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What Is One Reason Why You Would NOT Be Friends With The Opposite Sex?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's tough because I am so not there. But girls tend to have a comfort point. Some don't but others have a point where they are very specific on the way they like things. For example, we had a couple from church come over, the guy was relaxed and the girl wanted to leave on the dot so with 15 minutes left in a movie, she did just that. It's having preferred standards. I'm not saying guys don't do this but I feel like I've seen girls have it happen more. Less go with the flow and more about what's acceptable in her comfort zone. She knows what she wants and no one will force her into anything different. It's like a restaurant or tv show or a movie or social gathering. If she does not want to do it, there's little room for compromise. She has made up her mind. Like I've said, this can happen with both genders but I've seen it happen a lot with girls. But I do have a couple of guy friends that can be like this too as well as a couple of girls that are very chill and just go with whatever the group is doing. I could be crazy with this idea... But I feel like I've seen a pattern with it

    • ❤️❤️❤️

  • It is very hard for me to be friends with girls. If the girl is friendly to me after a very short period of time I start to develop a crush and when I develop a crush on someone, I will crush hard. I only had one girl who was truly a friend to me, I developed a massive crush on her and I was stupid enough to stay trying to be friends for a couple of months. I had to stop being friends with her, which was extremely hard because I started to love her and at the time she was the only person I could call a friend. I had a couple of girls I started to develop a friendship with and I started developing a crush. I knew they weren't into me or had boyfriends at the time so I had stop talking to them because I knew what would happen.

    • This is the scary part. You lose friends this way 🥺

Most Helpful Girls

  • They always end up wanting a romantic relationship. I used to have a lot of guy friends in elementary and early middle school, but it changed in highschool. One of my best friends is a guy still but were cousins so we'd never end up in a situation like that. It's really awkward because I'm a lesbian and I really miss having guy friends and it was a hard adjustment to making friends with girls. I look feminine and I'm comfortable around guys because I grew up with guy friends and guys who were close to me which sadly my friendliness is mistaken for flirting a lot. But hanging out with girls is hard because I catch feelings and I live in the south so I am not fully out yet and I have to pretend I like guys and I don't. My situation puts it in a hard place for making friends of either gender, but mainly with guys it's them catching feelings or mistaking me for flirting since i cannot come out yet.

    • Thanks so much for sharing your story and the details... I can understand your dilemma

    • No problem!

  • Nothing in common,

    knows nothing about etik and moral,

    if they talk lies behind my back and have no respect for me

    If they try to be so bossy all the time

    • This is a great list. Thanks

    • angecandy, it was about the opposite gender, haa, not another girl.

    • Yeah i know, i am talking about the opposite gender (a guy). Also that actuall include all gender. But maybe even if we dont have nothing in common, we would just look into each others eyes or node or just sitt like statues😂

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • They're an asshole/drama queen. I've got no time for that.

    • You got that right 👍

  • same reason really why i wouldn't be freids with someone of the same sex as myself, if they are dishonest, obnoxious, arrogant or downright toxic...
    also if they are abusive or violent, i haven't got time for people like that...

    • Love this list... Thank you 🦋

    • you're welcome :) x

  • Without fail, it always turns into a more than friends scenario.

    • OMG like what's up with that

    • It can get annoying.

    • VERY! Especially when you genuinely need a friend and they want to help like a lover... It makes things confusing

  • If they bully me or play mind games. I had a crush who
    played mind games and when I gave her silent treatment
    she would cry well it's okay for her to make me jealous
    but I'm not supposed to be mad and also I bought this girl
    cigarettes not no more If a female friend becomes a crush
    then I move on

    • Oh nooooooo 😱

    • Yeah it happens 👀

  • For the simple but true psychological fact that says: "people of the opposite gender can not be just freinds"!😂

    • It's difficult but not impossible

  • She gone frustrait me because we are so close and i get horny and can't do nothing.
    You don't want to know that somebody is "fucking" you're friend , it will be like you love her but he fuck her.
    She can ask you stupid qastion that are not made for boys that are single like "do you think my boyfriend will like me to do this, to wher this, say that, to act like that", the friend will be like the girlfriend trainer for her boyfriend.

    • WOW!!! I never even thought about this... This was literally sooooooo freaking helpful. Thanks love ❤️

    • It was kind of heartbreaking too... For the friend and the girl who loses her friend because emotions always get in the way 🥺

    • I try to be friend whit some girls and in the end all the time whas coming to this. I never want to know about theyr sex life and when i whas saying that they didn't talk to me for a time, afther i whas again open to listen a little like Me: How are you doing? Her: Good, whit my boyfriend around... Me: Do i disturb? Her: Depand (sex meening) Me: I'm bored And afther something like this she suport me to finde a girlfriend whitch i can make some sex and she tell me how she is doing whit her boyfriend and how good it is etc etc etc

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  • I've had lots of friends that were the opposite sex now there's been a few that there was no way even if we were single would I date them and that's because I seen how they were in there romantic relationships but as far as friends they were cool and since I'm married and not interested in stepping out on my wife it worked out

    • Thanks so much for sharing your story and experience. I appreciate it

  • Stuck up, not friendly. I met this girl for the first time and she said the name of her rapist was the same as my real name. Never spoke to her ever again. Saw her a few time and she always trying to say hi but I just pretend I don’t know her

    • OMG I cringed a little

    • what...

    • So me and my friend trained for this job together, my friend age is 21 female. So we we’re introduced to this other women about the same age, and I guess she felt weird us hanging out sense I’m older

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  • I wouldn't be friends with a member of the opposite (or same) sex if they can't sustain a decent conversation for at least a half hour.

    • Sameeeeee 🦋

  • Drug use, dishonesty, if they are a cheater..

    • Cheaters are just awful ☹️

  • They are dishonest or have an ulterior motive.

    • Thanks for the feedback 🤗🦋

  • in a case of unrequitted love, i would choose not to stay friends, cause that would hurt me. otherwise same standards as for male friends apply.

    • Oh nooooooo 🥺💔

  • I would be like a friend with my opposite sex. But not with all. Because my feelings changes on their looks, approach and our relationships.

    • Thanks for the help!!!

  • Bc I am boring 🙄

    • You're not boring at all

    • You haven't seen me irl

    • I am almost like a dead person😂

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  • Only one. If she was super hot, I'd be thinking about being more than friends.

    • Ahahahaha! That makes sense... I figured this was a thing...

  • I would not be friends with women that smoke or drink a lot. I don't like the women that act like guys do, tracking rough, swearing all the time for no reason. Such women don't appear to me as a friendly lot I'd like to hangout with.

    • That makes sense

    • Yeah. That's something I expect from my boys.

    • Exactly

  • As someone said below, same reasons I wouldn't be friends with someone of the same sex. Nothing in common, they're rude, etc.

    • Thanks for the feedback 🦋🤗

  • Because I found them offensive, or generally inappropriate, unreliable, boring, or did not share enough common interests to make it worth while.

    • Love this post. Thanks

    • I can be all of the above too, but a generally don't try to hurt people.

    • 😍❤️

  • There exists the risk of being accused of a sexual crime. By default, (until proven otherwise) the lady is right and the man is wrong.

    • I hate girls like this 🥺

  • Only if you’re already in a relationship and you find the other person so attractive that you can’t keep your hands off of them but you want to stay faithful to your girlfriend.

    • Now this is a good one!

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