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Guys, Small breasts insecurity?

My breasts are small maybe really small not sure, I just know mostly all girls i see in a day are bigger than me. I am about a 34A-32B depending on the bra. How bad is it that most girls are bigger than me, is it a huge deal? or a big deal? I feel it’s really bad so i feel really insecure about it? I just want to know how bad it is. I’ll never think i am hot shit, but i would like to feel like i do not need to be embarrassed is it a minor, moderate or major flaw and what should i do about it?
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what should i do? what would you do if you were a girl in my situation? thanks. :)
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  • For higher status alpha males like me it definitely is a huge problem. We want to be seen wit the hottest female wit a decent size rack (At least a C cup but nothing huge over a Double D cup). I think chics wit small tits ask these questions as a SHIT TEST to see who the quality status alpha males are and who the beta males are. haha. They secretly like when the guy wants bigger tits, because in her mind, that makes him look like he is higher quality alpha male (and when you think about it, it's true). The beta dudes don't really mind (or claim not to mind). Just something I've noticed in the past (I've been with tons of women, of all types, which is how I recognized this).

    No matter how many compliments chics wit small tits get, they'll ALWAYS feel insecure and inferior to chics wit bigger tits, and I hate to be an asshole (okay, maybe not, because my asshole ways do get me laid the most haha), but it's true, guys will always want bigger than a B cup. I'm Tall, hot, successful, big cock and can get pretty much any woman I want, which I usually choose least a C cup.

    It's a 'status' thing, even women want a dude who has some muscles and has a bigger than average cock (women who say size doesn't matter are lying and we ALL know it). It's the same with dudes and tits. The average or below average beta dudes may not mind as much, but higher status alpha males will choose women with bigger breasts. Just the way it is.

    I've even noticed that I'm subconsciously more of a rough prick in the sack wit women who have smaller tits. Ironically, they seem to love that shit though (like a degradation fetish or something). They know subconsciously that I can get a higher status female with bigger breasts, so they try harder to please in the sack and do more of what I want. One plus I'll give here though, it does seem smaller breasted chics have tighter pussies.

    But aside from that, I think most guys if given the choice would definitely choose a woman wit bigger breasts. He may tell you that it doesn't matter, while secretly checkin out the chic at the next table wit big knockers. It's just like if most women were given the choice, they'd choose a dude wit a bigger cock. They may tell their boyfriend or husband size doesn't matter, while secretly having a fantasy of a guy wit a bigger package. SIZE DOES MATTER! But you're welcome to try and change my mind on that. I'm in Northern California (near SF) and I'm a successful dude. Get at me if you're up for the challenge.

  • I have to answer this one. So many men and women focus on large breasts. For me, and I do know a few other men (not boys) that feel the same as I do, small breasts are extremely attractive. Whether you are petite or taller, slim or larger, small is beautiful! I am a middle aged guy now but have always been much more attracted to a cup women (girls when younger). There is just something far more sensuous about smaller breasts. More lady like. I have been with larger women and because I cared for them I accepted who they were but I am far more attracted to smaller breasts. I believe society has for some reason put the emphasis on larger breasts. But back in the seventies small was what was in. Some men who prefer smaller breasts are often "afraid" to say this around other men because they are supposed to like big breasts. Unless the guy is a fetish freak, I would suggest to you if he likes your smaller breasts he is more genuine and sensitive and caring then a guy who likes a wet t-shirt contest of large breasted girls. IT IS NOT A FLAW, IT IS AN ASSET! Years from now yours will still be attractive and the big girls will not be. My wife is 57 and small and her breasts are nearly perfect and still extremely attractive. She has NEVER worn or even owned a bra and is actually a shy and sweet quiet women sexually and I still see guys check her out all the time and she never even notices. They still look that good naked under her t-shirt and button up shirt that young guys look at them. I don't get made as long as it is just "polite" looking because she does look good. And when I hold my Love at night, her breast perfectly fits in my Loving hand and it is a comfort to us both that I can hold her this way. You are not flawed just different then media portrayals. Don't be embarrassed cause at 55 you'll look as good as my girl and the big girls will not want anyone to see them at even 35!

    • thanks very nice to say :)

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  • There is no flaw.
    I don't even need to see a picture of you, I know that there isn't a flaw.

    You were made this way and you're beautiful.
    Everybody is.

    Plus, some guys love small boobs and think that big boobs get in the way.
    Then there's some guys like me that don't really care about breast size :)

    So don't feel insecure about it! :)

  • I dated a gal who had small breats like that and she wanted to fix it. I told her if she wannted a boob job, go for it but to do it FOR HER, not for me or men in general. She did it, got some DDs and lived happily ever after. If you'll feel better about yourself with larger breasts, buy yourself some but be sure you know why you're doing it.

    Does that make sense?

    • yes but i just worry most guys say they really do not like implants, and that matters to me.

    • I hear that but I'd suggest you look at some survey research. If I recall correctly, they split something like 60-40 for guys that don't care. I'm not recommending you have the surgery, I just want to help you make an informed decision.

    • no i would rather a guy love me for what i am, than me have to be fake. Surgery is also scary to me and i know with implants you need to replace them every 7-10 years, also even top quality ones go rock hard over tome as scar tissue builds up around the implant. It is a easy way out maybe, but i just do not like it. Thanks though.

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  • Listen, it's not a major issue at all. There are many guys who don't care about breast size (I'm one of them).

    Appearance wise, i would say your figure is most important (bottom, legs, hips) as well as your facial features. As long as you have a toned feminine body and an attractive face, you're suited.

    B cup sizes would be perfect for me.

  • You only think small boobs are bad because you are falling into the social retardation of the planet. Your bobs are fucking awesome and if they were bigger and filled with hard plastic they are fucking ugly. Unless yo are trying to attract the type of man to objectify you. Please don't yell security because what do you think the human race has done for the last couple thousand years... Be Natural and listen to what real men have to say. You aren't an object or a piece of meat. You are human and Your body is your body and fuck the kardashians for brainwashing 90% of western civilisation to think they are ugly unless the pay for a new face or tits... Also you are talking like a 15 year old not a 25-29 year old wtf?

    • I have felt this way after about 24 when my boyfriend at the time, who i loved for nearly 7 years told me they were too small. This is something that has grown on me, i do miss the times i did not care. But a great comment, thank you :)

    • He was a fucking asshole then. I couldn't even compare the love I have for my girl to her body parts. I wish that when he told you that that you had of told him you can't feel his skinny little cock. See how he likes having his confidence crushed by someone. Sorry to hear that you had such a asshole... After all, there is no such thing as perfect or flawed when it comes to humans.

  • I don't really care about boob size, since they don't really do anything for me anyway.

  • Not important, if you are worrying about missing out on a guy due to your breast size, then you are problem looking for the wrong type.

    • I do not mind that they are small, just that they are most often the smallest in the room and that it might be boring for a guy i do not know?

    • I know guys say its not a big deal enough times, but maybe why? like why do they not mind, please?

    • Well I don't speak for other men, but they don't matter for me. Breasts are only important for guys who are looking for a one night stand. Do you really think a man looking for a relationship is weighing his decision on the fact how big her breasts are?

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  • They sound perfect!!

  • You definitely don't need to be embarrassed. If you don't believe me, and you probably won't, then Google "small breast" lovers. There are entire forums devoted to small breasts, never mind the mind-boggling amount of porn.

    • I know lol, i just would rather be more normal than a fetish.

    • It's not a fetish necessarily. I mean, there is no "reason" for guys to like breasts at all, so any attraction to breasts, or legs, or booty, etc. is a fetish of sorts. Ultimately it is up to you to decide what guys you want. Women make the choices moreso than men. Just don't get implants. Only weird guys like implants.

    • Also, the point I was trying, and failing, to make is that you need to finds guys (or girls) who like *YOU* not your breasts, or legs, or booty, etc.

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  • It is not a flaw. The biggest downer as a guy is if you are insecure about it and then restrict my access because of it.

    It is what you have. Be proud of it and share it with the guy you like.

    Sure we notice big voluptous boobs like we notice a sports car but we dont all drive sports cars now do we? We still enjoy other types of cars very much.

    Its not a flaw. I would do nothing about it and go on with life.

    Alex Morgan. US Soccer player. Insanely hot. Small boobs. Zero factor in her hotness. I'd take her all day long and twice on the weekends. I would not want her to change a single thing.

  • Don't worry about it. Small ones are just fine

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