What do you think about 30 years old Virgin woman?

[Anonymous]

What is your opinion?

[Lliam]

The only drawback is, at the end of life, nobody says "I'm glad I never had sex."
Our lives are contained in our memories. And peak moments shine like stars in the night sky.

I'm grateful for all my experiences, even the unpleasant ones, because they helped me to learn and grow.

If you're asking what I would think about dating a 30 year old virgin (assuming that I was still in the market), I wouldn't hesitate as long as the two of us meshed.

But honestly, I wouldn't date someone who wanted marriage before sex. That would be an irreconcilable difference between our attitudes about sex. Plus, sexual compatibility is important when deciding if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. Infatuation - passion, desire, rapture - is the spark and the bonfire from which true love can be born.

I place zero value on virginity. Virgin or not, I don't care. But I believe in committed relationships in which we both give our all. Relationships don't always work out. But if they don't, at least you aren't married.
I wanted to be certain about everything possible before I got married.

[MountAverage]

Depends on the reason, but most likely I'd find it weird.

[MountAverage]

Why did you give me MHO?

[Jessica405]

Wise lady. Not throwing your one and only v-card away.

[Losalt]

Mixed feelings.
I don't want to be a girls first.
I think that it's good that she waits for someone that she can trust with this.
But I'd also like my partners to have some experience.

[MTC29]

I have encountered women aged 35 who were virgins. They all have stories, but who really cares?

I still remember the 35-year-old woman who told me, "Well, I'm glad that's over and done with."

My, my. How special that was.

[lightbulb27]

I was one, I've been around them. I just think they are delayed and made choices and that's respectable. I also think they are less experienced and so... there are hidden risks because they don't knwo what they don't know. The flip side is they don't have potential emotional damage that goes with such relationships and problems. In general, I think it's ok, but they better hit the gas pedal and work out their stuff and find a mate...

[lightbulb27]

oops... I misread it as as general question... haha, wasn't a woman! Also, I think there's hangups that go with this and lack of relational skills and dating skills.

[Berethor]

It still not too late for her to have children, and I prefer a virgin over a ho.

[Emilyis]

My husband and I both were virgins until our wedding night at the ripe old age of 21. I would have waited till I was 30 if I needed, I wasn't giving it out free to anyone. Masturbation is ok too.

[Paul_in_Indy]

I think that sounds like a fun challenge. :)

[boggboss]

Nothing probably waiting for marriage first

[Asker]

If not?

[boggboss]

Not met the right person or shit people skills

[Kaneki05]

That will be me in 9 years lmao.

[datnoodchick]

I’m still a virgin

[Sixgunsound]

Anyone who judges is jealous of their poor choices or dealing with their own insecurity.

[Sixgunsound]

Jealous because of*

[Dargil]

She has been very (very) selective. Education? Career? She might be a Lesbian. She might have been molested when she was young. She might have some form of fear of sexual intimacy. If I dated her, sexuality would become a topic of discussion and would have to be addressed. But you never know. She might just like you and has decided that she wants to give her treasure to you because time is running out. But ya gotta talk it out. If you like her, you can be patient and learn the back story. Then you can plan the event so that is as good as he had dreamt. You need to make her feel loved as she had always hoped and wanted.

[Wraven]

Again what level of a Virgin?
Never been penetrated anywhere
Only anal penetration
No foreign object penetration
No splits go wrong kind of virgin

[Drumlin2001]

It's fine. Not really a big deal.
I was a 35yr old virgin, I had various neurosis around it. Was more an issue in my head then to anyone else

[anon1903]

I'm a virgin too. There's no room for judgement in my heart.

[Sixgunsound]

I value virginity not for sexual reasons but for compatibility reasons. If I was on the market again I would be highly interested in Someone who lives a life that they believe is valuable enough not to do things because the crowd is doing it, someone who has self respect and integrity to make unpopular choices because it is the right thing to do, someone capable of long term planning and who has the ability to foresee consequences, someone who has a special gift and is waiting to give to a special person not just someone they got drunk with. I respect a person who has standards and expects commitment before they give themself away. The quickest way to make yourself a playtoy instead of a wifey is to give it up too quickly.

[anon1903]

@Sixgunsound I'd like to become a part of hookup culture in near future. I don't know what you're talking about.

[Sixgunsound]

My mistake. I’m sorry I misunderstood you and gave you more credit that is warranted. Good luck with that.

[anon1903]

@Sixgunsound okay

[exitseven]

She is a woman. I make no judgement based on virginity.

[Asker]

If he was a man, would you?

[exitseven]

Good question. However, my answer is the same. Everyone has different life circumstances.

[DavidRaul]

Nothing really. Just a 30 year old woman thats all

[FilmGuy93]

No thanks

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't have an opinion about people I know nothing about.

[curiousbabyboo]

I respect a 30 year old lady who acts like a lady than a 22 year old thot who needs approval from random people through sex.

[MikeInHawaii]

Why is she a virgin? Does she have morals or is she dog ass ugly?