Guys, What if your girlfriend wanted to peg you?

Question

What would you do? Would you try it for her, respectfully decline or get outta there?

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

I'd have some questions. I'm not much of a submissive, but I've seen what playing with power dynamics can do to people who take things too far. Fun in the bedroom is one thing, but when you're warping a person's mind, I've got some problems. But assuming a talk about boundaries and desires (and a little shared research) didn't throw up any red flags, I'd be willing to give it a try.

pajamasam · Accepted Answer

Assuming we trust each other and we can have a talk about where our boundaries are, then i might would be game. But I would still want to return back to being in control. The exploration might be fun with someone i trust but im not about to just become completely 100% submissive.

MrOracle · Answer

"What would you do?"

I'd ask her who she was REALLY and what did she do with my actual girlfriend. Because that's not something any girl I've ever dated would have wanted - and some of them would have broken up with me if they thought I wanted it.

I'm a dominant guy who attracts submissive girls who very much WANT me to be in charge, and this would go against their instincts and my own in some pretty serious ways.

jacobsim · Answer

I wouldn't ask strangers for their opinion i would do what you are comfortable with we all have boundaries and a good partner will help you push your boundaries but not force you to cross them if you don't want to

wankiam · Answer

what i enjoyed about it was the switch from me being the dom to her taking a turn and also the pleasure it gave her

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

It will be interesting. But i will not accept it very easy. I will like her to insist on that idea if i say "No" so i can know fosr shur is not a stupid joke