Put social media and the online aside for a second, how's your relationship otherwise in general? Good? Trust him? Any issues? That's what's important and what I would focus on. We guys like to look and always will, it doesn't necessarily (often not at all) "mean" anything. He might be hiding it for your sake, because he doesn't want it to bother you? I don't know him, but he himself might be upset about it. Meaning maybe he doesn't want to look at these women, but being a guy, it's just natural (that we are more visual) and human curiosity. Maybe he "gives in" to his desires, but doesn't like himself after (why he gets defensive and angry?)? I'm only guessing, but maybe? I'm wondering if you took a different approach? Example next time if you "catch" him watching porn, say something like "what are you watching, can I watch to?" Taking somewhat of an interest. If he thinks you're "ok with it", maybe he'll be less secretive? And like I say, most likely "means" nothing so you'd have to not take this personally at all. But like a curiosity of what he's into. If you like porn, you could share with him what you like. Make it almost something to bond over? I'm just thinking it would eliminate not only the secrecy, but might also bring you closer together because it'll now be something you're sharing together. Just a suggestion. But if you aren't personally ok with that, I would try to take this less personally in general. I know that's hard, but like I say, most likely "means" nothing at all. Just curious, likes to look, that's it.
0 0 0 0I personally don't see the problem with him looking at different women or porn. He might actually learn from the second.
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I don't know looking at something once out of curiosity isn't really a bad thing. I've peeped at people's only fans pages out of curiosity. Looked at like 1 smutty ig model once and my explore page was filled with them. But who cares if he's looking? If you're that insecure in yourself and in your relationship that you can't handle your partner even thinking that another woman is attractive then you shouldn't be in a relationship. Reality is you are going to find other people attractive and that is ok.
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1 0 0 0Looking is one thing, touching or chatting with other girls is something altogether different.
1 0 0 0Lets try a chastity cage on him... that will feel you secure he couldn't do anything without you...
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