This happens all the time at college parties. It's best not to think too much about it, and just take it as an experience, especially if you enjoyed the sex. If you really felt you were taken advantage of I'd really try to think of the reasons you feel this way.. I am in college myself and know of several girls who pressed sexual assault charges against guys due to this and they won, the guys had to serve jail time. So I would try to make that distinction, but it sounds like you two had a good time, and it was consensual. I your ability to say no was compromised, then you have grounds to press charges against him.
0 0 0 0You got yourself in a YES position (glug glug) and even when enabled elected NOT to say NO. Seems no one's to blame as to sex, just to alcohol management = F and the hormones took over unencumbered by any brains... nor even love.
SO hope the physical part was at least memorable
then flush all the guilt, remain friends (if he'll also erase memories)
and LEARN how vulnerable YOU are around alcohol.
Next time it might be your life & blood at stake.0 0 0 0Hmmm are you sure you were awake and not passes out if you can't remember doing it? Also, most people check body language of the person they're having sex with to make sure they're comfortable... if u didn't want to I would think it would show in your body language even if u didn't stop him.
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Just put it down to experience, and maybe make it promise to yourself to control your drinking more in the future. Or, if you are wanting to get drunk, tell a few mates to look after yourself
we all do things we might later look back on and question, but, rather than linger on them and beat yourself up. Instead forgive yourself, and learn from them0 0 0 0"I got in to a fight because I was drunk"
No, you let your emotions get the best of you, and drank too much"0 0 0 0
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0 2Chalk it up to being drunk and forget about it.
0 0 0 0Hmm, should've just said no...
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