So... am I slutty?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

So... I'm bi, and... I'm virgin. When I go to parties or concerts, I like to flirt, well, I LOVE TO FLIRT. I go to parties or concert because I like to have fun, but I also like to make out with a stranger. I usually make the first move and I kiss the guy, I'm starting with girls, I'm still shy with them, I feel that they won't like me back because they're straight. How I knew I'm bi? Well, my friends and I started kissing in the classroom as a game, but then I was like "I kissed a girl, I liked it" and after that, a friend of mine asked me to do a 3some with her and her boyfriend, honestly, I felt super attracted to her, more attracted to her than her boyfriend. Then I made out with other friend and.. yeah, we did more than make out. Well, I really don't care if a guy has a girlfriend, I worked on a restaurant and there was this guy with a girlfriend, he's a player but I gave a damn and I went to his house, we did many things and I never cared about his girlfriend. There was this guy in a concert, I blew him and I didn't know his name. There was this guy, the crush of my best friend, but it didn't stop me and I went to his house anyway. There was this guy in a concert with a girlfriend, I gave a damn and I let him fingered me and gave him a handjob. He was a total stranger. There were these guys, all from concerts, that I kissed and I don't even know their names. I have no problems with cheating I think, if the guy has a girlfriend for me it's like "meh, I don't care, I still want to suck your dick". I'm a very open-minded person, so if a guy/girl cheats on me I'll be mad about her/him cuz he/she didn't invite me to the party. I have no problems with making out with strangers and sucking their dicks/pussies.

[HandsomeRaj]

1. I'm not voting cause I'm not out here to judge you
2. In my opinion you are as much an angel as anyone can be
3. Your intent isn't to hurt anyone but in the process there may be situations where other girls are hurt. Just as long as you avoid that part i. e. keep it under wraps and not rub it into the girl' whose boyfriend you've done it's all ok
4. I don't condone any act that is meant with the intent to hurt someone else :)
5. As long as you are feeling good about it it's all ok :)
6. I have strong ethics and principles but the way society perceives morals isn't among them, I am fairly liberal with my thoughts
7. All that ends well is good :) but a word of caution be careful both on the DD front as well as when you grow older, you need to keep finding a boyfriend (whenever you do want to) who understands and accepts you the way you are, that apart from the fact that you'll need to accept people talking cause such things are spoken about not in a very nice way by most people - that shouldn't send you into depressions and stuff. So as long as you have taken care of all these things, it's all perfect and ok :)
8. And why are you asking people to judge you as to what you are? To the flames with everyone else. You be confident and happy but don't intend hurting anyone :)

[WhatTheHellAmy]

The thing is I don't care if I hurt someone, it's not my goal though. I think I'm okay with what I do but I'm not fully happy with it. Well, I just wanted to know what people think. Thanks for your opinion.

[HandsomeRaj]

While you are most welcome with pleasure, young lady; I will strongly urge you to take care of not hurting others in the process. You are free to do what you think pleasures you but these are things you must think about 1. Hurting another person to fulfill a casual quest results in their thinking, talking etc bad about you which in the long run will affect you somewhere or the other 2. Even if you take care of not hurting another person, don't expect the world to be kind to you. Be ready to face that. Every action has a reaction :) 3. What people think won't be the way I do so revert to point 2 :D 4. To hell with everything else, most important is how you view yourself after a point of time. NOTHING in what I say urges you to reconsider how you are or what you feel except the fact that try not to hurt someone else wittingly :) that will do you a lot good in the future :)

[Prof_Don]

Yes you're slutty.

Not because you're a highly sexual person.

But because you intentionally break commitments and girl-code rules, to chase sex.

It's very likely you're a sex addict. Look it up and make sure you don't morally bankrupt yourself because of your thirst for sexual play. :-/

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Yeah, I know that makes me a fucking bitch, wasn't a nice move from me. Never think of that, sex addict? I could be one, yeah

[Prof_Don]

The only ones that are morally bad are the guys you know had girlfriends, and the dude your best friend had a crush on. Everything else u mentioned is just a (hopefully at the time) single girl having fun!

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Sure, you are right. At the same time? Those are different stories. 1.- blew a guy from concert 2.- 3some 3.- a guy from concert fingered me 4.- kissed guys from concerts/parties

[Abiiir]

OH GOD
i'm sorry but are you even a human
disgusting
your body feels but i don't think that your heart feels too
you gave me chills MAN or should i say CHAOTIC creature
if you had a sexually transmitted disease then don't blame people just blame your self
if you don't find the real love blame only your self
human being shouldn't live like that like NONE SENSE
i'm really sorry for saying that but give your body your soul and you heart a break
your life does'nt make any sense

[WhatTheHellAmy]

HAHAHAHAHA okay. Well, I really liked a guy, he was a player, he broke my heart so I fucking started to do this. I want to don't have feelings. Feelings just hurt me. Yeah, of course I am the one to blame! I know my mistakes! Thanks for your opinion though Well, I would like to be something else than a human. Human is so mainstream lol

[Abiiir]

so sad to hear that someone broke your heart ,,, hope you will find peace but let me tell you if you wanna be something other than a human then just be something better than human not the opposite

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Thanks a lot <3 I hope I find peace too. That's a great advice, I'll be a better human :)

[spuitkaas]

You're a bit out of control. It doesn't matter what you do with people, but it's not very classy to do things with people who have a boyfriend or girlfriend or do things your bestfriend has a crush on. That's just being a bad friend.
But honestly, do you do these things because you really like to do them or something else. Like feeling being useful or loved, group pressure, make a statement etc?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Yeah, I know :/ I feel bad about my friend, not so bad about the girlfriends of the guys, cuz I don't know them so I don't care. I do these thing because my parents got divorced, I did research and what I found is that guys masturbate a lot when parents get divorce and girls become promiscuous... I have daddy issues, I want to get attention, I don't know, I'm a crazy bitch.

[spuitkaas]

Sounds like you've got some issues. Talk to your parents about it.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Ooh... I don't think I can. They would freak out if they would knew what I do.

[spuitkaas]

I think they would already appreciate it if you come to them for help. You don't have to say your problem directly. You can just say "mom, dad, I have a problem and I want help with it, but I'm really scared you guys get really mad". And then they say things like 'we won't get mad, we promise' and then explain your problem. It might seem useless to tell your parents about your problem, but they've got way more life experience than you. I figured that out later.

[GirlsLie]

I wouldn't think or call you a slut really but I do think you' come across dumb and act very inconsiderate.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

That's true..

[GirlsLie]

I don't think girls should be ashamed of being sexual but if you're doing it because you're just not happy with your life or something in your life then you should take a step back and reevaluate things. And try to fix those things and what's causing you to do them and in the end if you're just happy being the way you are because you like it, that's a different story. But I have a feeling someone your age is probably going through something and your hormones are insane and this is just the out come of it :(

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I blame hormones, my parents and the guy who broke my heart. My parents got divorced, so I want attention. Fucking hormones The guy... Well, I decided to never fall in love again because that hurts. I wanted to become a player, like he is.

[GirlsLie]

Well if you're going to let hurt run your life then you're going to live a pretty miserable life. There comes a point in your life where you need to stop letting other people's actions, justify yours. It's just weak to let other people have that much influence on you. Figure out what you want with your life and who you want to be and focus on that. Don't put some guy on a pedestal and try to be like him because he broke your heart, that happens with love sometimes but awesome things come with it too lol

[WhatTheHellAmy]

That's a very nice answer. Thanks a lot, you are right, I should focus on what I want.

[GirlsLie]

You honestly sound like a really fun girl and very open minded. I know I come across lecturing but i'm honestly the same way lol but being open minded and fun doesn't mean you have to do things out of hurt is all I was trying to say. Anyway, I hope things get better for you and for your life :)

[Pink2000]

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I mean I don't judge but you're quite "active"

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Hahahah okay. Nice pic lol I don't care if I'm a hoe though

[art_of_sin]

You only live once😉

[WhatTheHellAmy]

AMEN TO THAT BABE <3

[DanteSparda]

Vote section says it all, sis.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

hahahaha okay

[ChronicBoys26]

Bisexuality is not slutty situation...

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Thanks! I needed to know that

[ChronicBoys26]

Welcome :) Some people and some countries prejudge the LGBT people, but however it's quite a normal situation. I've never judged bisexuals, lesbians, transsexuals and gays.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Thanks for being a very understandable guy. You are right, it's something normal :)

[ChronicBoys26]

Welcome :) You are definitely normal and this is not a slutty behavior.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Thanks again :)

[AleDeEurope]

Slutty? Hmmmm it depends on your reasons behind those acts.
I just think you need to be more respectful, of yourself and of others. You don't understand that fucking a guy (ok, not fucking, but doing sexual stuff) that's in a relationship will cause pain to his partner?
Also, I don't consider what you did a threesome, I believe a threesome involves sex, aka, penetration, penis in vagina, and since you're a virgin, that didn't happen, so I wouldn't consider that a threesome.

P. S.: I knew you were kinda crazy, but not like this xD

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Well, the reasons... I guess daddy issues, and I don't know, I want to have fun I know it's bad if I do stuff with guys who are in a relationship, it's just that if they approach me, I find it hard to say no (the guy from the restaurant did it, and I didn't say no cuz I liked him). I did approach the guy from a concert, I kissed him first, but he was okay with that, after one hour, he told he had a girlfriend, I was like "Ok, I don't care, I'm horny" Well, yeah.. It wasn't totally a 3some, they had sex though, I just kissed my female friend and her boyfriend while they were having sex, hickies and stuff. I blew the guy, it was just oral sex. PS: Yeah, people normally think I'm a sweet pie. I'm good at faking. I hope you don't think I'm a horrible person or something like that hahaha

[AleDeEurope]

Well, then in my book you'd be somewhat a slut, cause you don't fully do it because you like sex, but also for attention. I still think that even though if you're too horny, you should say no if you know that the guy has a girlfriend, it's respectful and shows you have morals. Also, being a virgin doesn't exempt you from being slutty, cause you still do lots of sexual stuff. I don't think you're a horrible person, this doesn't determine that, even though I don't agree with the cheating part. I also didn't think you were a sweet pie, cause the little we have talked until now I got the sense you were open and kinda crazy, but like I said, I didn't expect you to be this much haha

[WhatTheHellAmy]

That's true, I do many things for attention. You are totally right, I should have said no once I knew, but I'm weak and I didn't. Yeah, I know that, I knew being virgin doesn't make me a saint haha It's great to know that, people change their minds once they know who I am. Yes, many people won't agree with the cheating thing, I guess you have to be very open-minded to think like that, or very promiscuous, or stupid lol I knew you didn't think I was sweet, I let you know I'm crazy haha Well, I'm "this much" so yeah, I guess I'm a slut XD PS: Don't get me wrong, I don't think you insulted me or anything, if that's what you think.

[AleDeEurope]

I built an opinion of you when we started talking and that won't change just because you're a very sexual person, I mean, who doesn't like women that are sexually open? I like women that are comfortable with their body and like to be kinky, like doing some crazy public sex, or sending nudes, or other stuff, as long as they give respect. So don't worry about me not liking you, I already did from the beginning, this just made you more interesting ahaha Plus, you're cute, I understand why some guys can't seem to resist you xD

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Guys who are not confident don't like sluts, because they think sluts would cheat on them and that's super big problem for them. Some guys don't like girls who are sexually open XD I can't say I'm totally okay with my body, but I don't hate me like many other girls do, I'm perverted and kinky lol Sex in public sounds super exciting haha Cool, it's good know, and thanks <3 I liked you even before we talked LOL, you're cute too

[AleDeEurope]

Well, we all have some sort of insecurities, but not all are totally fine with being naked. I'm not 100% about my body, but I have no problem being naked, I like myself ;P I think you and I share the same level of perviness and kinkiness, and that's awesome hahaha Haha thanks for the compliment, a shame I took my picture down, you want be able to see me as I see you ;P

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Yeah, we all have insecurities, except for Beyoncé, that woman is perfect lol Me neither (not sure 100% about my body, having no problems with nudity), I actually enjoy being naked, I don't know why, I just like it lol Yeah, I think we do. My male friends sometimes tell me I'm more perverted than them, and it's awesome and impressive haha Meh, don't worry about the pic, and you're welcome :)

[Klaatu51]

i'm an open-minded person as well so lemme tell u dat u shouldn't allow anyone call u a slut coz u r openminded... being OM's awesome!! :D

and being bi isn't bad either

when u said "more than make-out"... wot do u mean though?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

That' so cool, it's cool you're OM! Thanks a lot! You are right, I shouldn't let anyone call me that haha I don't know, I just wanted to know what people think. Yeah, sexual preferences are something good for me, I've never think about it as something bad. Oral sex.

[Klaatu51]

if u had oral sex then technically u r not a virgin anymore... right?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

No one penetrated me, so I think I'm still a virgin.

[BertMacklinFBI]

are these lyrics or is your friend posting shit on your account like a bitch? lol :P

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Nope, this is me lol Prove: Come to Ibiza, I'm waiting XD

[BertMacklinFBI]

fyreals? whaaat this is a side I haven't seen from you yet. totally new.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

For real yo' Yeah, I'm super good at faking, my parents think I've never kissed someone XD they are so dumb lol

[epiman94]

Wow, you continue to astound me with your interesting life. Interesting, or exaggerated.

To answer your question:
Many people would view you as slutty. But yeah, if you're happy (which it seems like you are) dont let anyone else ruin your fun. I do think cheating is wrong tho. It's so shitty for the other person in the relationship.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Haha yeah, people think that as well, people think I'm a good girl. I wouldn't say I'm happy, but I do enjoy what I do. Yeah, I understand your point in the whole cheating thing.

[theguyisback]

But the real question is.. Do you swallow cum? :)

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I do, and I love it.

[theguyisback]

Fuck yes. You are awesome. Don't let anyone ever call you a slut or a whore. Just because you play around outside the normal cultural structure of conformed expectation. Keep being you alter way girl!

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Thanks a lot <3 That's very nice of you :)

[theguyisback]

It's my pleasure! 👌🏻😉

[WhatTheHellAmy]

:) <3

[theguyisback]

😍😘😜❤️

[DontDropIt]

What The Hell Amy

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Hahahaha LOL

[Izzex3]

I wouldn't say you're slutty, but you do seem like a shit best "friend".

[R3d_Anonymous]

Be glad you get to do those things. Meanwhile here at almost 17.5, I am still a kissless, dateless, virgin that has never even had a platonic female friend and overall has been zoned out from everything with respect to social life experience. I've hardly gone out. I've never even had a curfew because there was never need for one. There are losers (who may not be too into the scene but still get to do stuff here and there), and then there are ultimate losers. I am an ultimate loser.

At least you're getting to experience life. Be thankful for that. At least, when you're older, you won't have to think how much you missed out on life.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Honey, I think it's very nice of you, you shouldn't feel kissless or dateless because you are a virgin. Being virgin is very admirable, many girls want a nice boy who loves them, nothing it's better than true love. You are right, I know I'm enjoying life (not in the best way), I'm having fun. But doesn't mean that those who don't do the same things I do are losers, I think you're a champion, just wait for the right girl <3

[R3d_Anonymous]

Not a champion at all... it took me no skill to get where I am. I have completely missed out on life experience. It certainly feels as if I am going to remain like this for tbe rest of my life. I and just to underdeveloped, unskilled, and "underleveled" at this point. I can't flirt for shit and don't know how to do anything when it comes to social circle conduct, dating, hooking up, or drugs or alcohol. Moreover, I've wanted to do these things (perhaps not the drugs). It's not as if I have been holding off... but due to various factors, I am literally fucked up and at this point, damages are beyond repairable... forget virginity, I haven't even managed to go past a hug and a slow dance (and both of those happened for me at the ripe old age of 17). Not to mention, it's so demoralizing because it makes me think, "How on earth can I end up like this? What's wrong with me? Am I destined to be this way for the rest of my life?"

[R3d_Anonymous]

I am severely lacking in social connections too. 3 snapchat friends, under 250 facebook friends (even the most inactive person in my town has at least 400), phoen numbers of maybe 5 people (about two of which whom I have really been friends with). Most have himdreds of peoples phone numbers. I never have any stories to post on facebook of course. Only 19 Instagram followers. That is one indication as to how messed up my fucking life is. I have the life experience of the average 14-year-old at best. I am like 3-4 years down; I mean come on. I am socially clueless about life. I am blind. I had a very sheltered upbringing. That's why when I see posts from people like you, I congratulate you guys who at least don't have to suffer any of my anxiety. At the same time, I feel more and more like shit. Like you're 16, and just look at your life vs mine. I wanted your type of life but was granted the opposite. Makes me want to just shut down this life and be born again if it was an option.

[R3d_Anonymous]

Sorry I really went on and on and made this about me... but this is something that just bothers me so much... it's a severe insecurity of mine. I am literally in agony these days over itm. Of course, no one is going to say to my face that I am a loser, but inside the know.

[R3d_Anonymous]

I am this way because I am a social reject.

[singlebee]

Well I voted E !! I thought you are sweet and innocent but you are totally bad ass... and slutty too...

I would go as far as casual stuff with you... but never make you my GF!! Cause you are not girlfriend material...😊

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Yeah, never considered myself a wife/gf material, for me that's nice... because I want casual stuff. Later, when I lose my virginity with a guy, I think I'll want that guy to marry me, I hope he accepts me lol Of course when I want to settle down I'll be a nice girl. Yeah, people always think I'm a nice girl XD I'm good at faking.

[singlebee]

But remember your behavior is gonna affect a lot how a guy sees you and most guy will never even make you a girlfriend forget about the wife thing... Cause now you are also bring a bad person... And you should really change that

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I will change that, not now though, I wanna have fun first.

[singlebee]

HAhaha... then have fun !! 😀😁😁

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I will <3

[Saydou]

lol how come you went several boys home yet you are virgin, i am curios

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Gosh, my self control is impressive I must tell you. When they want to penetrate me I always go "sorry hun, just oral, you're not the one" xD They hate me though.

[Saydou]

haha Are you fucking kidding me now?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Hahaha I'm not!! That's the truth, I swear!

[Saydou]

Its bad for your image stop it, and being bisexual is shit cos you know 2 kinds of gender was made for a reason be fucking straight or you will adapt to that lol

[R3d_Anonymous]

Haha, nice... now you can say, "Oh I only have zero sexual partners..." later on LOLOL You sound like an awesome girl, asker.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Oh well, I don't think being bisexual it's shit, but I respect your opinion :) Thanks, you should be a great guy too :)

[WorthlessVirgin]

You're not a slut. Don't label yourself like that. You're awesome. I wish I lived the way you did. You're a highly sexual person and very open about it which I think is amazing. I enjoyed reading your post. <3:D

[WorthlessVirgin]

<3 :D

[chnapo]

You are slutty, but every guy dreams about meeting a girl like you.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Hahahaha, I guess it is

[chnapo]

Don´t you mind the taste of cum?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I love the taste of cum

[chnapo]

thats awesome, by the way how do you manage to stay virgin? you give so much and don´t recieve

[WhatTheHellAmy]

My self control it's pretty nice I would say. It's okay, I prefer to give, watching the girl/guy moan it's amazing. Just getting oral or make out it's fine by me.

[Georgi2008]

The sluttier the better. My best girlfriends needed sex each day like they need air. Knowing my woman will cheat but tell and make me her second "date" afterwards is a huge turn on in our relationship.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

You seem like a very open minded guy, that's good :)

[Nathand]

bi?

Yes and So basically you are a trAmp and mindless.

Have a good disturbing life. You bi person.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Yeah, I'm bisexual. tramp? mindless? why? XD Thanks <3

[Klaatu51]

tramp coz she's a bi? that's 2 much bro...

[Nathand]

Because your a bi and a slout.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Ha, okay brah.

[Nathand]

its not really ok but alrighty then...

[OnionsNstuff]

that bad huh?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

huh?

[OnionsNstuff]

huh?

[epiman94]

Huh?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

HUH? . .

[OnionsNstuff]

... huh?

[hypno-trip]

I thought you were such a sweet little girl...
I voted E...

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Hahahaha that's what people think @Klaatu51, this is what I'm talking about, people think I'm cute and shit :( E, huh? nice XD

[Klaatu51]

LOL this is @hypno-trip not me :p

[WhatTheHellAmy]

@Klaatu51, I know it's hypno, the other day we were talking about people thinking we are someone we are not. You said people think you look mean.

[Klaatu51]

yeah i said this... but i said my comment above coz i thought u mixed me up wid hypno LOL

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Oh no hahaha, I didn't

[subzero007]

Long post *boring*

[WhatTheHellAmy]

hahah sorry

[subzero007]

Nah all cool

[astroidblues]

you are obviously very sexual. i don't think there's anything wrong with a girl being this way but it's a bit worrying that you seem to get a kick out of getting guys to use you for cheating on their girlfriends. also, if you've given blowjobs before you're not a virgin

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Well, I don't want them to cheat on their girlfriends, things happens and when I realized, I already kissed the guy and it's too late to care about it. I don't regret it, of course. I don't want them to use me for cheating. I just have to fun with guys, even if they have girlfriends. I'm a virgin because I sucked dicks, dicks didn't get inside of me.