Vagina looks very gross to me. I am 19 years old and have never had sex. İts normal?

Question

Im not gay. I feel so bad. Please help me

SamEyeam · Accepted Answer

You are clearly not gay. You’re young and inexperienced, and have never been with a woman sexually. This is totally normal. The female genitalia is foreign to you because you’re a guy and don’t understand what it’s like to be in sexual relations with the opposite sex. Unless you actually find men attractive and desire them, you are probably bisexual. But so far from what I’ve read you don’t sound gay at all.
Think about it like this: a child who has never eaten a strawberry before thinks it looks gross, but he likes fruit. Just because he doesn’t like the way strawberries look doesn’t mean he hates fruit, nor does it mean he won’t like the taste of the strawberry.
Don’t worry dude, you’re fine.

Ez-Bri-Z · Accepted Answer

Help how? Being a 19 year old virgin in fine. Are you asking to help you get used to looking at anatomy? I am kinda confused.

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Just some food for thought:

I've seen ones I thought looked gross, and ones I thought looked attractive.

In quantity, the gross ones are far more numerous, same goes for any female body part honestly.

The reason I know I'm not gay, is because there aren't any male parts that I've ever found attractive, so my level of pickiness with women isn't making me question my sexuality or causing me to panic and ask for help.

So you have to ask yourself, why are you this worried? Is it because you dislike the looks of every type of vagina? Did you ever find a penis attractive? Perhaps you never found either attractive? whats the red flag here thats got you so concerned over it?

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

Relax. It's probably mostly a lack of familiarity. Like a lot of body parts, it's more designed for function than aesthetics. If you get to that point with a woman, you might do well to take the time to get to know it with your eyes and fingers first (though you probably want a STRONGLY self-confidant woman to do that with; it's the kind of thing that could make anyone feel self-conscious).

TurboKid · Answer

Are you asexual or something? Vagina looks awesome to me back then. It's the hole where you put in it.

KrisPW · Answer

And a man's balls are a work of art?

Paolaa988 · Answer

Why do you find it gross?

Tyrael · Answer

Compared to our shriveled up roll of dimes and hairy sack of Jabba the Hutt? I think a lot of vaginas look much better tbh. Anyway you don't need to look at one unless you're doing oral sex, so just ignore it.

Leavesbound · Answer

Trust me, this will go away in time.

Bellatris · Answer

Your colour is blue, Mr. Anonymous. Boys don't have vaginas. Who are we talking about here? Your girlfriend? I'm confused.

someginger · Answer

Well if you have no interest in having sex with either gender you could just be asexual.

Jaylaaa2000 · Answer

Sexual organs are gross to look at. It when they go together that's special.  You're overthinking it

GirlyGal20 · Answer

watch a hetero porno and a man + man porno and see which one turns you on the most.

RedSauce · Answer

Dude, genitalia are gross but unless you’re planning on making a scrap book of vag shots then just don’t look at it and avoid oral until you’ve gotten over your issues. It’s the feeling for both of you that matters, not how their junk looks.

Karz101 · Answer

No I’m 33 and I think they look nasty too hun don’t feel so bad eat lots of fruit so it taste good too 🥰

sheikalana · Answer

are you physically attracted to women?

exitseven · Answer

Yes, they are one weird looking animal. Just think of how nice your lady friend is and think that it is just a part of her just like a foot or an earlobe.

Browneye57 · Answer

Try fucking one. You'll be a convert. I guarantee it.  Don't look at it, just fuck it. LOL

Massageman · Answer

Read some basic medical info on female genitalia. Learn each part and the function thereof. Learn which are most likely to be aroused. Last, put the knowledge you have into practice and turn it into " practical wisdom".