍

[Asker]

she also know that if she has sex it better be safe sex.

[Lliam]

Exactly. She knows better, right?

[Asker]

yes.

[charon142]

not really, it's weird to them that you can talk to your daughter openly
this is actually something good that you should be proud of

[Asker]

i talk to all 5 of them openly.

[Asker]

they all know they can ask me anything

[charon142]

I read somewhere that most parents are ashamed or scared of talking about sex with their children, but it's better for the dad to teach his son and the mother to her daughter how to handle things this prevents children from going to their friends or strangers for these lessons and can teach them their family is a safe place where they can open up their feelings

[Asker]

I Don t mind talking to then about sex. they seem to like that I do but others say im nasty / weird

[charon142]

people say a lot of things you can't close their mouth but you can cover your ears

[Asker]

yah i feel like im a good mom and doing good.

[charon142]

you're definitely doing what you can

[Asker]

yahh. i know there active and safe.

[charon142]

I hope it stays that way

[ZackBan]

I'm confused: your daughter is 13 yet you "hear" that she's good at giving head?
And your answer to that is a demo on a dildo?
Way too many things don't add up here

[Daniela1982]

A 13 year old does not need to know that stuff or she will want to try it.

[ZackBan]

If you scroll through her replies she said that her girl is already doing it. So I she's either trolling or there's something messed up going on

[Daniela1982]

I would vote on trolling.

[Asker]

I never troll

[ZackBan]

If so then I'm curious about something: how old were you when you gave your first BJ? And how do you feel about your daughter doing it at 13

[Asker]

i was 9 and as long as she safe im ok with it.

[ZackBan]

And how old was the guy? In your case and hers. If you don't mind me asking, I'm not judging.

[Asker]

36 for me 15 for her

[Daniela1982]

Come on dude, stop trolling FFS. You gotta be a guy.

[Asker]

i Don t troll

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[slatyb]

How did they find out about this? I hope you also taught her about how to be safe, both sexually and while dating, and the red flags indicating that someone is abusive or will be.

[Bricealan]

You are bullshitting us, aren't you?

[Th3ft]

I mean that is odd. But not anything to be ashamed of! I would probably suggest trying to teach her how to control her urges rather then allowing them to run with her. But there is nothing wrong with making sure the kid knows what she is doing. Have you shown her how to use that dildo on herself?

[Asker]

nope. she hasn't asked.

[Shamalien]

Begone pedos

[NFBiGuy]

Weird? No at all!! Unusual, probably yes but frankly, any parent who takes the time and makes the effort to teach their kids that sex is a good think and encourage them to do the best they can to enhance the experience are good parents!!

[Dargil]

How old is she?

[FilmGuy93]

It's unusual, but I guess it's not that weird.

[Asker]

really?

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah. You teach your daughter how to be a woman in other areas of life. It makes sense that you would also talk about certain sexual things from time to time.

[Vendela]

To all the weirdos saying this is "good parenting" and "sex ed is important", you're fucking dumb. Sex ed is teaching the safety of sex and how the genitals work, not sucking a dildo in front of your kid. I know this is a troll question but these incest posts are just disgusting.

[Danny718718]

That is their opinion. Just curious do you think you're good at what you do

[Keepitreal007]

Yep they are!

[vald9inches]

Why would that be weird for a mother to help her daughter?

[Asker]

i was told by people.

[vald9inches]

I honestly think you are an amazing mom to be so open like that with them and for them to trust you so much they will ask you and talk to you about these things! ❤️

[vald9inches]

Add me if you like by the way 😊

[kellytheman]

I say helpful as long she asked you and if she is at the age where she is old enough to having sex.

[Asker]

she 15

[kellytheman]

Maybe a little young but that's when girls and guys are curious about sex. I think 16 and up would be better.

[Shamalien]

You gals are fucking nuts. And you men supporting it, disgusting pedos

[Fromdusktilldawn]

"People"... do your own thing and ignore what others say. If she hasn't learned it from you, it would have been later by porn or a future boyfriend. Not sure if teen girls talk about how to bj haha.

We ain't in the 50s anymore and aren't controlled by churche's inquisors that would have burn you on the stake for doing that.

[Asker]

she asked me how to give one..

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Better you explained it instead of saying no and leaving it up to her to find it out

[Asker]

right.