Should I be honest about his penis?

There's this guy that I hook up with here and there but we've never officially finished the "deed". He's a good time and everything but the reason I want to hook up with him anymore is because his penis it's very small. He's 5'11 and he's a good-looking man but the penis just doesn't match the body. I don't know if I should be completely honest about this or just make up an excuse?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Eh, will being honest about this help at all? Since you aren't seeing him anymore, is it important that you tell him why you broke it off? And since telling him will probably/ definitely hurt a bit, will him knowing this help him in any way that would make it worth telling him?

    Overall, although I typically support honesty, when there's not any particular need for it and it will likely do more harm than good in the long haul, I'd suggest just keeping that bit of information to yourself. Unless he really pushes you about it, in which case just tell him, but I think he will have prefered not to know. Maybe I'm wrong.

  • make up an excuse

Most Helpful Girls

  • What would be the purpose in telling him? That's a bit scarring to tell a man that and it isn't going to help him in any way. He can't change his anatomy. All he can do is pick up other skills to compensate if it really is small.

  • U should not tell him that dudes are very u confident with their size

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  • Telling him that his penis is too small would be cruel. It could cause him irreparable harm. Find some other excuse to break up.

  • Yo tell him his penis is just too small for you, would probably be a major downer for him. Being as there is nothing he can do about his penis size, you are better off leaving that out of the picture, if you intend to leave. Are you expecting him to have a larger penis? As in over six inches? The average penis is about five and a half, to six inches when hard.

  • Isn’t he getting you off a few times during foreplay before intercourse? Seems like that’s where your feedback would be mutually beneficial.

  • Nope. Politely end your relationship without explanation. Hookups have no entitlement to that.

  • Why didn’t you finish?

  • How small us small? How is his oral sex technique?

    Have you tried anal? Your idea of small might change. 😛

  • i think saying that hey your dick is small i cannot sleep with you anymore is disrespectful you should make some other excuse..

  • this is for all the women who say that size doesn't matter. It obviously does.

  • I am in his situation! If it was me I would enjoy a girl saying to me that it is very cute! Ask him if he will wear panties to cover it up

  • If you want to be honest, be honest! You should have nothing to hide. If He's a Gentleman, He will accept the facts. If He's even more of a Gentleman, He will find OTHER ways to please you! Fingers, oral, all kinds of things!

  • Why tell him his dick is small? What do you have to gain from that. Just tell him you have a huge loose pussy that has been abused and he just doesn't fit the large void

  • I’d just break up with him and say it’s not working out if you tell him he’s got a small dong it might mess with his confidence

  • Poor fella

    • How small is it lol? Like 3 inches

  • Just tell him the truth.

  • Well ouch for him, just tell him you are moving on I guess.

  • what is hook up man penis size?

  • be honest with him, if I were him I'd appreciate your honesty to the the point I'd sport a cute little boner while you telling me this

  • Damn that’s a dick way to put it
    small dicks aren’t fun but still don’t be a dick about it not everyone is lucky enough to have a black anaconda for a dick

  • You have to try to empathize.
    How would you feel if a man broke up with you and said "I just don't think you're hot enough or pretty enough."
    It's not necessary.
    You could just say that you've met someone else.
    His penis might be perfect for someone else.
    There's no need to give him a complex about it because of your issues.