Sleeping naked with boyfriend?

I want to sleep naked with my boyfriend but I don't want to make him uncomfortable. Has anyone slept naked with thier spouse? Did it always lead to sex?
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He's weird about sex and nudity, I just want to try to turn him on so we have sex more often
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  • Sleeping naked is more common these days except
    opposites attract! Often this counters the willingness to sleep naked but once the room thermostat is set, one's going to be comfortable and the other either too hot or cold = solution is one must wear clothes/PJs, extra covers while the other gets to be naked.

    This will turn him on more & sex more often, yet it's touching him with the visual aides that usually strikes a spark.

  • Honestly, each person/relationship is different. With my boyfriend and I, our relationship isn't centered around sex regardless of sleeping naked or not. If you think it will, then don't sleep naked with your boyfriend. Unless you want to have sex. I apologize in advance if my question was not helpful.

  • We sleep naked together all the time and it doesn't lead to sex. For us it has nothing to do with sex at all. It has to do with how freaking hot it is here during the summer with no air conditioning. Be sure to take a shower before having morning sex under those conditions. :)

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  • I have slept naked since I was in high school. I love the feeling of the covers on my skin. I always stay naked after sex and he should like it if you do it also. Talk with him about it and tell him that you like him naked... it is ok to talk about sex! How often are you two having sex? Does being naked lead to round two or three.. it does for me? Your thoughts?

  • You said he's weird about it, but it will be only the two of you and I can't really see how it could be unpleasant for you. It doesn't always lead to sex even though it's certainly very tempting. Maybe if you tried to sleep naked after sex he could accept it better.

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  • Why don't you just talk to him about it?

  • I sleep naked with the guy on sleep in with all the time. Sometimes it leads to sex other times it leads to sex but after a while it does not lead to sex

  • Almost every night. we both sleep naked it doesn't always
    lead to sex but it sure does help

    • My suggestion is to begin wearing less and less to bed. if you would normally wear pjs and undies loose the undies and wear boxers.. then just wear a long tshirt with undies onces he's used to that loose the undies abdwear just a long singlet. then nothing at all

    • Great idea.

  • "Has anyone slept naked with thier spouse?" With their spouse? Probably everyone.

    • Why I NEVER. How dare you insinuate such things. :o

    • @teawrecks - Sorry. I should have specified those that have spouses. Sorry you felt left out. lol

  • Yeah, I've slept naked next to my partner a lot. No, it doesn't always lead to sex. If you're worried he'll dislike it, talk to him about it, communication is key.

  • Talk to him about it. Before going to bed next time tell him that you would like to try sleeping naked out of curiosity. And ask if he's okay with it.

  • I am always kissing/caressing her regardless of what she's wearing. Plus she would be under covers so it's not a visual stimulate... which would really get me horny.

  • Why would your boyfriend get uncomfortable? You just get used to it and it becomes the new normal!

  • Why would that make him uncomfortable?
    I have slept naked with girls before, no big deal, and it doesn't always lead to sex.

  • If i was the boyfriend i'd certainly do it, but if you do not want it to lead to sex it might help to let me know beforehand otherwise i might get really dissapointed if it got me all excited and horny.

  • I sleep naked 80% of the time now. He likes the skin to skin contact more.
    It doesn't lead to sex, but fun touches and squeezes are involved sometimes.
    Just say "hey, would you be okay if I didn't wear clothes to bed"
    That one sentence will probably lead to sex.

  • Done that and still have not had vaginal sex.

  • ... Are you... serious? Everyone and i mean everyone has.

  • Shit, I'm single and I sleep naked. It's more relaxing and you sleep better for some reason. I wish my girlfriend would've slept naked with me but we where to young and had no place private to do it. It is really sexy but I don't think it will always lead to sex.

  • I have slept my girlfriend that lived with me. She slept naked and I had on boxers. Most of the time in the beginning it was always sex... but after a while it stops. There are times though when you both wake up in the middle of the night and have sex though.

  • I've never done it, but if you don't want to have sex with him, I'd recommend not to do it. But if you want to, then by all means, go for it.

  • Has anyone slept naked with thier spouse?
    If you're a spouse, then you're comfortable, annoyed, but comfortable

    Did it always lead to sex?
    no.

  • Many times.

  • lmfao. if you have big boobs it can be comfortable.

  • Yes I have been sleeping naked since ten years old no matter where I am or who I'm with.
    It's no big deal.

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