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What are your sexual fantasies?

What are your sexual desires or fantasies? They don't have to be super exotic or out there, though they certainly can be.. Or even just a scenario that you think about a lot. Share multiple, your deepest darkest ones, your most tame, anything! If you have had something on your mind, here is a perfect place to get it off your chest and in the open. I am doing a psychology experiment, none of the information will be disclosed nor will names be used, its just for a class, more of methodology but I still need the info. I got to chose my topic, and I thought that this would be super interesting. So your participation is greatly appreciated! Don't be shy! Hit me with whatever you've got! Remember that you can post them anonymously if you prefer. I am not here to judge anyone. I will delete any hateful comments. This is a safe place to express yourself.
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I don't care if it is super kinky, weird, etc, or even super tame. All are welcome!
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Also, they can be as in-depth or brief as you prefer/feel comfortable. And if you REALLY don't feel comfortable with posting it on here, you can send me a message. Though I encourage you to post it anonymously, part of the study is the public announcement, but if you really aren't comfortable, you can send me a message.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • with all things: getting them as a show is nice, but would MUCH rather these things happened because they enjoyed it. Absolutely the best if they LOVE it. I get pleasure from women getting off, so I don't want things faked for my benefit.
    Because of a strong oral fixation, I have NO INTEREST AT ALL in watersports, scat, anal, squirting, or poor hygiene. Mouths all over everything means cleanliness is a must.

    watching women masturbate. they would know i'm watching, but i'd want them to act natural, not play things up for an audience.

    Lesbianism. I love seeing beautiful women getting each other off.

    being in a polyamorous relationship, with 2 women, as devoted to each other as they are to me.

    making a woman orgasm so many times she passes out (in purely consensual sex)

    finding a woman or women who enjoy giving oral sex and who not only do not mind the taste of cum, but even enjoy it.

    oral fixation: they eat my cum off of food (sweets, like cupcake, brownie, ice cream, berries, etc. not unsexy foods like... stuffed peppers, grilled chicken, or lasagna lol)

    oral fixation: female masturbation or lesbian sex involving sweets as above. Sometimes i eat it after, sometimes they clean each other off. sometimes (my preference) they eat what was on/in themselves

    oral fixation: eating out each other after I finish in them, and kiss swapping afterwards. OR, scooping it out of herself when I'm done and eating it.

    female narcissism: seeing her masturbate while watching herself (videos of her masturbating, in lesbian sex, or no videos, and just using a mirror).

    female narcissism: gleefully tasting herself off of her fingers/toys/panties. this is nice as a show, enjoyed if it is something she does all on her own, and LOVED if it is something she really enjoys doing as much or more than I like seeing it. if she cums on her own fingers, sucks them clean, and sticks them back in there for more cum, with the sole intent to eat that too? amazing!

    mild exhibitionism: things like small, remote controlled vibrators in public.

    mild bondage: situations where she can not move, and is forced into orgasm after orgasm (again, consensual, and as with all BDSM, minor or extreme, with a safeword!)

  • Maybe you should tell us what the experiment is. Not sure what my sick thoughts would prove!

    All right. Seeing as you asked nicely.

    40, straight male, married, college graduate, Caucasian, native speaker of English.

    I'm not above fantasizing about threesomes with the wife and any of her several female friends. My favorite among them is a childhood friend of hers with whom I get on well in real life. I know they've had sex in real life, which just makes the thought hotter. (Wife has spoken highly of friend's tits. Maybe one day I'll get to see them myself!)

    I wasn't my wife's first sex partner, but I was the first man she slept with. (We met when she was 16, started dating when she turned 19 and married when she was 22. She's 27 now.) Initiating teenagers into sexual intercourse is generally an opportunity one only gets once a lifetime, if one is lucky. Reliving it remains a favorite fantasy of mine.

    Sometimes I'll be a teacher in an alternative high school, giving hands-on instruction to male and female students with the help of a female teacher.

    Sometimes I and the mother of my children will initiate our teenage son and daughter ourselves. In real life, for the record, my wife and I have no children and haven't seriously considered having any.

    The "mother" of my fantasies, for her part, is only very rarely my actual wife! She's generally much closer to my own age. I am very proud of my fine-looking younger wife, but I do wonder more and more what a woman my own age would be like. (Grass is greener, and all that...)

    I'll let you decide what any of this means. Beyond the fact that people always want what they can't have, I find interpreting sex fantasies is as difficult as interpreting any other dreams---and less fun than just enjoying them!

    Good luck with your project. Follow up if I can be of further assistance.

    • Thank you for your participation! The study has to do with Freud, his thoughts, theories, methods, etc. Dissecting the the fantasies is not my main focus, the declaration, presentation, hesitancy, and the correlation of degree of "disordered sex" (aka anything that strays from missionary position for procreation, boring).

Most Helpful Girls

  • well, here goes nothing,
    i love the idea of surprising my man at the office. Or even at home whiles he's working on something. I'd just walk in the room wearing a pair of sheer lace panties and a matching bra, then I'd put some sexy music (the weekend:often, somo:ride) and I'd dance for him. Then I'd get down on my knees and tease him, just take my time feeling him. Once he's taken all his clothes off, I'd blindfold him and cuff his hands behind his back. Then I'd ride him slowly, Never letting him kiss or touch me, Just me taking my pleasure from him. Then when i orgasm, I'll suck him off and swallow.

    • Sounds like a very empowering fantasy! Thanks for sharing!

  • I recently got really into the idea of being a pledge in a sorority and being sexually hazed. Like the sorority sisters have the pledges line up and use a hitachi on them, or fuck them with strap ons. And have them eat each other out or have sex with a random guy in front of the others.

    And I know it's reallllly weird but I like incest fantasy stories/videos. I'd never be interested in it in real life, and it grosses me out to think about my family like that but the situation in the stories or if I were role playing it would be so hot.

    • Many people share your incest fantasy, the forbiddenness of it, how dirty it is, but only in theory. They would have no interest in it in real life, but are attracted to the idea/scenario. Thank you for sharing!

    • it's a weird, and admittedly hypocritical point of view of mine, but... while the idea of a sorority pledge having sex with even one random guy is a turn off for me, because such hetero casual sex bothers me, the knowledge that that same girl was pounded by every girl in her sorority and went down on every one of them would not bother me in the slightest. I wonder what it says about me that I have no issues with all the lesbian interaction in the world, but when it comes to hetero sex, while I obviously don't object to a woman having experience from past relationships, the idea of similar casual sex, even on a much smaller level, bothers me? Oh well. That isn't important. What's important is picturing a bunch of 18, 19, and 20 year old college girls, naked, bound to a wall, being teased to orgasm by sorority sisters wielding a hitachi, each girl struggling to outlast the others... I need a cold shower now...

    • @ksoma yeah, the guy one isn't one of my favorite things. I just read a few stories that involved that before and I liked it but I don't go specifically searching things about that. I usually prefer only girls when it comes to that. But I don't like women in real life, which is weird

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  • I fantasize a lot about fucking this guy that plays in a band at a local bar I go to. He's over twice my age and I just love the idea of his rough hands worshiping my young body. Whenever I see him I just want to go out to my car and do the dirtiest things to him. Maybe one day I will.

    • Maybe it will happen for you. Thank you for participating!

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  • I don't have any that I'm consciously aware of. Oiled bodies is about as kinky as I get. Shiny. The female form is well enough for me. And different styles of dress, I guess.

  • Mine is to one night go and pick the lady friend I am going out with for the night and when I ring the doorbell she greets me wearing the same kind of undies that I wear.. because the day that I met her I would have told her what I wear and why.. to me this would start the date off in a great direction and who knows we may not even leave the house that night

  • I fantasize about getting fucked by two guy who do what they want to me and cum in my mouth and make me swallow
    I caught my brother jacking off when we were younger and then a cpl years later him and his wife caught me so red handed. so sometimes I think about him watching me play with myself and him jacking off.
    I also have a bisexual streak in me and think about going down on my friend it would be so awesome

    • just him watching you, or him and his wife? (i have no interest in incest in my own family, but incestuous stories, especially those that might be true, have always been a turn on)

    • @ksoma No I don't either just the taboo inner freak in me. Just him , when I got caught by them it was kinda tramatic

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  • My biggest sexual fantasy is that a shadowy stranger comes up to me and hands me a suitcase with 12 million dollars and leaves <3

    • Why 12 million? Why not 10 or 100? I like nice round numbers but that's just me.

    • Are you sexually aroused by money?

  • Mm my biggest fantasy right now is a long night of sleep.

    • Somnophilia? Or are you just tired? I ask because the question was specifically directed toward sexual desires, and I don't know if you are being serious and you are aroused by sleep, or if you are just being comedic. Either way, thanks for participating.

  • Meeting an older woman who shows me what it's like to be with a "real" woman, so to speak.

    • Is it anything specific that she would do to set her apart? Or is it just her age and experience that makes her a "real woman"? Or is there any fantasy's within that? Thank you for sharing!

    • I'd have to say experience, and the thought that she knew what she wanted, was confident and able to be dominant when the mood strikes her. Maybe do some mentor/student role play as well. Honestly the fantasy is simply being with a more mature woman in and of itself.

  • 3way with 2 girls. Rimjob and blowjob at the same time. And I cum on a girls face and the other girl licks it off hers and swallows!

  • MFM threesomes are always at the top of my list.

    • If you don't mind my asking, why haven't you?

    • Who said I haven't? I've done many of them, and many more FFMs. Just because you have a fantasy doesn't mean you haven't done it before. ;-)

  • To be ravaged by a hundred Melanie iglesias clones lol

    • I think that might be everyone's fantasy ;)

  • I would like for a gorgeous brunet (Peruvian would be nice) to use a strap-on on me. Her equally beautiful girl friend sits on my face while I am getting fucked. When I am close to cumming, the face sitter lets me cum in her mouth. Then we three share a cum kiss. The two of them then get it on, I join them in some pussy eating and get excited enough to fuck them in many positions. That's all. Thanks for letting me vent.

    • Thank you for participating!

    • Are you working to help these fantasies come true?

    • Not directly, at least yet anyways, but maybe my findings will lead me to a way to help fantasies become reality, or maybe participation will help the individual find what they are looking for.

  • Doctor/nurse & patient, teacher & student, saving the girl from danger and getting lucky afterwards. I have a lot of ideas, but it'd take way too long to tell them all.

    • Thank you for sharing! if you find the time, feel free to share more. :)

    • Are you sure? There's some odd ones.

    • Odd ones are welcome!

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  • I have lived all mine bar one, as follows:

    I would love to share an attraction with a woman online without never knowing what she looks like, or her, my looks. Then agree to meet up in a darkened hotel room and fuck, without ever knowing what we looked like

    I thing the wonder would add to the sensation

  • Getting all my bills paid off and living in peace.

    • You find this sexually arousing?

    • Not but I'd find it sexually restful after life has screwed me for 50 plus years with no Vaseline.

  • A woman who approaches me like a 'pick-up artist and pulls me home to her place.
    To have a girl sit on me as I fuck her at a computer chair playing a PC game online, letting players hear our lewd fun.
    An anal-centric woman to dominate me by making me worship her ass-hole before milking my shaft with her rectum, making me cum inside her ass before she farts the load all over my face and mouth for me to clean up.
    A woman to rape me at gun point.
    To be in a gang-bang full of shemales taking turns on me from both ends.
    To fuck at a gym after we both have a sweaty work out.
    Banging a cosplay chick.
    A girlfriend to introduce me to a friend of hers, wanting to see me fuck her.
    And some filthier ones.

    • Thank you for your participation! Feel free to share your other ones, if you are comfortable. You can also share them anonymously, if you prefer. Or message me directly. Thanks again!

  • One where i "force" sex on her

    • What are yours?

    • Just out of curosity, do you mean like role playing that you are "forcing" sex on her. Like you have a consenting partner and you are both aware that fact, but you pretend that you are forcing her? Or do you mean "force" in a loose term. Or like "may the force be with you" Or put her in a situation where she is forced to consent? If you don't mind elaborating a little, that would be awesome :)

    • More like role playing

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  • I have a great desire for someone to call my name while having sex with her.

  • Shoot me a message

    • I cannot send messages, but you can message me if you would like to discuss a fantasy. I followed you so the option is open if you wish. Thanks!

  • Just the standard porn induced fantasies. Anal sex, giving a facial, 3somes.

  • Don't know how to explain it, but dominance.

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