SURVEY: Have you ever had reason to believe that a friend, or relative, was lesbian, gay or bi? ... what made you suspect it, or did they tell you?

I'm not talking about anyone that was already "out", but more someone that is/was still in the closet, so to speak, and maybe doesn't/didn't want anyone or everyone to know it.
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SURVEY: Have you ever had reason to believe that a friend, or relative, was lesbian, gay or bi? ... what made you suspect it, or did they tell you?
A. Yes, my brother admitted that he was gay/bi
Vote A
SURVEY: Have you ever had reason to believe that a friend, or relative, was lesbian, gay or bi? ... what made you suspect it, or did they tell you?
B. Yes, my sister admitted that she was lesbian/bi
Vote B
SURVEY: Have you ever had reason to believe that a friend, or relative, was lesbian, gay or bi? ... what made you suspect it, or did they tell you?
C. Yes, I have a cousin that admitted it to me
Vote C
SURVEY: Have you ever had reason to believe that a friend, or relative, was lesbian, gay or bi? ... what made you suspect it, or did they tell you?
D. I have strong suspicions about a friend of mine
Vote D
SURVEY: Have you ever had reason to believe that a friend, or relative, was lesbian, gay or bi? ... what made you suspect it, or did they tell you?
E. I have strong suspicions about a sibling/cousin
Vote E
SURVEY: Have you ever had reason to believe that a friend, or relative, was lesbian, gay or bi? ... what made you suspect it, or did they tell you?
F. I am a closet lesbian/gay or bi person myself and I don't want anyone to know about it
Vote F
SURVEY: Have you ever had reason to believe that a friend, or relative, was lesbian, gay or bi? ... what made you suspect it, or did they tell you?
G. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Secret Lesbian/Gay/Bi" survey
Vote G
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  • a cousin (female) of mine was briefly married to an openly gay guy. then spent about 8 or 9 years living with her girlfriend (dating type)

  • I had suspicions about a cousin buy he is out now. Also about an uncle now but I can't tell for sure.

  • I went with A but it's brother from another mother.

  • LOL. This just happened to me recently. My friend said he might be gay. But I think he's full of shit. I say that because he just got broken up with twice in one year. Poor guy. He's just confused.

  • D. One my friends Nephews ended up admitting to his father that he was gay and we pretty knew it long before he ever said anything.

  • Why isn’t there a “No” opinion in the poll?

    • Ran out of room, they only allow 7 choices so "OTHER" is a catch-all :)

    • I see. Than “Other”.

  • None of my relatives or friends are, to my knowledge.

  • My two brothers are gay. 😎

  • Couple years ago I had reason to suspect a co-worker was not by the way he acted but just the way he talked to me that turns out he was gay he kept asking me to go to church with him go to other places and stuff but I looked at his Facebook profile again and it said he was interested in men so I kind of stayed away from him he just rubbed me the wrong way he about had me to the point to where I was going to hurt him if he didn't stop bugging me

  • I don’t have any family that is gay or lesbian but my neighbors son is gay and I never really knew it I just thought the guy he lived with was just a roommate tell we my neighbor moved and we went to visit her and her son and found out he was gay

  • I always know, the way they walk or talk or always with guys. It is not that hard. One guy I didn't know until he slapped me on the butt, then I asked and found out.

  • I know for a fact that my girlfriend is bi and I have known that since our first date when she told me. Doesn't bother me at all.

  • Not really... all in my family members are straight... No bi... not even curious bi... Should I be sad or be happy.. ;)

    • Neither, it just their preference, doesn't matter to me, odd are that with 7 brothers 1 will be, but know what? If so hell still be loved and our bro, no5thing will change man just how brothers love is.

  • Hmmm i don't think so

  • he likes to watch me undress and shower

  • Okay so I actually suspected that my boyfriend at the time was bi because a) he said a lot of very homophobic thing in a way that made me believe he was trying to compensate for something and b) he would always ask me if we could have a threesome with another guy which no guy had ever asked me before. On top of that, like we’d watch porn together sometimes and he’ll always say stuff about how the guys dick was rlly big. My suspicions were confirmed when I found out he was using MY Snapchat to ask guys for dick pics pretending to be me!! He told me he did to see if I was cheating which didn’t make sense at all but eventually admitted he was bisexual. Tbh I had no issue with that I was just really mad he was catfishing as me to get dick pics like wtf

    • Wow!

  • Ex partners. Several. Also friends, male and female. I might be a little bi myself too, maybe Mr. Right has not appeared in my life yet - who can tell?

  • Not really, but I'm gay myself.
    My girlfriend knows and pretends I'm not. Nobody else knows.

    • As for posting anonymous, you'll understand it's because I'm closeted on here as well and already had to deflect opinions from people thinking I am gay due to the issues with my girlfriend. I never post anonymous otherwise.

    • Understood :)

  • Yes, a friend of mine was a lesbian. We dated for a while.

  • Never had any friends like that but I think my sister is asexual

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