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What attractive quality do you look for in a partner in the bedroom / sexually?

For me it’s a partner who knows who they are, whether submissive or dominant. Tell me what you like clearly and let’s have fun.
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  • I like submissive if i can see your eyes the color of your cheeks your breathing pattern , hear your moan feel the way your moving your hips then I know what you want when you want it I will start to give it to you that way and then go the opposite, then take you there again even farther, then the opposite each time I go the opposite way I slow way down dig my toes in to the bed and hold pressure so deep against your pussy and body my Arms maybe up under your arm pit back up to ur shoulders pulling you deep in to my chest just holding you there and holding and holding so much pressure then release and then again a few times and in slow deep motion will start taking you back to what you want until you really want it sometime I will just go there or I go deep with pressure just making love holding so tight you can't help from cumming and having the best orgasms that won't stop all you can do is to hold on to me even tighter and push if I can take you there and everything slows down then I'm going to take you anyplace you want to go then next one and thst happens 1 after the other mins apart from each other

Most Helpful Guy

  • As a Dom, I definitely look for women who are submissive and know it, but that's generally who I attract anyway. That's part of sexual compatibility (making sure that, if you are kinky, that your partner is compatible with that kink). More broadly, though, it's important to me that she's "sex-positive", meaning that she enjoys sex and doesn't feel guilty or otherwise hung up about it. I want her to be open-minded and to allow herself to enjoy it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Dominant but willing to fight for the dominance when I'm in my feisty moments

    And body is a big one. It matters! Like he doesn't have to be a Channing Tatum, but flab or tattoos are NOs for me. Nope, I can't be intimate with that.

    • What about Andrew Garfield? 🤔

    • Flab I get haha You don’t like tats?

    • @ava00 No, they make me want to throw up

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  • I want a guy that is into complete domination who tells me what to do and how he wants it done... OMG!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • A flat stomach and tight behind.

  • Well I know who I am and what I enjoy I dont mind if a women wants to try and take control but I have to take control in the end no matter what, is not the same so I generally start dominant but I dont mind if a women wants to take a wack at it but that just makes me want to take control more💁‍♂️

  • She initiates things and cooperates eagerly.

  • Totally agree. But flexibility is also good. Depends on my mood lol.

  • A woman who communicates well about what we can do and what we might like. I like her to be dominant. Not just for me but a woman who loves being dominant.

  • Some who’s a switch like me and can alter between being dominant and submissive. Enthusiasm/eagerness, doesn’t mind going hard or rough. An active participant meaning they don’t just lay there like a star fish. Passion.

    And tells me when she likes something or doesn’t like keep going, don’t stop etc. you get the idea.

  • I like my partner to be more dominant

  • she must be someone who is truly submissive for reasons that would be between me and her.

  • Confidence, thinking on the fly, willingness to try new things, more than anything; intelligence.

  • real

  • Someone whos open, fun, willing to do and try anything and def explore each other to the fullest! I also prefer a woman with nice nails because I love and demand to be scratched and be dug into with them.

  • Great skin, and great curves
    Hygiene, shaved
    All are important together for me

  • Vocal with likes and dislikes, wants to mix things up, passionate.

  • Openness about what she likes
    Takes good care of her body
    Knows the difference between fucking and affectionate sex

  • I just want someone who's open minded and sex-positive and who is there to have fun and enjoy our time together.

  • No experience yet, but maybe wanting to try a large variety of things.

  • enthusiasm

  • Can handle pain 👀

  • imagination, and movement, so many I have met that are like sacks of potatoes. yuk

  • Oh yeah thats a given for me lol

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