What do you think of pity sex? Is it immoral?

Question

Would you do it for a friend?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Most FWB’s situations are basically pity sex , just 2 people getting off on each other with no strings attached. It can be a good thing or a bad thing just depends on the situation considering usually the 1 person starts gaining more feelings for the other , so if the other partner has those same feelings then it can lead to good if not then it can be bad so the only immoral thing about it is your having sex without really being on the same page as the other why it’s best to just have sex with someone you have the same feelings for and they have same feelings for you cuz if not you are basically just allowing someone to get off on you and use you it might feel good at that moment but then afterwards you might regret it

Dargil · Accepted Answer

Of course not. It's Grief counseling. A compassionate friend might do that.
*She puts a glass of Jim Beam Black on the rocks in my hand and one for her so she can swish out.

What do you think of pity sex? Is it immoral?

*She puss Strauss's Blue Danube on the stereo. She know its my fav.

And gives me a slow, soothing, therapeutic blow job.

And I fall into peaceful, restful sleep on her easy chair.

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

With 2 consenting adults, if that is what they both want, there is nothing wrong with it that I can see.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

pity sex is often a kind gesture... and fun too, esp if it turns out he is good in bed

baconninjadc · Answer

Happy to take one for the team

Lliam · Answer

Sex isn't immoral, it's for pleasure. Pity sex might be a nice gesture, even therapeutic for the guy. And extra perks if you enjoy it, as well. :-)
The only way it could go sideways is if the guy felt remorse, disgust, or developed an attachment afterward. But if you know the guy well enough to know that he would feel only gratitude, then I'd say it's a hell of a nice thing to do.

ohshee · Answer

What is pity sex

lightbulb27 · Answer

no I wouldn't, I can see girls getting sucked into that. a girl who has a lot of empathy may want to make the other feel better so they give themselves. It won't work...:) This can be a situation of abuse... like wouldn't it be conditioning the other person to be sad?

ZackBan · Answer

Never happened to me. Probably don't want it to.
Well it depends on why is it pity sex.
Like if one of us lost someone due to unforseen circumstances I might consider it.
But of it's about one of us getting dumped then no thanks.

dwcl99 · Answer

I'm open to getting pity sex, if anyone is offering it in the NY area.

ecfresh · Answer

I did it once an instantly regretted it. Literally standing in my driveway as she drove away from my house I almost threw up from my upset stomach directly related to the guilt and disgust of my decision to give her pity sex.

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

I think it’s a nice thing to do

ayushad · Answer

don't know but dome people are into it...

eninning · Answer

I wish I could find someone nice enough to help me out, that being said I don't think it immoral

Reaperbot666 · Answer

depends on situation I guess.

Agape93 · Answer

I don’t do it

Prof_Don · Answer

That would make you a hero, consider it a type of physical/emotional healing for the guy.

Ripper_E · Answer

No. That's really messed up because if they feel like it was out of pity or find out later they will hate you for it.

MackToday · Answer

Definitely immoral you are NOT helping the person and you're doing yourself no favors either.

Laozi · Answer

As long as it doesn't cause me any harm I'm cool with it.

NickiB1 · Answer

... umm... no...

sdrawkcabosmi · Answer

It's kind of condescending. Fucking someone because you feel sorry for them will only make them think they can use sympathy to get more.

chriscdi · Answer

i try to stay away from lust as much as i can, of course as a human, i dont always have the power to hold certain things likr urges, sometimes i want porn but pity sex isn't something i see myself doing in life