What did he mean when he said this the day after sex? is it a compliment?

[Anonymous]

So I had sex with a guy 5 times in one night. It was very intense. He moaned a lot and was very vocal and he just kept cumming over and over. He told me im the best he's ever had. Well, the next day when I woke up, he had already texted me good morning and then we started talking about the night before. He said, "Sex with you ruined me." And then he went on about how good i felt and how he never craved sex this much in his life. What did he mean when he said I "ruined" him? Lol

[Anonymous]

It is possible that he meant that the sex with you was so good that it has set a high standard for any future sexual experiences he may have. In other words, he may have been saying that the sex was so intense and satisfying that it has "ruined" him for anyone else.

It can be considered a compliment in that he is expressing how great the experience was and how much he enjoyed it. However, it is important to keep in mind that everyone has their own preferences and experiences, and it is not fair to compare sexual experiences or to pressure someone to meet a certain standard.

It is important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your desires and boundaries, and to prioritize mutual respect and understanding in any sexual encounter or relationship.

[Paul_in_Indy]

He needs it as a compliment. He’s trying to say that he could never enjoy it as much with anyone else again. He just thought it would sound good.

By the way, five times in one night with lots of mutual enjoyment should be the normal experience of sex. I’m really glad that you had a good time and enjoyed yourself. But don’t think that this guy is the only one who will ever give you could sex.

[Asker]

That's great! I'm happy about that. He also told me that when he woke up the day after we fucked 5 times in a row, he said he masturbated to the thought of our sex. Which is honestly hot af, but he came so much the night before. Did I completely satisfy him if he had to masturbate as soon as he woke up? Lol

[Paul_in_Indy]

After I have sex, I spend the whole next day or two running off to masturbate thinking about it. That sounds normal to me.

[Asker]

Also, my ex never fucked me 5 times in one night like that. Does that mean he didn't enjoy sex with me that much?

[ImHere22]

Lol he’s giving you a compliment! He’s saying that you two f*ked so good that night, that no one he has sex with after you will ever come close.

You should be proud of yourself!

[Asker]

That's great! I'm happy about that. He also told me that when he woke up the day after we fucked 5 times in a row, he said he masturbated to the thought of our sex. Which is honestly hot af, but he came so much the night before. Did I completely satisfy him if he had to masturbate as soon as he woke up? Lol

[OlderAndWiser]

it is a strange way of saying hat no one else will ever be as good as you, and his future partners will all be a disappointment.

[summiter]

I hope (think) he means that he will never find another lover as good as you! Sounds like you both had some fun orgasms!

[exitseven]

No other woman can compare with you.

[megabamse]

That means it was so good he can't think about anything else

[Asker]

That's great! I'm happy about that. He also told me that when he woke up the day after we fucked 5 times in a row, he said he masturbated to the thought of our sex. Which is honestly hot af, but he came so much the night before. Did I completely satisfy him if he had to masturbate as soon as he woke up? Lol

[megabamse]

That he masturbate to don't mean he did not get enough. That just means he was horny

[peterrezeeek]

all is good don't worry... he means u made him crazy with ur amazing sex

[EaterPeter]

It is an ultimate compliment