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To those in a relationship and masturbate, what do you think about or fantasize about?

What do you watch/think about when you're flickin the bean or jerkin the shlong.

Weird question, ik. Don't be creepy. Just curious.
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  • I always think about my wife and some of our really hot experiences, both with sex and oral sex. I think about the way she looks in certain positions, how she feels, and how she sounds when she orgasms, etc. She sometimes lets me cum on her face, so when I am about to finish when I am masturbating, I picture her on her knees and how hot she looks with my cum on her face.

  • Porn. Some people don’t enjoy sex and prefer to masturbate because of insecurities, performance anxiety, etc

    • No anxiety when one masturbates (other than the risk of getting caught if that is an issue in the relationship). Often anxiety is a big part of what comes from partner sex: anxiety about how I smell, how my body will perform, will my body perform, does my partner like me, my body, how my body reacts etc. For many people, unfortunately, relationship sex is filled with so much anxiety that it is not enjoyable A person is tired and masturbation doesn't require the same level of effort, both mentally and physically to perform It is not painful. For both men and women, relationship sex can be physically painful and the inability to resolve the pain or effectively discuss it with their partner leads to the desiring relationship sex less or avoiding it A person is bored A person is bored with their relationship and wants to play out a fantasy in their head A person is stressed Because they like it They don't have to worry about getting rejected by their partner Their partner is sick, has their period or just doesn't want it when the partner does They want to do it quick or don't have the time required for relationship sex Their partner is traveling or away from their partner It's convenient, like in the shower in the morning or evening It is their best attempt to remain faithful to the marriage because they are really unhappy and don't have anyway to resolve marital conflict outside the bedroom They do not desire the kind of sex they will have with their partner It's fun They want to indulge in a fantasy that they are: too afraid, embarrassed or fear rejection from their partner to share with them They just want an orgasm and they know how best to get there in the fastest way possible To learn more about their own body and what they like and how to reach orgasm

  • I think about doing my man. In many different positions and in many different ways. He knows this too.

  • Mainly ex girlfriends. Even if my current girlfriend is hotter. Sad how the brain is wired.

  • I wish I could find a girl who wanted to cut my penis off...

    • Why?

    • I feel like I can never get enough sex and especially while in a relationship with a girl and I am left unfulfilled. I imagine a girl who desired to cut my penis off for her own personal reasons and I would be happy to let her do it. I would be so happy feeing her warm soft hands on my cock as she smiles at me and I know that it will be the last time a girl touches it ever. I will never be tortured by desire again and we will live happily together in peace.

    • And then she cuts through it and I nut and I’m left unsatisfied back in the land of reality 😫🤨😳😳😳 and I’m feeling like I got a screw loose for being turned on by such things

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