Should I get bottom surgery? (transgender) ?

is it a turn off for a trans girl to have a penis and testicles?
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  • I can never figure these things out. A trans girl is a woman who wants to be a man, or a man who wants to be a woman?

    Say trans girl means a man who wants to be a woman. Can a trans girl then be a lesbian who only likes sex with women?

    This is so confusing!

    • male to female. you're talking about a trans male.

    • I will explain. Transgender is a gender identity issue, not a sexual issue. A transgender female is a male that gender wise identifies as a female. You do not have to have girl parts to identify as trans. It means to identify as the opposite gender as in which you were born. Just because I'm biologically male identifying as female, doesn't flip a magical switch that makes me stop being attracted to women. If a trans female (still biologically male) is physically, socially and sexually attracted to another male, then they've always had deep rooted gay tendencies. To answer your question, if a trans female is attracted to females, technically they could be dubbed lesbians, but thats not the truth. A trans female is still biologically male and in terms of science is still in a heterosexual relationship with the females they've always desired. Remember, you may identify as the other gender, but it is scientifically impossible to change one's inert human biology in which they were born. Hormones do not have a transfemale grow ovaries. Chemistry changes but not biology. The term would be better served by using trangender woman and transgender man.

    • "Remember, you may identify as the other gender, but it is scientifically impossible to change one's inert human biology in which they were born." I'm sure you meant innate. And yes, it's true. I have been making this exact point for years. You can surgically alter your body parts and supplement your hormones, but it does not change the markers that indicate your gender within every cell of your body. Okay, so yes, you can be a trans female lesbian. In fact you seem to suggest that this would be the norm. No wonder they have such a challenge finding partners. A trans female lesbian would have to find a woman who wants to be with a male who identifies as a female. Hmmmm... so if a woman wants a trans female partner, does that make her a lesbian or is she heterosexual? You need a PhD to decipher this code.

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  • Im fine with it. But are you that's the real question.

    • im fine with my penis mostly

  • A lot of times the vagina made is not good at all anyways and doesn't even look like the real deal.

    • i stubbled on a few images... wish i hadn't.

    • stumbled.

  • Personally it wouldn't be a problem for me it's more important that you are happy with your own body and it matches your state of mind. I'm very open minded and some may be less open.

    • i would prefer a vagina but my penis doesn't bother me

    • doesn't both me either but it's your body. I'd be attracted to you either way.

  • I would prefer her not to have a penis and balls if we're dating.

  • That is something you have to decide for yourself, do you enjoy having a penis or does it gross you out, does it complete who you are or would removing it complete who you are. Those are things you have to ask yourself. There are guys who are going to like you no matter the genitals you have and guys who are going to dislike you for having certain genitals the point is to find the right person for you and be the right person for yourself.

    • i feel like im meant to have a vagina but my penis doesn't gross me out (although random erections are embarrassing)

    • plus is it'll be easy to tell when you're in the mood.

    • @Sabretooth yes! its difficult to hide that

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  • Good
    Because she can live in girls hostel

  • That’s a personal choice. You have to decide what makes you happy.

  • Some guys will like it some guys won't it's better to decide for yourself and then find someone who has that prefrance I understand it might be difficult but not all relationships last but your body that's is yours not anyone elses

  • If you can afford it and you want to, and don't mind some pain, then yes. It's up to you. A penis and testicles on a woman are a problem for most men.

  • Yeah

  • no, makes you unique. and i mirror what Anonymous (36-45) said.

    • though, they might be curious.

    • wanting to use it in sex. you either can hate what's different or be curious.

    • kinda curious-have you decided?

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  • No, not at all you are very attractive as you are.

  • They are not girls

  • i think it would be sexy

  • Huh?

  • I'd like to see if you'd like to talk to me in detail.

    • If you want to install kik masenger app on your phone let's talk about it from there

    • i have it

    • What is your username

  • Umm that would be a biological male.. pretending to be a female..

  • It’s a turn off for a dude to pretend to be a female. Having the penis outside or pushed inside doesn’t make a difference.

    • i know im not female. i wish i was.

  • Do you have a nice cock? i'd like it better if you did

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