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Sexually attracted to older men?

I’m 22 years old girl and I have always been sexually attracted to older man. Since I was teenager I always dreamed about sleeping with man in 40-60. I don’t have daddy issues and I dated guys my age. I have been in a long relationships with guys my age and I loved it. It just something in me that fantasies about having sex with older guys. I waited until I was old enough to try it out but never got the chance or haven’t met any older guy who wants to do that!

I don’t know, it’s not that I want to be in a relationship with older man now! But i dream about having sex with older man all the times. Even when I am in a relationship. I’m single now and I really want to experience that. But it’s so hard to find it here! Even though I live in a big city. Any tips to where I can find man in there 40-60s looking for one night stand?

I hope I don’t sound weird!!
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Superb Opinion

  • It's normal to have different sexual fantasies and preferences, and being attracted to older men is not unusual. However, it's important to make sure that any sexual encounters are safe, consensual, and respectful for all parties involved.

    It's not recommended to seek out one night stands with strangers, as this can be risky and potentially dangerous. Instead, consider exploring your fantasies with someone you trust and feel comfortable with, such as a long-term partner or a friend with benefits.

    If you're interested in meeting older men, you could try online dating apps or websites that cater to intergenerational relationships. However, it's important to approach these interactions with caution and to prioritize your safety and well-being.

    Ultimately, it's important to be true to yourself and to make choices that align with your own values and desires. If you're feeling uncertain or conflicted about your attraction to older men, it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist who can provide guidance and support in exploring and understanding your sexuality.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Go seduce one! It'll add some spice to it all.

    If you just want to make it easy on yourself, internet sites and apps are bound to result in instant same day results. I do suspect that walking into a place of business or resort of some kind and winning them over yourself would be far more of a rush though.

    • Which apps do you suggest?

    • Oh just the usual ones. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble. Maybe if you give it a google there's on catering to young women meeting silver foxes that I will only learn about 20 years from now. Initiative little lady! To said older guy that youthful spark and drive is a very significant part of what you bring to the table.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think it’s fine. Usually I prefer men around my age. But lately I’m starting to be more attracted to the idea of men in mid-late 30s, early 40s. I’d say take your chances and explore. But stay safe if you’re trying to do hook ups lol.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I’m not into one night stands. Sex is beautiful but I believe in commitment. I’m open to marriage and lasting true love with girls in their 20-30’s

  • ugh, I hate it when police write up these questions and bait desperate and weak men and then it turns out the girl is 16 and they go to jail and their life is ruined. it really isn't nice. Take a higher road.

    How about we have some police bait women for a while... it's getting old...

  • Just keep your eye open for an older guy that does not have a wedding ring and use those baby (insert eye color here) and more than likely you'll be on your back in no time. LOL

  • Well, you forget that a lot of men are really turned on by that dynamic, too.

    I'm sure you'll find lots of older men thrilled to have sex with you. Unfortunately though I'm an older man I'm 3 years outside your range :)

  • Advertise on Tinder or elsewhere. You'll have plenty of choice.

  • Then what are you waiting for?

  • Older men represent patience, stability and moderation. But not all of them. Some are predators. Watch your step.

  • I had a second ex-girlfriend, who was age 18 when I was 35, so dating a wide age gap is no problem also I knew these former friends of mine she was age 19, and she dated a guy who was age 45, well they ended up getting married and had 2 kids together and their marriage was successful, and the guy adopted her son who she had to another guy and that sons real dad was age 29, and she was age 15 at the time. So see the age gap between us all.

  • Not weird to me, I have a partner I sleep with that is 24. I normally hear it from younger partners that more life experience turns them on the most.

    Aside from usual places in big city and hanging out at more adult avenues, or apps, another avenue is non-monogamous circles, where people are in open or poly or marriages tend to be older and willing to have friends for sex, hookups or another relationship.

  • LMAO think you can find that absolutely everywhere

  • 2backpage. com

  • There are plenty of us out here. There are sites you can get on to look for NSA fun.

  • There are a lot of women your age that likes older men. I've been approached a few times. I think younger women like the experience older men have. Older men respect women more

  • well as someone who has been in that same situation but being the older guy, It's a bit more common then you think, if everyone is consenting adults then its nobodies business what you do and with who..

    Have fun

  • Could you be any more of a cliche

  • I’m sure there’s plenty around if you go online even, I doubt you’re near me 😊

  • Find someone. Lol. I'm about to start looking for one night stands, flings, anything really. I'm not sure where to look too. I heard hook up apparently are full of fake profiles so I haven't tried them yet.

  • I don't let societal values interfere as long as both are adults.

  • Wear flirty clothes like a tennis skirt and a little top and go around older man or a shiny spandex top and black yoga leggings flirt with the man or smile at them and say hi☺️😊😉

  • My ex was 19. So you shouldn't have much problems finding guys my age interested in women your age.

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