What do you think about CNC (consensual non-consent)?

[succubus_girl]

Do you like or hate it? Have you ever tried it or wanted to try it?

[Dagr8whitehype]

It's amazing when done well! As a card-carrying member of this club I do have to say I can't stand when I see guys posting that they're looking for someone to indulge in this with tomorrow. Or you'll occasionally see something like in "your town here" next week for business. Any ladies down with a bit of CNC? Transparent fake ass posers. Yes this is very hot and yes I love it at least as much as the next guy. But if you're too ignorant to realize that this sort of activity requires a ton of trust that you don't build with somebody overnight then you simply don't deserve to enjoy any of the pleasures of it. Now that I'm done ranting I will say that I recently have combined this with breeding and it's damn near zen like. Just kind of crept up in the parking lot and as she filled up the back hatch of her vehicle with groceries I body checked her into the hatch and we went for a ride in the woods. I can still hear her ass clappin and bouncing off the empty yet full forest. Kind of echoing over the whimpering all the way up to the point where my gloved hand yanked the condom off and under that mask my eyes rolled back into my head. (And all in accordance with the first C before all the Karens start with the stealthing shit. Crazy satisfying on both sides. Sadly my long time sub friends with benefits has relocated to Sweeden for work. Anyone looking to build that foundation with an experienced dom?😏😏

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah it’s basically the relationship I had with my last girlfriend,

It was part of when she offered to let me collar her.

that bit where where decided she could actually trust me.

you do however have really needed to explored each other hard limits and stepped across them.

the other thing is being able to handle sub drop on the back end of a session, they can be very intense and I mean very,

Role play takes on a completely new dimension.

I would also say you need to be experienced in managing trust and honesty, communication really comes in to it.

there are legal aspects as well, as a Dom, you leave yourself really wide open, in all other cases No does mean No, however if both have agreed to this, then it is not that clear.

I would also advise that it is for a set length of time, a session, a week, a month etc.

try it and sit down and discuss it after one or more sessions,

you also need to manage the sub drop and talking about it helps, as the sub may want aspects changed to meet what they want out of it,

There is more, but it’s definitely not for anyone just trying it.

[ChrisMaster69]

As a general update for anyone answering this question. it’s not just about rape. It’s about everything in a D/s relationship, complete control is relinquished. This comes in to it with the Sado Masochistic side of things, you can go over someone’s pain handling threshold, hence the sub drop on the backend of the session. It can also involve stuff like somnophila and Stalking etc.

[ChrisMaster69]

@succubus_girl thank you most appreciated

[FamilyGuy2020]

It seems to me that your talking about a Sub / Dom relationship

[ChrisMaster69]

@FamilyGuy2020 yes a Dom/sub as per what was written

[GenaBaby1995]

I love 💕 it or did I miss him I take Seroquel (wouldn’t have guess that, lol) which knocks u out. I would wake up check myself wet and sucks sheet wet. Or I knew it was coming when I notice he was trying to get me drunk 🥴 love it in porn kind of feels like he raped me ,

[Dagr8whitehype]

Oof. I'd do the same but with some Ambien in her wine.

[GenaBaby1995]

@Dagr8whitehype 🤫

[Dagr8whitehype]

Your secrets safe with me...

[AlexisP98]

I mean... kinda/sorta... But it feels like that's not ok to fetishize. And also like it's almost impossible to explore both honestly and safely. So I'll probably just stick with rough sex.

[zeitgeist057]

Love it. It's a very sexy fantasy to me, and I've done some playing with a few partners. I've also found that it's a pretty common fantasy, at least among women that I've approached about it, and I imagine it must be matched by a desire in men.

The thing about it that is tricky is the oxymoron of it. The thrill of non-consent, but of course not wanting to actually violate and damage someone with a traumatic experience, so it is going to be in a more playful manner. It's actually a very great intimate experience to have as it requires a lot of trust at least on her part, and that feels really good on my part to know she gives me that level of trust.

[AustinMan]

I love it.

[AustinMan]

Do you enjoy it? It's a form of role play sex. I've played out some amazing scenarios: Best Sex Ever!! It was on a trip as well. We were on a road trip and on the way I asked her if she had any fantasies she'd not gotten to live out. She told me one was getting picked up in a bar by a stranger and done very roughly. We're quite kinky so the rough part was par for the course. Our scenario was that I was in town on business and her boyfriend had abandoned her for a night out with the guys and she went to the bar for revenge. On the night, I put her in the shower first after telling her that I wanted her gone when I got out of the shower so her attire would be a surprise. Once I was ready, I made her wait for 25 minutes or so before I went down. When I got there she was perched at the far end of a U-shaped bar. I looked around and there was a guy sitting alone at the curve in the bar. I joined him and while we were talking, this really pretty girl in a gorgeous dress came up and sat down beside him. They were friends in a wedding together and we all talked. Then she went back to her party. cont'd

[AustinMan]

While all this was going on, my partner gets up to go to the bathroom. She wasn't walking--she was strutting her stuff. She was in a tight shortish skirt, low cut top, and 4" black patent classic stiletto pumps. As she strutted by, every man in the place was watching her like cats and a canary. I absolutely loved it!! After she got back and was settled, I leaned over to my new friend and said, "I think I'm gonna go over and knock off a piece of that!" He laughed and wished me good luck. I walked slowly over to the bar stool next to hers, asked her if it was taken, and sat down, studiously ignoring her for a little bit. I then turned and started a conversation. It's absolutely amazing what golden bullshit flows from one's mouth when picking up a girl where the outcome is predetermined. A few minutes into the conversation, up walks the girl in the gorgeous dress who sits down next to me and starts hitting on me like a drum. Almost simultaneously, a young Latino walked up to my partner and started hitting on her, hard. I'm sitting there trying to not choke on my beer watching her try to fend off the dude and while keeping an eye on me and the other girl. Eventually both gave up and I asked her if she'd like to go upstairs for some rough sex. She agreed and we headed, her strutting, for the door. I saw at least two guys get elbowed in the ribs by their dates for leering at my date. I winked at my new friend as we went by. He was agape that I'd succeeded having watched all that transpired.

[AustinMan]

I pushed open the door for her and, as she walked by, I gave her a very hard swat on the ass. She yelped and jumped and I think every guy in the bar laughed. We were all over each other on the elevator ride up and when we got to the room, we couldn't get her naked fast enough. I'm a complete Dom and I yanked her over my knee and gave a very hot, hard, long bare bottom paddling for being such a slut. I then proceeded to thrash her soundly with the cane and, roughly throwing her over the sofa back, roughly and ruthlessly fucked her up the ass, dry. We went on to have the best sex of our lives. As we're lying there in the afterglow, she begins to confess. It takes me a minute but then I figure it out: I'm now the cuckolded boyfriend. I react with righteous anger and she gets another hot and sexy beating and fucking. By then she was sore and was crying out which I absolutely loved. I came so hard I thought I was going to turn inside out. How's that for great sex?

[Gagname]

That’s all very hot, but what you described is NOT CNC (Consensual Non Consent).

In short, CNC is “resistance, reluctance, or rape play,” sexual play between two consenting adults “that mimics non-consensual behavior.”

medium.com/.../understanding-consensual-non-consent-8e275053ba54

And what you described is “hotwifing.”

www.sexpert.com/.../#What_is_Cuckolding

The above article says: “According to the Urban Dictionary, a Hotwife is “a married woman” who openly has sexual relationships with other men, often with her husband’s full consent and encouragement, ‘in pursuit of fulfilling the husband’s/couple’s fantasies.’”

“Cuckolding” is similar to “hotwifing,” in that the woman (usually a wife) has sex with men other than her guy (usually her husband)—who is called a “cuckold.”

“However, the cuckold is [different than someone who “hotwife’s” and is] submissive, feels inadequate, and often craves humiliation as part of his turn on [usually because he is an inferior lover], while the husband of the hot wife usually just fantasizes about his wife having sex with other men and may even feel more empowered by it.”

So, what you described—hotwifing—isn’t CNC, but rather one of the “ethical nonmonogamy” practices (along with cuckolding).

[Gagname]

@AustinMan
“Ethical Non-monogamy” is also known as “Consensual Non-monogamy,” so that’s why I think you confused it with “Consensual Non Consent.”

See my question that I recently posted…

18+ ADULTS ONLY: What “Ethical Non-monogamy” [more than 1 consensual sexual or romantic] relationships have you been in (or might you one day be in)? ↗

[MCheetah]

Are you talking about rape play? I've literally never heard it called that before. No, I'm not into that. I think it's a bit creepy. I wouldn't want to try it, unless I was with someone I loved and she begged me to.

[ohshee]

With the 2 right people it can be fun and HOT

[phorse]

Huge nope. I don't want to roleplay as a rapist

[TonyV]

I'd have to really trust her, cause it sounds like a good way to ruin my live sense everyone would believe her if she lied about it later.

But it does sound fun

[Ronald_25]

Yes, more commonly referred to as a ravishment fantasy or rape fantasy, it is my favourite fantasy (referred to as reverse rape in pornography) I have been roleplaying this with girls I've dated for about 7 years and 80% or so girls love doing it 😊

[helva]

For me it sounds as rape play and can be fun.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Sounds confusing

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I'd try it if a girl I date wants to try it. Could be hot to just ravish her abd feel her struggle a bit. I wouldn't get into any extreme version of it though. More just the erotic thrill of being mildly forceful, but knowing she can end the scenario if she's no longer comfortable.

[FilmGuy93]

Fucking hate it. Miss me with that smoking-gun "call the cops on me later and use CNC as evidence of how I abuse you when we're fighting" bullshit.

[magiusX26]

only deep into a well established relationship

[magiusX26]

with alotttttttt of trust built up of course.

[willyham2021]

I have always wanted to act out a fantasy like this!

[Bethany98]

I've done it before, it can be fun

[MysticDevice]

I would LOVE to try that

[karaspara]

Not for me

[convo_king89]

One my favorite, usually it’s candid or amateur porn.

the girl prentending to be shocked or suprised. And reluctantly gets stripped and fucked as she begs to stop. Not wearing any sexy panties.. it’s why I like white cotton granny panties like hanes.

[convo_king89]

The Japanese schoolgirls getting groped on the bus/train

[Caliguy88]

Never done it but would be open.

[dray995]

What? Like sleep sex or surprise sex? Sex while tied up or restrained?
What does that mean?

[Gagname]

CNC/Consensual Nom Consent is “resistance, reluctance, or r*pe play,” sexual play between two consenting adults “that mimics non-consensual behavior.” medium. com/.../understanding-consensual-non-consent-8e275053ba54 Basically, ahead of time one person gives their consent to another for that other person to act out a r*pe scenario w them.

[Twalli]

Not a fan. To me only affirmation means that, regardless of whether or not she likes cnc or not.