Should I tell my neighbor that i’m having dreams about him?

I know it’s weird and creepy but lately i’ve been having dreams that I’m in love with him when in reality I don’t have those feelings for him. We are close and more like friends I guess. Should I let it go and ignore it or tell him about the dreams?
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  • I wouldn’t say anything. Dreams are weird. I’ve had very sexually explicit dreams about people whom I’ve met but have never had any romantic interest. I’ve had many weird/disturbing dreams, but none of them have been remotely based on reality. They could be based on some subconscious attraction that you have to him; they could also be based on something completely different. Again, dreams are weird and sometimes/often are random and make no sense.
    I would just let it go.

  • The fact that you are dreaming about being in love with him is very interesting. Maybe your subconscious is trying to tell you something. I don't think you should say anything.

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  • I wouldn't share a dream. If there are no feelings for him when you're awake, it's probably for the best that he not get the wrong impression. "I've been dreaming about you and me together" would go a long way toward that wrong impression.

  • Instead of telling you neighbor write a book or script about it and submit it for a movie because it is strange!

    • Not to that point.

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  • Tell him.
    There's no point in hiding your feelings because it'll only ruin your friendship if you sit there loathing over him.
    I wouldn't go straight away and say you're dreaming of him, but hint that you are seeing him as more than a friend and tell him then.
    You're a good looking girl and you seem to get along well, my money's on he feels the same but is scared to say.

    • You get clarity as well. If he's a true friend, then he'll continue to be your friend if he doesn't feel the same. If he can't accept it then he was never a true friend. Either way you get an answer rather than wonder what he's thinking!

  • Keep it to yourself.

  • don't tell him... especially if it doesn't match reality, it could make things awkward, misleading or confusing and there's nothing fun about that

    • @sugar_7 happy holidays!!

  • I'd keep it to myself if I were in your position unless you want him to think you're in love with him.

  • Tell him about the dreams sugar...

    Your subconscious mind loves him.. And it will be a very passionate relationship or mating...
    Whatever you get

  • Just ignore it and let it pass... unless you want a relationship... and if it doesn't work out he'll be right next door for a long time.

  • You're a T. I. of government Gangstalking

  • You could mention he was in a dream but wouldn’t go into detail and attach any romantic feelings to it. Until you date him no need to let him know

  • I would advice you to keep your dream to yourself before his feelings start growing on you. You made ot clear to us that you dont have sexual or higher level of feelings for him.

  • It’s not weird because you guys are close

  • I wouldn't go out of my way, unless you guys are close, then you could just joke about it

  • WHY would you do it, and what purpose would it serve to tell him ANYTHING? You'd be telling the poor guy " I have dreams that I'm in love with you, but in reality, I don't. Just thought you should know' ? What if he actually has more feelings for you than he's expressed? You'd have just shot an arrow through his heart.

    So no, I don't see ANY up side in telling him, especially if what you say is true - that you have zero love thoughts about him.

  • heck yea be hot to have that happen. you both may like the conversation or get off to it , fuck, or just be friends and nothing happen. Kool part is not knowing until you do.

  • If you don't actually have feelings for him, then just let it go.

  • Only if you want to fuck him because he will want to if you tell him that.

  • No, because you admitted you don't have feelings for him, so that would make it awkward. I say let it go unless the idea makes you horny enough to change your mind.

  • When you are not asleep, do you see him sexually or romantically?

    • Neither.

    • I wouldn't say anything. Most guys don't think like women. He won't think it's creepy or anything like that. But most guys don't think like women again. And he will think you like him or you are interested him. In a weird way, it will be like you are leading him on or teasing him.

  • Is your neighbor your age? Or close to it?

    • A bit older

    • Follow me, i already follow you..

  • Alexa bliss, is marrying her best friend... who happens to be a guy

  • Is he single and what's the ages. Based on that I'd wait on telling him

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