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  • It is something you should talk through and plan with the lucky guy. I have been with two virgins. With the first, I was a total klutz. I was so horny, I just barged straight in and she bled and cried. I did not give her a fond memory.

    For the second, I had introspected and came up with a routine that I believed would give a better outcome. We had been together close to a year and had satisfied ourselves with mutual oral. From oral and fingering, I knew I could comfortably (for her) pass a single fingertip, but two "pinched" her uncomfortably. What did it feel like to me? Get a zip-lock bag and poke a hole through it with a pencil. Then push your finger into the hole so it gradually stretches and your finger goes through. That's what it felt like. From that, I learned she had an "annular hymen like this one. Open, but too small to easily pass a penis..

    What is the best way to lose your v card?

    We had talked in advance about having sex. When we were committed to doing the deed, I did my best to make the experience as good as it could be. It seemed Missionary was the best position and we used it. I first got her to orgasm from oral as I often could. That made her vagina relax, but a hymen is not affected by arousal. We used lotion to make her as slick as we could get.

    We had agreed that I would have to go in with a series of very short pushes. So we came up a couple of simple coaching words to help this out. When I started, we had agreed that when she said: "OK!", that push was beginning to pinch and I should ease back. When she whispered a softer "ok", that meant I could try again. It took several tries and during the last one, I sort of popped in (stretch-give) like getting your head through the collar of a t-shirt. That last one caused her to flinch but she did not stop me.

    We relaxed for a minute or so and then I began very slow thrusting. It was pretty exciting but I could not allow myself to cum. She told me after that it felt good but also "burned". One thing to consider is don't pull out all the way once you get in. You will hook on to her hymen and have to go through an abbreviated version of getting in again. Just stay in and thrust gently. She may be a little raw

    When I withdrew at the end the head of my penis "hooked on" to her hymen and I got a "stretch-give" again on the way out. And there were a few flecks of blood.

    Maybe this account can help.

Most Helpful Guy

  • 1) with a person you really feel good with.

    2) with a lot of foreplay.

    3) having a thoughtful partner who listens to you and makes sure you’re ready and enjoying yourself.

    4) undisturbed.

    5) did I say foreplay and being well heated up?

    6) add lube if needed.

Most Helpful Girls

  • By having sex with someone you really like and trust.

  • As early as possible. Get that monkey off your back.

    • Bad advice ^

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • By fucking. You do it one time and that card is lost forever.

  • You date somebody for while and get to know and care about each other. Then on some special night it will happen.

  • By humping the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with exclusively.

    Having a v card makes women more desireable to date, not less.

  • With someone you're comfortable with. The first time is always awkward and uncoordinated. But with a right partner is easy to overlook all that. It'll take a number of tries before really getting it right.

  • Call me! that's the best way

  • That is different for everyone.

  • I throw my Valentine's cards out every year!

  • Come over my place