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What's the best sex position for orgasm?

Cause now yes it feels good when he's just inside of me. But nothing orgasmic. So what are the easiest and best positions?
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  • Well, for vaginal penetration: I like to typically be on top and rub my clit against his lower tummy while I'm moving back and forth on his penis. Or sometimes, he'll sit up and I'll sit on top of him facing him (face to face), while I fidget around and make sure that my clit is being stimulated. I ALSO like missionary, when I'm pumping my lower body up and down so it allows him to make deeper thrusts and I have his whole penis inside of me. It always works for me.

    For oral, I usually like being in doggy style position while his head is underneath me and I have control to move in different directions while he sticks out his tongue or he'll grab my hips and pulls me down so he can put his tongue deeper inside of me, pretty much face sitting.

    For anal, we do doggy style, while he massages my clit in a circular motion. OR I use a vibrator. Both gives me an amazing double penetration orgasm.

    Lastly, do Kegel exercises (for vaginal firmness) as well as working out. Another technique that works for me is when I tighten my vaginal walls while he's inside of me, sort of like kegels. Make sure to use the bathroom before sex. If he is large enough, you may feel it in your stomach and it will give you a sensation to pee.

  • It really depends on your body, but I can almost guarantee that anything that has him back on his knees and you on your back gives him full access to stimulate any part of your body to help push you over the edge. Also you can tilt your hips any way you like to get an angle that hits just right for you. The best part about this is that you can relax and just focus on what feels good.

  • Cowgirl, or the one where you're on top and he sits up too is really really intense. If his dick isn't getting your clit he should touch it with his free hand or you can yourself because most girls can't orgasm through penetration alone.

  • *WARNINGGGG GRAPHIC* LOL
    This could take me to cloud 9 so quickly and probably my favourite.. (Along with several others lol)
    https://i.ytimg.com/vi/RijVvKEhSL4/mqdefault.jpg

    • that looks fun

    • I swear you just make me laugh so much I remember I had this one picture that I had all the positions that I used to love and then I deleted the picture by mistake

    • @Alex1991 haha what lol ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Lol there are like so many on the Internet.. Go have a browse.. This lotus position though.. is a killer OMG!

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Most Helpful Guys

  • The best sexual position depends on many factors. First off, the size of the girl and type of vagina she has, as well as the size of the guy, and his sexual style. For example if the guy is your typical sewing machine guy, then well good luck on getting an orgasm in any position. Now with the girls, some girls clits are higher up and somes are almost right in the opening, so that affects the girls who are stimulated through the clit, which is NOT ALL WOMEN guys. Some girls, do not enjoy their clit being played with, just like some do not like their nipples played with, ears kissed, etc., so if that is your "go to move" you might want to have a back up plan.
    Red, there are so many different aspects that affect your question that I truly cannot give you an accurate answer other than, do whatever position feels the best to you, and Do not be afraid to tell the guy he is doing it wrong, and help him to do it better for you. Because even though we know it, most guys don't think about everyone single woman being different sexually, because we are too focused on the whole "OMG NAKED GIRL NAKED GIRL, PENIS... GO GO GO NAKED GIRL" so yes slow us down, and direct us to help BOTH of us get off.

    • Lmaoo “Omg naked girl naked girl penis... go go go naked girl” 😭😭

  • Cowgirl. If you rock instead of bounce and he tilts his hips and gets in you to the max, you'll generally cum and it you just keep fucking, you'll come again and again. If you work hard enough, you'll likely squirt. Use the bathroom good first and then if you feel the need to pee, just ignore it and hump him like your life depends on it.

    • That's correct, when you feel like peeing, just pee. Because it's NOT pee. And it's going to be intense for you.

    • @soneoak, thanks for your support. I would say that intense doesn't begin to describe it.

    • I would fuck this man. KIDDIN. 3 some with my Canadian Crush? ;)? SHE'S HOT. Kiddin! ... a Little. xoxoxo.

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  • You try girl on top?

  • First, when it comes to orgasm vaginally, position is a small part of the puzzle. The quick and dirty of it is positions like the lotus, coital alignment technique and the like are best for orgasm because they provide indirect stimulation to the clitoris. Aside from that, positions where he hits the anterior wall (the one closes to your belly button) of your vagina approximately 2-3 inches inside you are good for G-Spot stimulation. What position does this varies based on penis and vagina shape.

    More important IMHO are technique, foreplay, pacing and communication.

    With proper technique, only a few dozen thrusts are needed to bring orgasm in some cases. Use of shallow thrusting to increase anticipation (important to stimulating the mind which is how orgasms are made), gradual increasing intensity of penetration (to prevent pain or desensitizing), and consistent stimulation are great tools for building toward orgasm.

    Foreplay needs to last AT LEAST 10 minutes and in truth may be shorter if mentally, arousal has been building through other non-touch based stimulation (dirty talk, etc). Most people who have vaginal orgasms at least do SOME clitoral stimulation or orgasm before penetration so that a woman is at the plateau stage by the time of penetration.

    Pacing is important because going too fast too quick can dull pleasure as well as kill excitement and anticipation. A common technique to solve this is mixing periods of shallow thrusts with deep penetration keeping her guessing when she will feel that satisfying fullness. That desire helps move her closer to orgasm.

    Communication is most key as he needs to know what is working and what isn't. You may moan, breathe, grab, pet, pull, smile, direct, arch your back, rock your hips, or anything else you wish to communicate to him. As consistent stimulation is important, you need to tell him when he hits the spot so he knows to keep going.

    Let me know if you need more and hope that helps =)

  • You on top, and then you control how it feels for you. You have to keep going. Go at a rate that doesn't tire you out, slow and steady >>> fast rush.

  • Missionary is very underrated, he can get really deep then.
    Also with you in top.. That way you can control the pace :)

    • Maybe I don't find that a boy can come deep in with missionary, it seems to me that he can come in deeper with doggy (as I've experienced) or with cowgirl. Besides that cowgirl has the advantage that you can rub your clit into his tummy.

  • There are a ton. You have to find your sweet spot. For most of the girls I have loved it has been her on top. This leaves my hands free, my mouth free, stimulates your clit ( I can reach it too) and pushes into your g-spot area easier.

  • When I'm eating her delicious self... She loves it. When her legs are high in the air and I'm pressed firmly against her telling her how beautiful she feels.

  • Well I am NOT a sex expert but I did see a lot of p**** when I was a older teenager. Well if he's a strong guy who can lift you up I think being next to the wall f****** you hard as hell and fast Is ever or in the windshield having you doggy style position while your tits are showing through the windshield are the best positions. Or when you are laying down on a sofa with him while you looking back and he lift your leg up while f****** your pussy I think that's another best position. While kissing you and grabbing your tits.

    • p*rn is the worst place to go to give advice on making sex enjoyable for women.

    • I didn't say go to get advice I said that I used to watch a lot of p*rn on when I was a older teenager becoming a young adult

    • I feel bad for the women you've been with.

  • There is nothing better than when a girl rides you... doggystyle too...

  • Whichever one gets you off!

  • 69, pretzel , bjs

  • A lot of women do not orgasm using penetration. Try cunnelingus for a clitoral orgasm. Learn about your errogenous zones. Breasts have nerves that stimulate the same part of the brain as the genitals, so breast play shouldn't be overlooked. It's really necessary that you're comfortable with your lover and feel relaxed. It's easier to climax with a clear head. Don't focus on it as a goal. Enjoy the process and tell your partner what feels good and what doesn't. Hopefully he is more into pleasing you and not hung on feeling "criticized". Reaching orgasm isn't fixed on a certain position because everyone's body is shaped differently. Experiment! Touch, penetration, oral. It's all good. Sex should be fun. Happy exploring.

  • never had one, so no opinion sory :(

  • Most girls have problems with orgasm during penetration. Stimulation of the clitoris during penetration majority of girls leads to orgasm. Deep fast breathing (inhalation and exhalation should last for about one second or less) also helps to have good orgasm.

  • try doggy style. works for me and my partner.

  • Which do you like? Girls I know all love doggy style x

  • What for someone is good for another is bad. Impossible to know, justask him. Talk

  • Any position that feels good.

  • Missionary , tell him to get up high enough to rub on your nub.

  • the girl on top or doggy is best!

  • Him on his knees. You on your back with your knees pulled back. You will have easy access to your clitoris so you can masterbate while he's inside you. Its REALLY hard to cum from penetration alone.

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