Should my trainer have removed his hand from my back if he could feel my bra?

[Anonymous]

He was demonstrating an exercise to me and he kept his hand on my back it was with some pressure so I could easily feel his hand on my bra through my t-shirt. If it was a momentary thing I would have ignored it but his touch there lingered for some time as he pressed on that area of my back. I'm obviously sure he could feel my bra and should have taken his hand away but he didn't.

Was he doing it on purpose then? Before this I was doing the lat pulldown exercise and I didn't ask for his help or anything but he himself came up behind me for spotting and was standing so close that my hair was on his chest.

[David94358]

Never heard of a guy finding the back bra strap sexual in any way.. the front? Yeah. But he touched your back to help you with an exercise doesn't really mean anything just because he was touching your bra strap.

It means as much as him putting his hand on your lower back or shoulder, it's contact so that could mean something or nothing, the bra doesn't really add anything to read into..

[Asker]

Uh a lot of guys do touch a girl's back like that

[Asker]

I think it's pretty common

[Asker]

It's actually a way to flirt/get close

[David94358]

I'm sure they do but don't see it being any different then touching your back lower where they don't feel the bra.. I'm saying the bra strap is meaningless.. at least to me it is

[Asker]

Even unhook her bra by putting their hand there

[David94358]

If I liked you and thought you where hot, I'm not thinking "I'm going to touch her back bra strap to send you a message" that thought will never go through my mind, touch you? Sure.. but your bra strap is completely meaningless to any message I'm trying to send

[bowenw]

He should have removed it when he was finished with the demonstration.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Sirenboobzilla]

Hard to say without seeing it. But if you're doing lateral pulldowns, the bra straps go over that group if muscles, so could be feeling for the muscle tension as you pull. Doesn't take long to gage if someone's doing it right/ wrong though

[Asker]

No, you've got it mixed up. He was touching my back during a different exercise during lat pull down he was spotting for me when I didn't even ask for it and he was standing so close behind me that the back of my head and my hair was on his chest.

[Fanfare690]

It's deff giving closeness

[Fanfare690]

Lack of boundaries

[Asker]

So you think he was doing it on purpose then?

[Fanfare690]

Absolutely

[MicahRaine]

Ngl he was probably just trying to make sure you would be okay. people getting hurt is a trainer's worst nightmare

[Anonymous]

Didn't he ask you to give him a hj/bj? 😂

[Asker]

I don't understand what's so funny in this?