I’ve been hooking up with 26M for the last month. It’s fun and the heads good. We drink and smoke and fuck in fun places. The only issue is he finishes faster than id like (within 2-4 mins). I would also like to mention we use condoms, which I thought reduced sensation… Anyway is there anything I can do?
First, let us acknowledge the power of the fabulous foreskin finagler. If your partner is circumcised, this trick may not work as effectively, but it is worth a try nonetheless. Encourage him to play with his foreskin, pulling it back to expose the sensitive glans and then sliding it forward again. This action can reduce sensitivity and delay the point of no return.
Next, introduce some electrifying engorgement engines into your play. No, I am not suggesting you hook up your partner to an actual engine, though that does sound like an intriguing experiment for another time. I am referring to the delightful world of cock rings. These constriction devices work by restricting blood flow out of the heavenly hirsuten horn, resulting in a harder, more prolonged erection. The build-up of blood can also help to desensitize the enchanting erectile emblem, giving your partner more time to pleasure you without reaching the point of ejaculation.
Now, let's talk about the power of position. Some positions are more conducive to lasting longer than others. Opt for positions that allow your partner to control the depth and pace of penetration, such as cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. This way, he can take a break from thrusting and focus on other forms of stimulation when he feels himself getting close to the edge. Speaking of stimulation, don't forget about the captivating curvilinear crankshaft. The penis may be the star of the show, but the testicles play a crucial supporting role. Have your partner play with your erogenous zones, including your clitoris, nipples, neck, and ears. This will provide you with additional stimulation and pleasure, taking some of the pressure off your partner to perform like a thrilling tangled tushy tube twister.
Finally, encourage your partner to practice the ancient art of tantric sex. This may sound like mystical mumbo jumbo, but it is a legitimate technique that can help delay ejaculation and intensify orgasms. It involves deep breathing, meditation, and a focus on spiritual connection between partners. By channeling his sexual energy and redirecting it throughout his body, your partner can learn to control his irresistible intromittent instrument and prolong the pleasure for both of you.
So there you have it, my lustful learner. By employing these tactics, your partner will be lasting longer than a beef bayonet at a vegetarian picnic. Remember to communicate openly, experiment with different techniques, and above all, have fun. May your sexual adventures be as wild as a chorizo of cheer and as satisfying as a sausage of satisfaction.
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It goes without saying (though I shall say it regardless) that atmosphere plays a crucial role. Allow me to elaborate on an earlier suggestion - envision entering a room festooned in linens freshly laundered with an enchanting blend of sweaty socks, ripe cheeses, and piquant refuse. Such an environment ensures that no participant remains entirely undistracted, thus encouraging lengthier encounters.
When engaging physically, consider incorporating elements known for their potency within intimate exchanges. Think here along the lines of kinky dairy products or perhaps marinating oneself briefly in used gym clothing beforehand. While these may initially elicit surprise, rest assured they serve admirably towards the desired outcome.
Moreover, introducing additional stimuli could prove advantageous. Presenting your partner with carefully arranged platters of fermented seafood or offering sips from glasses filled generously with aged sherry might suffice. In fact, any substance capable of producing notably disagreeable vapors would likely perform similarly well. This way, both parties find themselves engaged simultaneously in multiple arenas of sensation.
When setting the mood, you could opt for specially crafted varieties of candles infused with the essence of rancid butter, pungent mushrooms, or even week-old garbage. Light them around your space to transform it into a veritable symphony of scents, providing an immersive backdrop perfect for deeper connection.
Dressing appropriately also contributes significantly to extending intimacy sessions. Consider adorning yourself in garments previously worn during strenuous physical activity or after indulging in heavily seasoned meals. Overlay these with accents drawn from nature - think crushed leaves steeped in decomposing animals or damp soil collected from beneath aged trees. Combined, they form a perfume unlike anything found commercially, capturing the raw beauty of natural processes.
To heighten tactile pleasure, explore textures derived from organic materials. Perhaps drape yourself in a blanket woven from coarse hay or nestled amongst pillows stuffed with dried flowers and herbs. Not only do they offer comfortable support, but each touch releases wisps of scent reminiscent of past seasons spent on a hunting expedition.
What sort of janitor likes to keep pig droppings in their freezer?
Anyway do this, During foreplay, suck him off and make him cum once, after that you two can start, he'll last wayy longer
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Round 2. Don't stop after he finishes the first time, go back to foreplay instead until he gets hard again. He'll last a lot longer during round 2.
Go for several rounds that usually will slow a guy down. Get him to jerk off an hour or so before sex and that may help
First of all desensitizing lube for him might help. Also it's about building up for me the longer I have sex the more it naturally desensitizes me the longer I can last.
He needs to find a pace that doesn't over stimulate him, also some of it is getting him close to the edge and stopping and changing position or giving him a break by doing something different like him going down on you.
Something I like doing is giving my girlfriend a massage and while she is on her front slip my dick in her pussy while I massage her and occasionally thrust or leave the movement to happen naturally as I massage her.
honestly get a guy who doesn't smoke, smoking affects performance.
It comes in a tube... called Benzocaine. A little dab will do him.
P. S. there is a caveat, Benzocaine, on the head of he penis, can and will be transferred to your lips and mouth, and giving head, will probably 'numb' your lips and tongue a bit... not a big deal and go away soon enough.
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P. S. again... look for it on Amazon... not expensive
I’m afraid there’s nothing you do. He has to learn to control his ejaculation by slowing down when he’s about to come, change rhythm, position, etc. and go another round or two.
2-4 minutes? That's too bad
Unless he has any issues like Premature Ejaculation.. it's all in his hands whether to last long or not..
It'd be great if he can orgasm in foreplay since the 2nd round he can last longer.. but again I hope he's not the type of guy who ends the sex as soon as he cums
He needs to have the will to last longer
can he go more then once?
blowjob first will make the 2nd longer usually, and condom or not they can be fast or one-minute men
I'd quit the smoking lol. Such a bad habit. No advice lol as I'm no doctor however
Uhh... hmmm... I guess he's just an early riser, naturally or nothing can be done, and at least someone's practicing safer sex aka condoms. Phew
I'll say; maybe more foreplay?
Or less foreplay lol 😆 seems like the guy either is too quick and it's hard to pinpoint cause. Maybe see a doctor? Lol for him with him ah well
Viagra and delay spray. That and make sure he knows you want round two when he'll perform better.
I would suggest you get him to masturbate more so he is not as wound up when u have sex. Does he slow down if u go for round 2 or 3?
Tell him to think about baseball. 😎
Yeah try to take control and tell him he gets to cum when you tell him. Also maybe cut down on the drinking and smoking.
There are lots things that could be causing it. Also a few different ways that he could help himself with that, However he’d have to be open to the discussion and you would have to be comfortable enough with telling him what you want him to do.
I'd try to experiment with positions that might make him last longer, as some feels more intense than other, making it more likely to bring him to finishing faster than you'd like.
Condoms oftenreduce sensation, but just how much is typically due to the thickness of it. Condoms made of thinner fabric usually provide more sensation than the more old fashioned ones, that were made of thicker fabric.
You might want to try a lube that decrease sensation. If you're using a condom you might have to tro to apply it on the inside of it.
Edging is a technique in which one practices to get as close as possible to finishing, then stopping stimulation. The idea is that doing this repeatedly increases his stamina over time, giving him more control. Personally I've found this techniqe most helpful in lasting longer. After two years with this technique with my girlfriend, I'm almost able to time my orgasms so that we can cum together now.
Was he rough/fast?
Well if is that quick then you need him to go another round and then he will last longer on that one, maybe give him a bj first then when he finishes get him hard again and he will last much longer
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