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Sexual Health Thoughts on a 25+ year old virgin. Is this a turn off for guys? If I meet someone should I tell them I'm a virgin?
Anonymous
I'm over the age of 25 and still a virgin. Not by choice. Sex just never happened for me. I spent many years working and putting myself through school so I haven't done regular things that people in their 20s do like go to clubs or parties. I have no guy friends or potential dudes lined up. The older I get the more anxiety I get about my lack of experience. I don't have any ideas about it being romantic but I at least want to know, maybe even be friends or working towards a relationship with the first person I sleep with. I guess the question I'm really trying to ask is, are there actually guys out there who would be with someone who was a virgin in their mid-late 20s? Or am I doomed to remain a virgin for life? If I do meet a guy, should I tell him I'm a virgin or just fake it til I make it? I have anxiety about being with someone because I don't want to waste a guys time because I'm not experienced and I need time.
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Thank you for your responses. This is very reassuring. I met this guy a few months back on the train. He asked for my number and we only talked for maybe an hour before it quickly turned sexual. He asked if I was a virgin and when I said yes, it turned into how he was going to turn me out and a bunch of other sexual things. He sent me a video of him jerking off. I was uncomfortable so I blocked him. My sister and friends said that's how guys are now. I don't want to believe that.
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3 23turn on
turn on totally.