What is your definition of a virgin?

Question

If a virgin is someone who has never had sex, then define sex please.

TarrAva · Accepted Answer

A virgin boy or girl is, according to the traditional understanding of the term, a person that was never vaginally penetrated (girl) or never did penetrate a girl vaginally (boy).

So far, so good.

Now, I would like to differentiate this term to something slightly different, more in line with the term used under the reply B.

While it is true that according to Merriam-Webster, a virgin is defined as:

a person who has not had sexual intercourse.

I would like to broaden this strict term of virgin to something more like

"a person (female) that never experienced vaginal penetration, oral sex or performed a hand job on a male where ejaculation ensued" or

"a person (male) that never penetrated a girl vaginally or had his penis stimulated orally or manually with ensuing ejaculation"

The reason I broaden the term of "virgin" is because nowadays, many people view sexual intimacy to include those other sexual activities.

It is one thing to get an ejaculation (male) or orgasm (female) and to provoke one on the opposite sex by manual/oral manipulations. Girls are capable of getting an orgasm just by clitoridal stimulation, thus not experiencing vaginal penetration.

Now, this is solely my point of view and based on my perception of the term virgin.

CarpetDenim · Accepted Answer

A virgin, according to the dictionary, is a person who has never had sexual intercourse. That means penetrative vaginal sex. Even if a girl has done anal before, she’s far from pure but she’s still technically a virgin.

DocilexElle · Accepted Answer

Someone who has not had vaginal sex... A person who had other types of sexual acts are a virgin... but not innocent!

Jesslin412 · Accepted Answer

Penetrative sex makes you not a virgin. So anal and vaginal. I don’t count oral as making you not a virgin anymore

LesbianBusinessWoman · Accepted Answer

They never have anal or vaginsl sex

Theft · Accepted Answer

Honestly I think B is the right answer but I also think it depends on consent! So many girls and guys are being “forced” to admit having lost their virginity because they were raped. When really some of them know NOTHING about sex or how enjoyable it can be because all they have experienced is abuse. They deserv a clean slate and to be able to say I had this bad thing happen and so I am terrified! But I so want to be eased in to this pleasure just like everyone else.

Cowboy6666 · Accepted Answer

never had anal, vaginal or maybe oral too... but majority thinks never experiencing vaginal

Onepiece_fan2000 · Answer

Yeah it’s the first time you have vaginal sex

Tohotforyou · Answer

A virgin is someone who's never had sex — but it's not quite as simple as it seems. That's because sex means different things to different people, so virginity can mean different things, too. A lot of people think that having penis-in-vagina sex for the first time is how you lose your virginity.

Berethor · Answer

Other, while I consider having PIV as the only true way lose of virginity, I don't consider other types of sexual activities as okay, and a girl who done any sexual activity is not really innocent even if she is still an technical virgin.

tvtropes.org/.../TechnicalVirgin

PrincessGrail · Answer

I voted A.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

For me it's until you have had sex, for my girlfriend it's until you find the right person.
She has had more experience than me, but made me a long talk about how her exes don't count and I had to consider her a virgin.

ItsyBits · Answer

For me, you only lose your virginity through penis in vagina sex.

Finchie40 · Answer

For a guy if. the penis never entered into a vagina then he is a Virgin, For a Girl , If her vagina was never penetrarted by a penis she is a Virgin, All the other stuff is just foreplay lol

Kurdishturk · Answer

For me someone who don't have done any type of sex

JosyJosy · Answer

No penetration

jacquesvol · Answer

A girl who wasn't penetrated by a penis

Hannajenky · Answer

I have never had sex but thirty guys have fucked my ass so I'm still a virgin lol people are delusional

bill_towers · Answer

A Person who never had Sex.

loveslongnails · Answer

I don't think oral sex, giving or receiving, makes you a non virgin. I suppose you could have two different "virginities" - vaginal and anal ! If you're penetrated in either, by a penis, you've lost your virginity for that area !!

Scarecrow13 · Answer

Orall and anal are by definition sex, so having those makes you not a virgin.

vald9inches · Answer

ig the traditional definition of a virgin is someone who has never participated in the act of procreation lol or a female who still has her hymen

Tztop2006 · Answer

For me it's if you've had anal or vaginal sex, blowjobs and handjobs is mostly for play and not actual sex

Flipswitch · Answer

Someone who has never had consensual sex be it boy/girl, girl/girl.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

sex is anything penetrative that brings relief. But you don’t have to climax to have be having sex.

Brutal_Honesty · Answer

someone who never had *consentual* intercourse

pizzalovershouse · Answer

it's not having any oral sex sex or anal sex or giving some 1 else oral sex so anything of touching some 1 else genitals to pleasure them

Kelly6 · Answer

Someone who had no sex

Jerre · Answer

Those never having sex

Rider22 · Answer

What.

jesse1997 · Answer

A virgin is someone who didn't had consensual sex yet

egykimo · Answer

Physiological wise a virgin fits the first choose. Ethically and theoretical wise a virgin should fit the second choise

shubhamchachapara · Answer

Virgin is cool minded person whose sexuality, attraction are at lowest level. I honestly believe that its biology that plays role making a person very sexual, low sexual etc. One with low sexuality doesn't get desire to have sex. Thats why they are virgin.