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Should I just whore myself?

I want to feel desired for once. I'm trying to find love and I've never had sex with anyone in a hookup because I want to wait until I find a boyfriend (not to be confused with waiting till marriage). But I can't find love. No ones ever interested and I feel ugly and undesirable. I'm so close to snapping and just whoring myself out to the first person who shows some kind of interest. Should I keep trying to find love and feel miserable and lonely until I maybe one day find someone or should I give up and just snap?
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  • Darlin. I'm so sorry but please listen. Now at first it's going to sound bad and like I'm trying to wreck your world but that is not the case. I am trying to give you the best knowledge you can have and live by that will in time do you a ton of incredible.
    Ok this is going to be hard to hear but read it as many times as it takes. Think long and hard and deep about it. Use the KISS method of thinking. That stands for keep it simple stupid. Here it is. You are never going to make anyone else happy. No one else is ever going to make you happy. You have never are not and will not ever make anyone happy. No one has ever is currently or will ever make you happy. It can't be done. They might be able to add to your happiness or you might be able to add to their happiness but that's as much as you can do for anyone else and that's the most anyone else can do for you. You are the only one that can make you happy. You can't love anyone or anything untill you can love yourself. It will be a hard road to change the base ways of thinking about these things but it's as true as the warmth of the sun. Think about how it can be that way. Yeah folks can take you even forcefully to somewhere that's fun but untill you allow yourself to have fun your going to sit there and everyone else's fun will make you that much more mad or frustrated or whatever. Please. You know a beautiful person is in you somewhere. Find her. When you do and when she takes over then show us the gorgeous woman that rose from the current lost child before us now.

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  • You think “whoring” yourself will be the answer to the feelings you’re experiencing? Have you thought that maybe they will enhance or even exacerbate them even more? My advice? Don’t do this. Find yourself some goals and a purpose that you are interested in or passionate in and then focus on that. Also, while you’re at it, do things for your leisure that you enjoy, experience life your way. Do you like to kayak? Mountain bike? Run? Read? Play video games? Great, do all of those things. You have to put yourself out there to meet dating interests, so by living your life you will meet all sorts of people you can be interested in. I would suggest also checking out dating apps too.

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  • Hooking up with someone won't make you feel any more desirable than you currently feel. You'll know deep down they don't care about you and just want to use your body for their pleasure.

  • I once had your mindset, and the whoring affects any ability to main a proper relationship. You are better off finding a boyfriend, than you are just hooking up.

    • @kyleelyn199723 have u ever tried hooking up or just bfs?

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  • If you're going to do that, make sure you get the money up front.

  • Been there. Keep looking for love. It is worth it.

  • I understand how you feel but it is important to find the right person. Your going to feel miserable and lonely regardless, might as well make it worth it by not whoring yourself out.

    So the key is figuring out what exactly the problem is, i. e. are you not meeting anyone, do they only want sex, do they flake on you etc. So what exactly is happening?

  • You can loosen a bit by allowing yourself to have sex with a guy attracted to you without commitment, but don't charge (whoring).

  • I don't even NEED to look at the responses. I reckon I can guess most of 'em.

  • Be patient. You will regret if u lose ur virginity w smn u don't truly love. Everyone is beautiful in his/her own way, so forget the idea that u're ugly, you are not. Just make sure to give proper hints to guys u like, or even better, u make the first move. There are lots of shy guys out here, that are too scared to make a first move :D

  • you answered your own question lol you want what you want and if we’re to just whore out you most likely won’t enjoy it without his commitment it’s not for everyone. just use reddit and post sexy pictures and enjoy the attention that way if you need it or sext someone far away

  • Don't have sex because you feel ugly or lonely. However I would say that curiosity about sex would be a valid reason to have sex. So if you want to go for it. But make sure you feel safe with this person.

  • Well, if you do decide to whore yourself, come on over here and I'll fuck you almost as much as you want.

  • U shouldn't give up

  • It's a good idea.

  • Just keep trying to find love, don't turn into a whore.

  • I think you should be posting a photo of yourself or something with this question that’d help much more than the whole parah

    • Yes this often tells a lot of the story.

  • have you ever tried tinder?

  • Mu
    T girlfriend wasn't waiting for marriage and had sex at 33. I w as 27.5 when I first had sex.

  • yes, give up and whore yourself.
    I want to be the first customer!!!

  • You've to be patient... I think... how can you say that you're ugly if someone don't desires you... there are guys who prioritize beautiful mind to physical attractiveness... best things will come to you if you manifest them in your mind...(law of attraction)

    The points you've written at the first are the best decisions I think... Whoring yourself is the worst Option to be chosen as nobody desires a whole... they just want their genitals for a little period of timeIf you've leisure you can read or listen the book titled "the secret" focusing law of attraction...

    • Maybe I should try to think a bit more positively in the future

    • Yes... you get me... think positive... positive things will happen... But most people can't do that as it's difficult to think possibly in frustration ... Never think that you're alone in that situation here most people decide the wrong thing and Instant pleasure and suffers in the long run... Never think for a moment that you're alone... God is with you... God creates difficult situation only to test his or her creature... Try to pray and tell him/her everything... also you can cry while praying that will make your heart clean... . Good luck 🌺🌺🌺

  • What about whoring yourself out online over chaturbate with me? it's safer and you get to look at this big dick

    • that's actually not a bad idea, you'll get some attention you need and it is a lot safer if you do go the "whoring" route, be a sugar baby like on seeking arrangement. you get your pick of guys, they'll treat you very nice, usually like a girlfriend, and you'll get some money or rent paid or a car or whatever you want. and they don't always want sex, sometimes just someone to talk to or cuddle with or whatever

    • @rachel776 exactly. And if she doesn't want to then I'll settle for you

  • Dont give up and dont whpre
    U will find him or he will find u
    U will feel loved and desired :)
    How old are you?

    • I'm 22

    • You are so young Please be patient :) Whats yor username

  • Don’t rush and don’t look for love

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