What are some tips on doing anal?

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Friendlyexperienced · Accepted Answer

Some good answers here. Definitely agree with starting clean and maybe trying by yourself first. Lube is good idea and I've always been told best is water based, but sure there's many opinions about and may be best for you to try different ones to see what you like best. Toys may help with maneuverability, but less expensive to use fingers. If trying yourself and you enjoy enough to take to next level, might be good idea to have partner watch and communicating signals to look for on your face or body language so partner knows to stop. Then taking to next level where partner starts things off and starting small with finger (s) and/or toy and slow each time. Whenever do, it's good idea to clean before and after and keep whatever used away from eyes, as that can cause pink eye.

Rob70 · Accepted Answer

Lot's of preparation! Go slow and start small. Maybe do some exploring on your own first. Make sure you trust your partner and they know to take the time to let you get relaxed and comfortable. The other thing is planning. Anal is not something that you want to just do. Plan ahead so you know that you are going to try it. Then that day watch what you eat. I am not trying to be gross but anal itself can be gross if not planned. You may want to clean yourself out the day of. Get yourself an ennama I know it doesn't sound romantic but neither does what could happen if not cleaned out ahead of time. Lastly if you are not enjoying it stop and don't do it.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

Practice opening your sphincter. Imagine trying to squeeze out a fart, you'll feel it push out and open. If you do this as he pushes then stop soon as the head breaks in you'll suck him inside

Effably · Answer

Do the obvious prep. More if you feel like it.
Lube three times as much as you expect you need. Then keep lubing until it feels good/not bad.
Start small and slow?

Take the time to get in the headspace for it. Anal tends to be more intense in some ways but absolutely demands you're actually bonkers level horny.

Anal done right is probably more satisfying for the receiver. Done wrong, its a week of feeling very bad. Not sure how in-depth we should go but I guess that's a decent enough start.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Practice on your own first.

read up on it, gay sites often have best info.

basically

hygiene - wash and clean, it needs to be tidy and clean.

learn about dilation.

get decent lube for anal, use it a lot toy and ass, and cock n ass.

use a small toy to start off, lube and take your time, learn about how your ass dilates to accept the toy.

keep it slow and gentle.

practice with the it, hygiene, lube, dilation, positions, taking time and being gentle.

do it to him, so he appreciates the difference between pushing it in directly and taking it slowly.

when happy with you using toy, him using toy, positions etc,

then try larger toy or his cock,

Whizzy83 · Answer

Don’t….. that’s my tip. No tip of mine will meet a rear end😉

es20490446e · Answer

As slow as it takes.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Enemas. Lots of lube. Start small at first. Go slow at first. Butt plugs for practice.

mattissebfan5 · Answer

I haven't done it but I read someone once say lots of lube

Wise4myage · Answer

Lots of lube.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Relax, take it slow unless he has a small penis.

Twalli · Answer

Lube and stop if it hurts

Hanrej · Answer

Empty your bowels, if you're very through use an enema. Lube it up and warm yourself up with a toy at your own pace until you feel nice and lose.

tomtom05131 · Answer

Go slow, have a partner you can trust to be gentle, caring and listens. Use lots of lube as necessary and don’t be afraid to ask for more to be reapplied as you go along. Be really clean inside (i. e anal douche) until you’re sure.