Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Hey guys.
I met this girl off tinder afew months ago. We only met up 5 months later because she started dating someone. Long story short, she and I started having sex. Its happened about 6 times. She broke up with her boyfriend but last night. It wasn't like our usual sex. It felt more intimate. She kissed me more. Stroked touched me more. It lasted longer. And before she came. She looked me in the eyes and told me she loved me. I tried to bring it up after sex but she just shut it down. What was that about?
She said she loves me during sex. I tried to bring it up after sex but she just shut it down. What was that about?
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16 29She’s getting emotionally involved like any typical tinder bimbo
She uses you for sex
Sounds like good sex
Rebound my guy, also that was prenut thinking
The more sex you have the more confusing this road your going down will be.
There's more to understand... Physical and emotional stimulation which goes beyond surface feelings.
The real question is are you prepared for how this relationship will change after the next few times.
You have to lead your own emotions and thoughts in this situation before your vulnerability betrays you.
You are the consistent exp. she doesn't have to be concerned about unless you make it one... Choose wisely
Looks like she enjoyed (only) the sex with you.
Lucky you, you have a friend with benefit!
So you had good sex. WTF are you complaining about?
He might be catching feelings and wonder if she is also
She loved part of you
That's an attention whoring slut. Keep banging that cunt if you enjoy it, but do not get attached. Her kind is nothing but poison and filth.
Don't do it. Don't fuck it up. Don't bring it up.
She meant she loved you at the moment.
She, may have been fantasizing about her ex. Or, she actually does love you. And, thinks it's to early to say it. Which means, you put it on her bro. And, the only thing she could say was I love you.
Some girls like to say they love you while they're being boned. Some like to hear you say that you love them. It doesn't mean either is true. Just like some girls like to be called sluts or whores.
It's just sex talk. Don't think of it as anything more.
Humm good question sounds like he only wants sex
Sex naturally releases inhibitions and compounds feelings of love/lust, etc. When those endorphins aren't flowing, humans have protective walls and safeguards in place
Well, to see if this is "true" love, try ignore her. She can be shy, but I am not your girl and I will not know that person's thoughts. Shall you ignore her or take away attention from her - if she will do anything in her power to get a hold of you, then there's something organic to your relationship. Just my 2 cents. If this is something casual that you two agreed upon, then it's only going to be as good as that - just casual
She didn’t mean it or she’s shy and think she’s fallen for you too soon.
She was fantasizing about her ex. Lol
If you love her as well just tell her you love her (outside the bedroom), if she loves you she will say it back. If she can't say it back then try to talk again.
Just read it more properly, it is concerning, maybe it was just in the moment.
The answer is straight forward. Women bond more during sex than men. We release a chemical that helps us bond more. Your answer is that she felt close to you in the moment. Does that mean she loves you? Probably not, but she probably felt like she did in the height of the moment. Don’t read too much into it. When someone says something like that and don’t want to discuss it further, you should let them be the one to bring it up.