Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I dont expect you to like my standards. They’re MINE for a reason lmao.
#MyStandards
— Looks wise is age 23-29, height 5’7-6’3, slim toned to average build (ex. flat tummy, nice chest, toned arms) with little to no body hair, has a nice smile, Has little to no piercings (one ear or eyebrow is fine), and is straight/male-born (not bi or trans).
— Personality wise is Goofy, respectful, sweet, nurturing, caring, talkative, courageous, protective, faithful, and not an arrogant/cocky/know-it-all.
— Values/Interests wise has a strong work ethic, believes in God, Hardly cusses, doesn't Smoke, Hardly Drinks, Wants Kids, Great Kisser, Loves Foreplay and Making Out, Has had few sexual partners (under 5), Not into anal/period sex, Likes to workout on occasion, and is willing to build a strong emotional connection before considering sex.
#MyPreferences
— Looks wise has green/hazel/light brown eyes, no abs, any ethnicity/race is fine but preferably African American or at least part black, no braces, nice eyebrows, little to no tattoos (and small if so), and shaved/buzzcut/fade/waves styled hair.
— Personality wise is corny, occasionally a dirty joker, Rarely Uses Sarcasm, Lonewolf, Hopeless Romantic, and ambitious.
— Values/Interests wise is willing to live in GA or NC for a while, enjoys watching similar movies/shows, has little to no interest in gaming/partying/anime ot social media, respects but does not cling to his mother, enjoys theme parks and casinos, wants marriage, likes karaoke and dancing, is more indoorsy than outdoorsy, likes baseball, is not currently in the military, travels domestically on occasion, and is not big on guns, trends or politics
#FeelFreeToList
What are your standard must-haves versus your preferences?
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 33Really I wouldn't want you to change your standard
Thank you. I won't
that they wash regularly and can breathe
Lol fair enough
Some one who is kind caring does not care about looks
Must share similar intrests willing to try new things
Which is the standard and which is the preference
Preferences:
Biologically female
6'0 or taller
Loves wearing heels
Dominant
Multiple piercings (nicely decorated ears)
Decent muscle tone
Long straight/wavy hair
Smells good
Kinky
Must haves:
Female
at least 5'7
Switch (can't be 100% sub)
Decent muscle tone
Long hair
Smells good
Kinky
Familiar with my culture
Ambitious
Wow 6 foot and in heels. Lol how tall are you
5'10.
Standard Must-haves :-
Kind Hearted , Goofy , Funny , Open Minded and Enthusiastic.
Preferances :-
Cute/Gorgeous/Hot , Height Shorter than mine (5'9") , Bilingual (I think it's kind of sexy) , Average Body (not too muscular , not too skinny) , Gamer , Appreciates EDM , Enjoys What she does and Can talk about what I do Proudly.
Oh yea bilingual is a turnon
I know right !
Must haves is having a couple interests we enjoy, being able to passionately talk about them, not be lazy & unwilling to do basic stuff (no one likes a lazy slob), enjoys cuddling, and is willing to listen and talk about issues.
That sounds ideal
Ikr! But so hard to find even though they are simple things
People dont wanna put in the effort these days
Yeah, sadly.
Wow, I was quite surprised to see I matched almost all of your standards in my younger days. Live in Canada, not GA or NC, was in the Air Force at the time but U S and Canadian military are very different and I like listening to karaoke but I can't sing. And I'm 100% white. Overall a fairly close match. Would you have been willing with that close of a match?
If only I was younger again. 😘
Lol the race thing isn't a must, just a preference but i’ve dated everything. And yea the age was the biggest thing for me. And i probably would have once you were fully out of the military
What do you have against military men? I was married when I took early retirement from the military and started my next career. You would have had to catch me while I was in. It was a good life in the military and I was gone very little from home.
Nothing personal. They can be sweet guys. But i just dont care to date someone who travels a lot or is risking a greater chance of PTSD. Plus a lot of military men want to go back to school after they get out and i rather date someone whos already finished with school so that he's not struggling to balance work/life/love/school. And lastly im not big on guns. I’d assume he is to have joined the military
Interesting. I think that is more the US military. In Canada, not the same. We are done school when entering the military and do school upgrades while in. When leaving, it was on to my next career instantly. I was never gone for more than 2 to 3 weeks maybe 4 times in 18 years. And I was never a fan of guns. It all depends on the person and also the branch of the military. I was an aircraft technician. Not a guy in the field with a gun. But it's your choice. And now I'm too old for you unless your into Grandpa. Lol
Wow Canada Sounds amazing tho
You should travel and visit. It is a great place.
I have a lot of the same must haves as you do in all honesty and I actually fit some of the profile
Oh nice
I do not believe in such a grocery list. It depends on a lot of variables and also on the energy and feeling you have with the girl. It reminds me of a story that my grandmother kept telling me that before she married my grandfather she said she would only marry a tall guy without glasses and fair skin. In the end I will marry my grandfather who is relatively short with glasses and brown. They only lived 70 years together.🤣🤣🤣
The standards are not a grocery list. Its filled with important things. The preference list is a grocery list lol
Gotta have a nice booty and be on my same wavelength, my preferences are looked over most of the time
Lmao
Pretty face, normal body not too thin neither too big and tits C or D cup
Nice
All good with me
I dont have any standards. If they are honest, friendly, fun, and interesting then that's all that matters.
You dont care what they look like?
Yes I do care that they believe they look good and that I can at least see something good looking about them
Lack of confidence qualifies you as uninteresting. And being totally bland makes you boring. IMHO being overweight, obviously overweight, makes you dishonest or lazy.
To be honest, your list is so long you are going to have a tough time finding all that as the years go by.
I haven't thus far. The only thing most didn't match was believing in God and waiting for sex
I know how you feel. I match a lot of your stuff but I'm twice your age. So what I said is from life experience. I wish you good luck.
Thank you
You're welcome :)
Yeah, that looks like a woman's list. Lol Good luck with that.
I've had lots of luck. But things dont workout when i refuse to compromise my relationship with God for them. Im sure he has something better planned