Should I be offended If my boyfriend says I have a sexy body?

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I didn't mean to ask a stupid question. I can be ver insecure sometimes And always feels like a guy likes me for my body and nothing else.
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  • It depends. In general, I presume that you dress for him sometimes and enjoy that he notices. That he would voice his admiration doesn't seem offensive to me.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Focus on enjoying the compliment, on accepting positivity instead of turning it into negativity, especially if you decide to direct that negativity at someone unfairly by assuming they only like you for your body. Think about it, what is offensive about a compliment?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think you should be offended. However, if you do not like him to compliment your body, maybe let him know to compliment on other things instead.

  • Come on, girl. Snap out of it. Seriously, don't waste your life thinking like this. You only get one life and It's time to get on with it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I should certainly hope not. He's your boyfriend. He's supposed to be attracted to you.

  • Yes it’s insulting. Not date guys who are turned off by your body. Then you will know for sure they respect you intellect.

    but in seriousness, it’s only offensive if that’s all he talks about. There’s missing info 🤷‍♀️😊

  • Absolutely not. He likes your body

  • it depends - does he know that you have a brain in your sexy body or not - ? thanks

  • Um, Ok, are you really asking if you should be offended that your boyfriend compliments you. I'm not sure what's up with you, but your question makes you seem like an airhead.

  • Girl no, that's an amazing thing. It's a good thing that he thinks you have a sexy body.

  • Why would that be offensive?

  • Why would you be offended? Don't you want to be desired?

  • No You should enjoy it because as You have kids and get older that body will be gone and You will probably never hear it again.

  • No be happy

  • if he finds you sexy. that is typically a good thing. in most cases at least.

  • If your natural response to being insecure is to become offended, then I think you need to have a think about where your head is at.

  • If you are offended, he should drop you like a bad habit. You must be infected with Feminist Derangement Syndrome to even ask that question.

  • I wish my boyfriend said that to me

  • I swear nowadays if you compliment a girl she'll file for sexual harassment... No wonder we don't compliment or hesitate doing anything...

  • Girl what 😂

  • No as long as he is not interested in your body only. Take it as a compliment.

  • Whattt? Offended? Really?

    • And how should we know. She did not post a picture of her body for us to be able to answer the question.

    • @Red_Arrow hehe cheeky

  • Yes. Be butthurt about it.

  • nope

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