Was this r*pe or sexual assault?

[Anonymous]

All r*pes are sexual assaults but not all sexual assaults are r*pes. Was it just assault or did he rape me? almost a year ago i have my first blowjob and i thought he was 17 but turns out he lied, he was 19. i was 14. I only consented yo performing oral sex on a 17 year old boy, not a 19 year old man. it just came to mind today, it happened kinda long ago so I don't know why it just came to mind but now i can’t stop thinking about it and i’m really upset. i think i was raped.

[Anonymous]

Neither. You were not assaulted and you were not raped. You committed the sex act on him. Dont worry about it... dont mean nothing.

[Asker]

easy for you to say it didn’t mean anything. he fucking lied to me and i didn’t consent to doing stuff with an adult

[Opinion Owner]

Well. Isn't any different than doing it with a kid. You are getting hung up over 2 years. Ridiculous.

[Asker]

again, easy for you to say. it didn’t happen to you. there’s a huge difference between a 17 year old and a 19 year old here because a 19 year old is a fucking adult.