Stamina in the bedroom for men?

I am just curious why is it that some guys in their 40’s pre-maturely ejaculate and the fun doesn’t last as long or amazing sex doesn’t last as long and some of them can’t even go another round. Is it a mental thing? Does it have to do with age? Or they just don’t have the stamina they used to?
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  • The premature thing I don't think has to do with age. It's mental and how comfortable he is with you and during sex. Plus how often you're having sex. The stamina could be age, not sure? Like, I'm 40 now and don't really notice any difference yet, other than I may not cum again (ejaculate), but I'll still get hard. But it also varies from guy to guy and lots of other things factor into it, diet, medications, physical activity in general etc.

    • What I don't understand also is why people (maybe mainly guys?) think that the sex has to end when he ejaculates. If he cums fast, so what? Like, just don't make it a big deal (it happens) and he can pleasure you until he gets hard again.

    • It's them ginger genes that keeps you going my dood

    • I agree completely though why does sex have to end when he cums so quick? Should just keep going!

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  • Not sure about the 40s but I can tell you that the responsibilities of it jobs and lives gets into our head which interferes with concentrating on the hot women we are with. Does the man you are referring to work out at all or has he stopped that altogether

    • Well he doesn’t have a sexy muscular body he has a bit of tummy but he isn’t fat he was going through stressful time with his wife

    • So you are having sex with a married man?

    • Agree with you mate. Stress and work takes a lot of energy

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  • Probably lazy. Its easy to just say "oops I came." Not so easy to fuck and care about if she has a good experience too. All else fails, out of practice.

    • Yeah I know that feeling my ex boyfriend was like that and I told him I don’t enjoy sex with him because he was boring.

    • Thats when you gotta be like.. Well if you won't please me I'll find someone that cares to

    • I did I find a few lol

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  • Just takes practice. Slow down. Pull out and do something else like kiss her or give her oral. The possibilities are endless lol

  • They might just not practice as much as us young guys

    • Haha! Do think it’s because they are married and don’t have as much sex anymore?

    • They could be stressed and tired I don't know

    • True! True!

  • It pretty much is that it goes along the same lines as stamina not 100% connected it is a medical thing as well but having genral good stamina can help

  • I cum 5 times in a 8 hour period, is that too old for you?

    • Are you trying to one-up me m8?

    • @astrostark I was being sarcastic, didn't see your post until now😂

    • I'm just confused why I'm so horny today tbh 🤔

  • Presumably it's an age thing. But I'm good for 2 or 3 rounds and almost 40

  • So, I came 4 times in an 8 hour period. I think I'm doing alright for my age...

    • WOW! Impressive! Your only 20 though not 40 lol

    • Still... I'm new, so I dunno if it's a possibility, but feel free to spide into my dms if you want

    • Thank you I will definitely take you up on that lol

  • i think its because of their age.
    go for guys, around your age

  • Maybe some of them are bored.

  • I think it just differs from person to person

  • What are you basing that assumption on? I last much longer than I did in my 20s. It's true that I don't recharge as quickly or as many times as I used to. Are you basing this assumption on an individual?

    • Yes it’s based on a guy who was in his 40’s who I dated for a while he couldn’t last 2 minutes in me and he would cum and that was it! He didn’t want to try again after an hours break or anything... Maybe i have a really high sex drive and expect to much

    • That's sounds like a problem with him specifically. It could be medical or you could just be so good he couldn't stop. 😉 I have noticed changes. A man's prostate gets less flexible as he ages, so for example, I don't shoot across the room or in as much quantity as I used to. It still feels the same, but maybe not as intense as when I was 20.

    • Lol I don’t think I’m that good I will take your advice on what you have just told me about age and the prostate

  • Yes with age there is a decline but in still in 40s a man should not be that bad , maybe depends on individual stress and and bad habits like smoking catch up later on

  • It usually has to do with age

    • Thought so

  • I don't know i can go forever

    • Well your the kinda guy I need to hook up with the guys I have slept with can’t keep up

    • Hook up i like long term but i am kinky though there is a test i need you to take see what the options are but anytime you want 😊😊pm me

    • Hey buddy, I got first dibs on talking to this lovely lady

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  • age.

    • I love how many 19 and 20 year olds comment on age on GAG. How would they know?

    • Haha lol you are right lol... I have only ever dated and had s dual experiences with men in their late 30’s early 40’s so I am pretty well educated where sex is concerned but not about this topic... nevermind I have gotten my answers 😊

    • thats why i am gonna kill myself at 35 .

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  • You are doing the wrong men

    • Who do you suggest I do?

    • Tell broke dick to go to the doctor and get some penis pills. They have stuff for that nowadays. And until he does make that fucker eat you until his tongue goes numb.

    • Lol thanks for the advice I will be sure to do that! Lol

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  • Well I certainly know I don't have that issue, it may just be the individual?

    • Could be I’m not sure 🤔

  • Im 37 and can last between 25-40 mins but after that I may need an hour before round 2

  • Some go long time it's all a mental thing

  • Probably to do with the last time they had sex. If they are single at 40 and prematurely ejaculating maybe that's why they are single

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