So here is the story, I have been with this woman for two years. She works in marketing as an analyst. she's Very good at her job, she's very smart, very beautiful. All qualities i look for in a woman. However one of her female friends was over last night and casually mentioned "I miss when we both got paid for sex" My girlfriend panicked and changed the subject, but suffice it to say it was on my mind.
After her friend left, i confronted her about it, i asked her what it meant. we sat down and she told me. She indicated that she used to be a stripper at a full contact place, and she often let her "Clients" pay her to take her home with her. She only did it for a few years while she was in college, and hasn't done it since. She said that she didn't tell me because an ex was abusive to her when she told him. I told her that it was not an excuse, and that i needed to think.
I know i asked if im wrong for leaving, But i haven't left yet, I want to. She couldn't trust me with this part of her, and because of that she omitted it, And as a result, i feel like i cannot trust her any more. It leads me to think "What else is she lying about, What else is she hiding, If she really loved me she would have told me in the beginning" Worse, What if parts of her past, Ex "Clients" Come out of the wood work, What if they try to hold it against us or our family if we had one. I am lost.
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